I'm so depressed and don't know what to do with my life I need advices?

[Anonymous]

I'm 24 going 25. I'm still in high-school. I don't have many friends, only 2 and we never meet. I meet my mom and dad a lot. It's sad isn't it

[ChrisMaster69]

Sorry to read this,

I would like to assume you have been going to counselling?
if not book some in, even if you have in the past, look at a catch up session.

as for the rest, how is your confidence as a person?
Unless you have some level of confidence, simply joining a club etc may be counter productive and I would look at improving your confidence a bit first.

also practice talking to people. Go out shopping and ask sales people questions, electronic shops are good, as you can ask a geek stuff and they will chat away. Get used to simply chatting with a stranger.

once you have confidence and chatting sorted, start looking at a club or similar to join, something you like, it can be online to start with, then as you build up a rapport with people, can arrange meet ups etc,

[SimpDotOrg]

It's sad if you're unhappy with it. A lot of times, it takes a good burst of effort to start changing your life in a positive direction. Things that bring me happiness are the satisfaction of finishing drawings/art projects, spending time with my girlfriend/friends/parents, laughing, etc. Figure out what makes you happy, even if it takes some trial and error. Put yourself out there. It will be worth it.

[chriscdi]

Get a job, keeps you busy and you get paid for it 🤷🏽‍♂️

[exitseven]

25 is too old to be in high school. That might be your problem. I suspect once you get out of high school and out into the world things will get better.

[ohshee]

Hi how are you so can you tell me why you think you're depressed or why you are depressed

[DaveToo]

Why are you still in high school? Is there a reason why you lack friends? I would need more information before I can make any suggestions.

[Andres77]

No hobbies?
When are you going to finish school and what are your plans for after?

[Asker]

No I don't know what I like anymore. I have been mentally ill for so long

[Andres77]

Pm me

[Andres77]

Who told you that you were mentally ill?
What is the diagnosis? PM me if you don't want to post it... and if you don't want to say, that's fine.
How long have you been dealing with this?
Are you on meds?
If so, are you taking them regularly?

[InferiorElegy]

I'm in the same boat but I'm only going to live til I'm 35.

[Jamie05rhs]

Why do you say that?

[InferiorElegy]

@Jamie05rhs I made a vow to myself that if I don't succeed in anything by then despite trying the hardest I possibly can, I'd just give up trying and just let myself fade out. There's no point in living and trying my hardest into old age just to die a useless unwanted lonely person when I can do that sooner.

[Jamie05rhs]

@InferiorElegy Then fade out. Naturally. Don't turn the damn machine off.

[InferiorElegy]

@Jamie05rhs I just mean I'm going to stay in bed until I finally pass.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh. Well, as long as you eat and drink and go to the bathroom when you need to.

[EaterPeter]

Finish high school. Finish bachelor's. Get your depression fixed. Find cause and triggers.

[888theGreat]

Why are you still in high school?