I think you should get out now. If you were my daughter, sister, friend, I would tell you to leave him.
It's not his fault, but they are his family and if you have a future together you will have a very stressful uphill battle on your hands.
What if they reject the children you have together? Imagine your child being shunned by her grandparents or treated like an outcast when her cousins are getting spoiled with grandma's affection.
You're in for a lot of heartache.
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If his family is like that than he might be the same way most likely. I personally wouldn’t do it cause I wouldn’t want to later on if it gets serious, have to associate myself with that family
I would not tolerate racism anywhere in my family, that would be a deal breaker however I would only make the decision if I saw it myself rather than hearsay. You can probably convince him to make the case to meet, maybe he's blowing it too far out of the water and the parents likely will be fine. I think that's worth a shot, that way you can both say you gave it your all rather than end it on something he just beleives.
Ok, it is not fair to a person to believe they are a certain way because of their family. That being said, I think you should meet your boyfriend’s family. If they attack you, see if he sticks up for you. If he does, then he’s good. If he doesn’t, then get rid of him.
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It's idiotic to punish him for how his family is.
That's like shitting your pants and changing your shirt to be honest.
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