I mean a very close and caring relative. Like this other cousin is there standing like a ghost just listening to the other cousins and the other cousins ignoring her.
For example. Two cousins are making plans to go on a local road vacation trip with theri mom and dad to the house of another relative who lives in anotehr city, they are all family. And these relatives are speaking or making arrangements about the trip iin the middle t of their first close cousin. I said in the middle beause the cousins who are arranging the trip were seated in the same bench one in each end but the excluded cousin were seated in the middle of both.
The cosuisns are making plans to go over an aunts house (a house that in time all family had gone in the past when they were younger or even when they were kids or now older as well to, it is the vacation spot for the family)
So the cousins (they are siblings but you are all close cousins)) were talking abou tthe trip they both are going to make with their parents. and you are just there seated listening to the plans and with your mouth shut.
These cousins are the closest cousins this other cousin (the one in the middle) have and they always get together often just those cousins and their parents and this other cousin and the mother and brother cousin.. But I found a bit rude the cousin seated in the middle of the other two listening quietly to her cousins speaking between them abou their plan going on a road local trip to their aunts house (the same aunt of all of the cousins an they never mention to their cousin who was there seated with them in the same bench or at least say something like: "Hey would you like to join us and our parents and go to the aunt s house "?
To top it all off those both cousins ask this other ignored cousin if she can help and make digitally some wedding invitations for their mother upcoming wedding, cause she has IT knowledge.
Is that impolite or rude from these cousins what they did or it is normal?
For example. Two cousins are making plans to go on a local road vacation trip with theri mom and dad to the house of another relative who lives in anotehr city, they are all family. And these relatives are speaking or making arrangements about the trip iin the middle t of their first close cousin. I said in the middle beause the cousins who are arranging the trip were seated in the same bench one in each end but the excluded cousin were seated in the middle of both.
The cosuisns are making plans to go over an aunts house (a house that in time all family had gone in the past when they were younger or even when they were kids or now older as well to, it is the vacation spot for the family)
So the cousins (they are siblings but you are all close cousins)) were talking abou tthe trip they both are going to make with their parents. and you are just there seated listening to the plans and with your mouth shut.
These cousins are the closest cousins this other cousin (the one in the middle) have and they always get together often just those cousins and their parents and this other cousin and the mother and brother cousin.. But I found a bit rude the cousin seated in the middle of the other two listening quietly to her cousins speaking between them abou their plan going on a road local trip to their aunts house (the same aunt of all of the cousins an they never mention to their cousin who was there seated with them in the same bench or at least say something like: "Hey would you like to join us and our parents and go to the aunt s house "?
To top it all off those both cousins ask this other ignored cousin if she can help and make digitally some wedding invitations for their mother upcoming wedding, cause she has IT knowledge.
Is that impolite or rude from these cousins what they did or it is normal?
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Of course
I was just there in the middle of my 2 cousins while they were talking about the road local trip they are going to take with their paretns to our aunts house. My mom and I went with them last year as well to our aunts house, because they invited my mom and me to join them, but we went cause they ask us and told us to join them. But in this last occasion they made plans by themselves and I was not with my couisn when they made those plans. But yesterday I was with my cousins seating in the middle of the same bench while they were making plans to go this year as well.
That's just rude
They simply ghosted me. I mean we are cousins and the closest ones I interact with with past gatherings together even we went to Eruorpe together 4 years ago. And they always take me into account and invite me to join them to go each Saturday to a local organic fair and I go. In this organic fair it was when yesterdya we all sat in the bench together to eat something and chit chat while they started to talk about the local road trip to our aunts house I was just htere listening and quiet.
I wouldn't make effort with them if there going to do that