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Is he going to ask me to be his girlfriend?

I met this great and smart guy, he asked me out on a date to a bar/ restaurant; the date was great, few days later we went on a second date which was also great, we kissed and he asked me to come to his place and I said no. third date we went to the movies.. he was lovely and sweet and attentive. Then for the fourth date he cooked for me, that night we started making out at his place and he wanted to have sex; I told him that I don’t get intimate with guys unless I’m in an exclusive or serious relationship; he seemed to be a bit disappointed and he said “how could you be in a relationship with someone without having sex with them first, since you don’t know if you are going to have a sexual chemistry”…? Then he said we would both compromise on this matter. Next time I saw him it was on my birthday, he brought me flowers, we made out and things got a little hot but no sex. Next date we went out to a restaurant, then he took me to his place, where I spent the night; same story, we were turned on but no sex. We usually text every day, but not constantly. For some reason I feel very insecure in regards to whether he is taking me serious or not. I don’t want to casual date forever or just be friends with benefits, I want a serious relationship. I asked him to let me know if he wants to move things forward or not that way we don’t waste our time; he said that my statement seem kind of harsh, and asked why do I feel so uncertain?

I don’t know what is the best way to ask the question, or approach him on this matter but he seems to be interested in being with me, but I am not sure if he is ever going to ask me to be his girlfriend. I don’t know if I should stay like this or just move on. Any suggestions?

Is he going to ask me to be his girlfriend?
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