Can anyone tell me what happened?

[soulbabe]

I only had one friend I made on my own and he was my cousin but he lost interest in me and tossed my ass to the side line when he turned 14 and started highschool the only thing he wanted to is party with his new friends and chase tail.

like we used to do everything together from creating new games watching anime together yelling at the screen fighting off older kids we were inseparable

then something changed he didn't want to hang out with me anymore when he came over to my house he would just pay attention to his phone and keep asking if he could go now and he stopped inviting me to everything like I wasn't even invited to his birthday which freaking stung
which I was spiteful about I knew he was going to see a movie so I went to the same movie theater to watch a different movie just to see what bitches I got replaced with. He doesn't even really talk to me anymore unless he wants something. Ps this is years old like 6 year's ago I just wanted answers I never got for him ditching me.

[Máiiréad]

Perhaps he didn’t think it was “cool” to be best friends with his girl cousin around that time. Kids are weird AF and when they enter high school, they go through some weird hormonal and ego changes. Hopefully he has turned into less of an ass now 6 years later… have you tried reaching out since then?

[soulbabe]

Nope if anything he's More of an ass and a even bigger flake. I still see him from time to time

[soulbabe]

Really sucks to I didn't / don't have friends so losing my best friend was a pretty big hit and I'll admit I am more than a little bitter about it I just don't say it out loud

[Máiiréad]

I don’t blame you. You never got closure over him pulling that BS.
Only he knows the method to his stupidity.

[soulbabe]

I've tried asking about but he just insists he doesn't know what I'm talking about.

[Máiiréad]

He can’t be that oblivious. He doesn’t want to own up to his shit.

[soulbabe]

I'm well ware if he wants to keep hanging out in his douche canoe so be it I have been without friends for 6 year's and I don't really care anymore I just hope he realizes that when the trash he calls friends get him in deep shit he's on his own

[Máiiréad]

I heard the secret to a long life is to master the art of not giving a fuck. That, and minding ones own business.
So, when his day comes and he gets himself in deep shit, you’ll be minding your own! ✨

[Grond21]

What she said

[Apulu_3]

I don't know. He may have just casually lost interest or there is some misunderstandings between you both. Have you tried talking with him?

[soulbabe]

Yah I did he just insist he doesn't know what I'm talking about and continues to be a douche canoe

[Apulu_3]

Then he must have lost interest for sure or is angry at you for some reasons.

[soulbabe]

I can think of only one thing he would be angry about but that was several years after he ditched me so I don't think so

[Apulu_3]

Yes. If he is holding a gruge that long then he wasn't worthy to be your friend anyways.

[soulbabe]

Unfortunately that means I'm alone rather he was worth it or not

[Apulu_3]

Better being alone than with someone who will keep you sad. Like a blank paper is much better than a scribbled one.

[soulbabe]

Meh still it's hard being alone all the time

[Apulu_3]

Yeah it is. I can understand.

[Sevenpointfive]

it's probably that you and his friends didn't do the same things or you weren't good enough (/too good) to do the same things

[soulbabe]

I understand maybe he didn't want me around his friends but why stop hanging out with me entirely

[Sevenpointfive]

they thought that your interests had changed too much

[soulbabe]

Still feel like I deserved a explanation rather than being ghosted it's not like he can avoid me he's related to me

[Sevenpointfive]

it's not like you can't ask him since you're related

[soulbabe]

I did ask him he ignores the question or claims to not know what I'm talking about

[Sevenpointfive]

you have to accept that he's changed. it has more to do with him than it does you. it sucks, but i think you should move on. i had the same thing happen and now it's happening again

[soulbabe]

Probably wouldn't bother me as much if he hadn't been my only friend

[Sevenpointfive]

that sucks. time to make some more

[soulbabe]

I tried several times but I have never successfully made friends. I tried making some in school by seeming friendly so I took part in a couple clubs and brought homemade cupcakes or other food for everyone but still id be tossed off to the side line then in college I tried inviting people I knew to a certain degree to various things like I tried inviting people to bowling , water parks, movie's, I even tried my hand at throwing a party but without fail everyone always gives me sounds fun I'll be there then cancels the day of I invited 15 different people most of which didn't know each other and they all cancelled 3 hour's before the party. I'm just not well liked I guess

[Sevenpointfive]

time to get a new cousin yeah?

[soulbabe]

I already have 9

[Sevenpointfive]

did he ever hit on you? (is it possible that he wanted incest)?

[soulbabe]

Wtf no ware would you even get that idea

[Sevenpointfive]

i saw it on pornhub

[noohair]

Not everything is supposed to last forever. People can grow in different directions.

[Jamie05rhs]

Puberty. Puberty happened.