I only had one friend I made on my own and he was my cousin but he lost interest in me and tossed my ass to the side line when he turned 14 and started highschool the only thing he wanted to is party with his new friends and chase tail.
like we used to do everything together from creating new games watching anime together yelling at the screen fighting off older kids we were inseparable
then something changed he didn't want to hang out with me anymore when he came over to my house he would just pay attention to his phone and keep asking if he could go now and he stopped inviting me to everything like I wasn't even invited to his birthday which freaking stung which I was spiteful about I knew he was going to see a movie so I went to the same movie theater to watch a different movie just to see what bitches I got replaced with. He doesn't even really talk to me anymore unless he wants something. Ps this is years old like 6 year's ago I just wanted answers I never got for him ditching me.
Perhaps he didn’t think it was “cool” to be best friends with his girl cousin around that time. Kids are weird AF and when they enter high school, they go through some weird hormonal and ego changes. Hopefully he has turned into less of an ass now 6 years later… have you tried reaching out since then?
Really sucks to I didn't / don't have friends so losing my best friend was a pretty big hit and I'll admit I am more than a little bitter about it I just don't say it out loud
I'm well ware if he wants to keep hanging out in his douche canoe so be it I have been without friends for 6 year's and I don't really care anymore I just hope he realizes that when the trash he calls friends get him in deep shit he's on his own
I heard the secret to a long life is to master the art of not giving a fuck. That, and minding ones own business. So, when his day comes and he gets himself in deep shit, you’ll be minding your own! ✨
you have to accept that he's changed. it has more to do with him than it does you. it sucks, but i think you should move on. i had the same thing happen and now it's happening again
I tried several times but I have never successfully made friends. I tried making some in school by seeming friendly so I took part in a couple clubs and brought homemade cupcakes or other food for everyone but still id be tossed off to the side line then in college I tried inviting people I knew to a certain degree to various things like I tried inviting people to bowling , water parks, movie's, I even tried my hand at throwing a party but without fail everyone always gives me sounds fun I'll be there then cancels the day of I invited 15 different people most of which didn't know each other and they all cancelled 3 hour's before the party. I'm just not well liked I guess
