What do you think about adoption? Would you consider adopting a child?

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JDAC2209199 · Accepted Answer

I'd heavily consider it tbh as there's enough children who need good parents in a time where parent hood isn't really advised at least where I'm from as there are multiple factors which are slowly shaping this place into a rapidly declining country where it'll be hard to rase one as the environment points to them having a bad life. However for the kids already stuck here It'd be nice to help a few out till they're at least old enough to make their own decision as an Adult and get a shot at a semi decent life or at least a good childhood for the most part.

awkward_author · Accepted Answer

I think adoption's pretty cool. It's a choice available if you don't have the means to raise a child. Someday, I would like to adopt if I have a partner who wants kids as well.

momwithaquestion · Accepted Answer

After all my kids are grown and moved out, I want to foster teenagers and then if it goes good then adopt. The reason I want to foster teenagers is because i've seen so many great kids with so much potential go down the wrong path because they are stuck in a group home with nobody there for them. And I feel like with teenagers, they would only be there for a few years until they are old enough to leave and then I could get more. But with babies or little kids, you have to be there for them for so long and thats a big comittment.

whistlingwh0res · Accepted Answer

If I have a husband, house, money and time why not?

NaultD · Answer

Problem is it gets sketchy really quick. Adoptions from over seas is more then likely human trafficking. They tell the born parents the kid is just going to school for a few months and are coming back. Ultimately a lie. That is the more common situation.

Second most common is white marriages want a white child to adopt. The most prominent area is from Russia with a lot of birth defects from alcohol and drugs. That are ultimately not compatible with life. International adoptions agencies should be crimes against humanity in my honest opinion.

Adoptions should be first and foremost be within the family. Secondly be in the village of a sorts. That is the essential due diligence needed for adoptions. If you can't get that village connection, i say military of any branch recruiting is the next best bet. A military academy is 100% better place to be then in a random pedophiles foster home that has beem historically been too common.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

I am adopted, lol. I think it’s a great thing, but it can come with a lot of disconnection of identity for the child, if that makes sense. In my personal experience, I didn’t know who the hell I was, where I came from, or what my history looked like. I was disconnected from my identity because I had no ties/knowledge of biological family.

Yes, I would adopt a child, and I would have my own children too.

BipBipLeddus · Answer

I think adoption is great. Gets children without a home a place where they'll be taken care of and cherished.

Would I ever adopt? Hell no, I don't have the means or mental strength. The time and resources it takes to adopt is basically a vetting process.

I have one that I personally squeezed out, that'll do.

rockytherock · Answer

If I ever wanted kids, yeah but I don't and want a lot of money so no. For women, just having one child ages you more than 9 years, plus shortens your telomeres accelerating your aging faster than obesity and and or cigarettes, plus its real lame bein a mom.

Crepe_tart · Answer

I really like the ideea of adopting but the process is hard. I would like to adopt a child, even a teenager rather than bring more children to this world honestly

Slartybartfast · Answer

I met my oldest sister when I was 27. My other sister and I both told her (separately) that she was the lucky one. She grew up on a farm, we grew up in public housing moving constantly. No heat in the winter, bare cupboard at the end of every month. Mom crying over bills she can't pay. Can't play a sport or do other extracurricular activities because you simply can't afford the uniform, not eating lunch or breakfast, all our clothes from the salvation army.

Adoption is a great thing.

Agape93 · Answer

It's a horrible system. Too many kids go into it each year, only a fraction are actually adopted, some of those that do could be sent to abusive homes. Those left behind can easily be abused as well, and left to grow up knowing they're unloved and unwanted. Plus some places shut out good people from being parents just because of religion, racial or sexual identity issues.

No, I won't adopt. I don't want kids.

Dragonpurple · Answer

My second wife and I tried to have children for years and never could, she had some issues. We tried to adopt but after dumping 12 grand into it, gave up when Covid hit and shut everything down so it wasted our money.

There is such a huge waiting list to adopt newborns, 2 to 3 years on average. It is why so many adopt from other countries.

PrettyPriya · Answer

If I am unable to have children, I would 1000% consider adoption. I really want a family, so if left with no choice, I absolutely adopt.

humpbackjack · Answer

I adopted my 2 oldest daughters because their dads were dead beats and I didn’t want them to feel unwanted and I love them and raised them all the same if you give me problems I’ll give you problems if someone else gives them problems they get bigger problems

libsaretards · Answer

I would love to adopt. I do not see myself getting married or even dating for that matter. Women can be a pain in the ass and why waste time only for things not to work out? My career path simply does not let me have the time to date. I could probably raise a kid with the help of my family.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes because I wouldn’t want to add onto the problem of overpopulation. And a lot of us are just fully blind to the real problem of overpopulation. Some of us literally can’t open our eyes and notice how they’re billions of people on the roads when taking off on an airplane.

Sasha_Gee · Answer

I was adopted and I love my parents very much. I would be open to adopting a kid

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I don't support same sex couples adopting, and I also don't like these Western couples, especially celebrities adopting foreign children, when there are children in their own country that could use a good home.

But I don't like the idea of adopting. I'd rather have my own, the natural way. Plus especially if someone already has a biological child, I feel the adopted child will never be loved in the same way.

Joker_ · Answer

I ‎‎‎‎‎‎ suppose ‎‎‎‎‎‎ I ‎‎‎‎‎‎ think ‎‎‎‎‎‎ adoption ‎‎‎‎‎‎ is ‎‎‎‎‎‎ wicked ‎‎‎‎‎‎ cool. I ‎‎‎‎‎‎ personally ‎‎‎‎‎‎ would ‎‎‎‎‎‎ not ‎‎‎‎‎‎ consider ‎‎‎‎‎‎ an ‎‎‎‎‎‎ adoption ‎‎‎‎‎‎ or ‎‎‎‎‎‎ at ‎‎‎‎‎‎ least ‎‎‎‎‎‎ not ‎‎‎‎‎‎ right ‎‎‎‎‎‎ now. ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎

whirled_up_girl · Answer

I wouldn’t want to as a single parent but if I got married I would consider it.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

If:
- My ex lost her new man.
- We got the chance to reconcile.
- She and her daughter miraculously secured green cards.
- She was willing to marry me.

Then, I would totally adopt the little girl. But that's a lot of variables.

Adam1978 · Answer

Not with the adoption system we have in sweden. I would just be pissing my money away as a single guy. You basically need to have a family to adopt children. And if I have a family I don't need to adopt.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes with my fiance. I feel bad when I hear stories she shares of kids who don't have family, no support... they suffer at such a young age... and we have so much. this is not a fair world, I respect those who take on such endeavors.

KatherineJ · Answer

If it weren’t for adoption I wouldn’t have been given the gift of motherhood.

tasleen · Answer

I already adapted 5 little angels nd I feel so happy

TsAubreyKate · Answer

As a person who grew up without parents I absolutely would if were super rich I’d adopt them all that’s really sad and enough people don’t care about orphans in fact that’s probably the only thing I like about the lgbtq community if people took better care of children 90% of the worlds problems would be solved in a 100 years

howhigh420 · Answer

If there is no one to look after them treat tbem nice take them in to your home and give them all the love they have waited for

AdithyaR · Answer

I honestly feel it's better than giving birth to a child. Why bring another child to this world when there's so many who are starved of affection and care?

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

I think I would consider it if it turns out I couldn't conceive naturally. I think I would rather that than going through IVF

spartan55 · Answer

Not at this point in my life. I have several friends who have adopted and they have all had exceptional experiences.

Diodoro · Answer

If it were the child of my best friend or very close friend and I was in a position to do so well then yes. Outside that no.

arun934 · Answer

It's a grate move. Yes I will once I'm capable of taking care

AncientWisdom · Answer

I wouldn’t actively seek it , but I would never turn a child away if they needed my help.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I can't conceive & bear children. My husband & I considered adoption but the idea just faded away.

InferiorElegy · Answer

Thought about it but, it would look bad as a single ugly ass guy like me was to try and adopt, they'd probably call the cops thinking I'm some kind of creep, besides why adopt when I don't have much more time of my life left.

fonduegirl · Answer

For sure. I don't want to get married, or have a kid of my own. Adoption, at some point, would seem ideal for me.

BlackTealLazer · Answer

I would not because I don't like being around kids like that.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would love to adopt kids, but not until I’m married.

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

Not at my age, but when I was younger if we had not been able to have children, I would have done it in a heartbeat.

KatanaSlice · Answer

I would never adopt because I don't want children but I think that people who adopt are doing something noble.

Dargil · Answer

I approve of it and would if my wife and I could not.

Browneye57 · Answer

It's a thoughtful choice.  Understand the parenting bond isn't biological. Do you love your cat?

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Lol somebody adopt me please 🙂 I don't think i am the right person to adopt someone

collie22 · Answer

i think about it sometimes, it might be right for me

Cubus · Answer

It's a good option. I would consider this, but I want to have my biological children too.

SaraSmithishere · Answer

If it’s not my biological child, I’m not taking care of it

BoobMan · Answer

It's great that there are people in the world that do it, but I personally wouldn't.

rabbitzzz · Answer

The way things are going. It might be my only option for future.

syskerully · Answer

I'm happy with my cat, who is technically adopted lol

Tomsta · Answer

Only way i'd considering ever having kids. Get to miss out on the baby years

jasco · Answer

Unless I can't have kids or if my wife wanted them than no

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Only if I talk it over with my wife and we come to that decision together.

UdontNeedtoknow · Answer

adoption is fine if that is what you want, its not for me however.

msc545 · Answer

As an adopted person, I can tell you that if adopt a child you are asking for years of trouble.

OddBeMe · Answer

I hate all children, so no. But if I were forced to be a parent, at least let me have sex first.

Twalli · Answer

I am open to considering it. I don't want to right now.

devoygf · Answer

no for obvious reasons 1: I'm a child 2:I want to birth my own child

creepy_spirit · Answer

Yes , if I need a situation that adopt someone yes I do, and love them like our family

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

Once my kids are grown I would

melanieeeB · Answer

Positively and hell yeah i would

Prettygurl12 · Answer

I would consider adoption.

Desconhecida · Answer

Absolutely! Actually, it's a dream of mine.

Heartache0405 · Answer

Adoption is the only way I’d ever have a kid.

Commander_Red · Answer

I would rather adopt than have my own children.

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