Girls, Am I a bad mom?

[Anonymous]

I feel like a terrible mom. So today me and my daughter was out in the city and i was bursting to pee and i couldn't find a bathroom so i ended up peeing in a parking garage. I just feel like such a bad rolemodel im suposed to be the adult and be able to hold it mabye im overeacting to it my anxiety is going crazy right now. Have you ever done anything like that? Or is there something wrong with me?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I don’t think you’re a bad mom, but it could influence your daughter to do the same later on in life if you continue to do so.
Planning ahead and managing your time and activities is important, so you won’t have to do it again.. But then again, I don’t blame you.. Bladders are weird and can make you need to use the restroom randomly.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you, just try to use the restroom more frequently and empty your bladder before you go places.

[Asker]

Thank you. Yeah i had a talk with her later about that she should never do that. Sorry if its too personal but have you ever done anything like that? I just want to hear someone elses perspective

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I don’t have children, but I haven’t done something like that around children.
I would only do that with no one around.