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It isn't his responsibility to bring food to all of her other mistakes. She is likely a bad person which most single mothers are that have kids from multiple different men.
Maybe she should give the dad majority custody instead.
The mom should have thought to bring food for her kids and I've been a kid in the mom's kids position and I understood that it wasn't my property to take unless offered
from my own perspective, i never knocked any girl up, but had paternity fraud attempted against me, so to hell with paying for some other dudes kid.
More info needed... is it his first time doing this? Why is she dating him if isn't willing to treat her kids well? How many kids? Damn I think that's tough... maybe he is broke? Lol
statue is hilarious by the way
He does it several times a week.
Oh so the kid he brought for is her kid too... Hmm, I understand how as a mother she feels the need for equality among all her kids, and true they are all siblings, ... this relationship is very toxic FOR the kids... if he knew she had other kids, starting a family with her was a bad idea if he doesn't want to be a father to all...
And to her, didn't she see signs before? How was he treating her other kids before 🤔... women must do whst is best for their children, to begin with, ensure to ask questions before forming relationships and extra families...
But I don't know if he suddenly change behavior.. who knows...
We don't know if they are living together... or if it is a committed relationship
Whose house it is if they live together...
True she can't expect him to bring food for all if he doesn't have a committed relationship with her nor does he live with them... but why the hell does he have a kid with her... yes both made very bad decisions... poor kids
It's not her ex husband. It's not her boyfriend. She doesn't live with him. They both should be intelligent enough to spare all the kid's feelings and just arrange a day the dude can pick up his kid and take him to McDonald's
Not his responsibility sorry... sometimes when I buy my kids food and my nerves and neohews are here it's not my responsibility to feed them. The responsibility is on the parents. Dad is right maybe that's all he could afford was for his kid.
I'm a single parent and can take care of my kids - I date single parents who understand kids. I wouldn't feel comfort dating a man who has no experiences with kids.
Neices and nephews
You're a single parent 💀💀💀
A single parent from my divorce a difference
Me and my ex co parent and can take care of our kid's
Oh he dropped you huh💀💀 I see
My ex husband cheated.. worry about getting a husband
Food for All the kids
If he wants to other kids to accept him. He has to be fair and treat all of them fairly
If he don't, he shouldn't have started a relationship with a ready made family
He's not he's a baby dad of one of the kids
let their dad get them McDonalds. the mother should never have let a loser cum in them. which is why i would nevwr be in the situation. i never dated low class
If all the kids were there, he should have brought them all food.
"It takes a village"
Even if it was adults, it would have been really rude to single someone out like that.
Single moms have a lot of baggage, it's not his kids so it's not his problem.
Is he still with the mum? If in a relationship then yeah, he ought to be treating the kids more equally. If not, it's not his problem.
I think that I kind of agree. Yea it would have been nice of him but he is not obligated to either.
You just answered your own question Mate.
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You just want us to tell you what’s Moral and socially acceptable so you can decide which morals to go with and so we can confirm your own Beliefs to be True
I'd say thats pathetic AF. When you take on a single mother you should know what you're signing up for, it's not the kids fault but their mothers & if you accepted her you need to accept her kids too or gtfo.
That’s messed up, they’re KIDS. Imaging being a grown man and being that petty. I’d leave a guy like that.
They aren't together.
When a guy takes on a woman with kids, they ALL then become his responsibility too.. There is no wiggle room as far as I'm concerned!
No his kid be the oldest what she does after is not his problem.
@Fuentes You can argue till you're blue in the face.. You'll still be wrong.
Your just on a simp energy you love paying for children that's not yours and that's where you're wrong. Because that just isn't normal
@Fuentes Yeah yeah.. blahdy blah.. Still. if you go into a relationship with a woman who has baggage.. that baggage becomes yours. Failure to accept that will mean there is no long lasting relationship and why so many break down.. if you can't understand the basic argument of that, then I pity whoever you end up with.
No it doesn't, you can be stuck with all the kids that ain't yours that's just sad and a simp way to go out and live life. You sound like you been single all your life and that's true that's the reason why, being way to damn nice.
@Fuentes I've never been single for more than 2 weeks at a time. and I have never taken on someone else's kids either for that matter.. but IF I did, I would always treat them as my own...
"if you go into a relationship with a woman who has baggage.. that baggage becomes yours." 😂 Sir White Knight of the ghetto has arrived.
So you're a simp then?
@bamesjond0069 this dude swears he's not a SIMP tho lol what man openly wants to PAY for sperm that isn't his haha
@bamesjond0069 You really are scared of responsibility aren't you. Even to the point of resulting to playground childish name calling. And yet? You're no nearer to being right :P.. Keep trying if you wish though.. I'll give you one more shot at it.
Its immoral to remove other people from the consequences of their own actions. Its not noble to be responsible for things one not ought be responsible for.
you can't have your cake and eat it too. You can't date a women with kids and neglect the kids. They turn into your responsibility too.
I don’t think they were dating
@SmokinAces2000 Then what were they doing if they are mom and dad?
They aren’t together he was just dropping off some McDonald’s for his son
@SmokinAces2000 Oh the children were at like a playdate? If the kid asked for some food I don't really think its his responsibility to feed the moms kids.
I’m not sure if they were on a play date or if they lived there but it sounded like they did
@SmokinAces2000 I watched the video. She said they are siblings meaning that the mom was in a prior relationship and had 3 kids. Then he came in and had a kid with her. Meaning they are half siblings through the mom. So what I said before is what I think
I’m pretty sure they’re not together, he’s just the baby daddy of one of the kids
@JustinTheGreat like he was a fling and they had a child but they aren't dating? Then yeah its not his responsibility to feed those children
Yea its messed up. I hated when my mom brought food to my sis but not me yet expected me to buy for the whole fckin house
I'd get food for all the kids but I kinda see the point he has. If a divorced man remarries he then has to support two households. He pays child support for the first and pays for his step kids in the second.
He is 100% right. He should just bounce. This is why dads dont stick around. Sorry kid but your mom is too much of a freak for a man to handle and the court gave you to her instead of dad. Thats the breaks.
I'm on the fence until I find out more details. Did he marry a woman with kids already? I do feel bad for the other kids though, and that could breed resentment in them towards the 'golden child'.
He's right. They aren't his responsibility, his happiness is not his concern. Get your kid fed, mama can feed the other little crotch goblins
This right here is why men don't want to date single moms.
I'm not those babies daddies. He should have just brought his kid out to eat in secret. It's the moms fault she's broke not HIS.
Saw the video yesterday.
Where is/are the other kids dad (s)?
And why does he have to get all the food?
That bitch is for the streets.
8 kids from how many different dads?
She should get some self respect. And respect for the life she's bringing into this world.
well, he shouldn't be buying that crap anyway, in the first place. you want to have dinner, cook a decent meal
I could care less what some ghetto whore POS thinks about baby daddy bringing McDonald's for one of her crack babies.
Wrong! Next time she goes out for food and comes back home to eat it, she should not bring any for him or his kid!
Well when you enter a relationship with her, you have responsibilities not for her but for all children also. they are also part of her
Seems like he is a baby daddy, not an actual boyfriend or husband. Her other kids aren't his responsibility.
@TruthBringer as i don't know him can't judge him... but if the way he react as the post suggested... then that behaviour is indeed very bad
@Wild_princess It's bad if they are in a COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. Which they are NOT. So no, it isn't bad behavior from his end. If I have to give blame, I would blame the mother for being a baby momma. Sucks for the other kids to see their sibling eating McDonalds without them, but the fact remains: He wasn't in the wrong.
@TruthBringer like a few more burgers will cost a fortune 🤔
@Wild_princess when you women wonder why men don’t want single moms🤣
@Creampiekarl420 its my personal opinion i don't represent entire woman race
Yea sure whatever
@Wild_princess Clearly you're missing the point here. We're discussing responsibility here, not finances. A few more burgers may be too much for some people as not everyone is financially capable (and still dumb enough to burden themselves with kids).
Even if I'm capable financially, I'm not obligated to provide for kids not my own to a baby momma I have no committed relationship with. You don't buy other kids at the grociery store candy when you're getting them for your own child. This isn't any different. The other 3 kids are NOT his responsibility and he isn't morally wrong for not providing for kids that aren't his to a woman he has no exclusive relationship with. Lose the entitlement, missy.
@TruthBringer this is why you stay tf away from single moms. They are trash and undateable. Only stupids fuck with them. Have one kid and be responsible for 4. Smh.
@bamesjond0069 Especially single mothers with kids of more than one man. Those are the absolute worst as showcased in this video.
Depends, is there more to the story?
If he knew you were all there then he should have gotten food for everyone or at least called to see if you guys wanted anything.
is it like a slumber party and he has 3 guests? or is the mom a hor with multiple kids from differnet dads?
He's not wrong.
The kids feeling left out is irrelevant, he's not their father.
But it doesn't harm to be charitable.
With prices today, I don't see a problem. I would bring food to my daughter in school. And I did not feed anyone else.
If he only wants to feed his own kid, he should do so away from the other kids. Otherwise, it's unfair and the other kids are not going to understand.
if there not his biologically or legally then he shouldn't have to make sure they get food.
Not his kids so why should he be held accountable for them? She needs to feed her own kids
She needs to have the REAL/BIOLOGICAL father step up to the plate.
No he's not wrong the others aren't his kids so they're not his responsibility. Again she needs to collect child support from the other kids real dad or she needs to get off her ass and cook.
Unless &
Me and my husband can support our kids independently without each other or with
You're wasting your time my opinion stands.
And I don't care about your life. Not my problem
Not my problem dude
Not my problem
Not my problem dude..
So you got cheated on because you weren't good enough so now you're a struggling single mother? Got it thanks😂 @cth2188
If he's going to be that way, why would he choose to be with a girl with kids?
I mean I don't know what exactly is the agreement before they got engaged. If she agreed about him having nothing to do with the kids she already have then she's partly wrong
If they are not in any sort of relationship other than co-parenting their one shared child, her assumption that he needs to feed her other kids is ridiculous.
So we're talking about a married couple where the mother has kids from a previous marriage, right? You didn't specify that but I assume that's the situation because otherwise how are they connected?
in the end their all kids now doing it all the time would be nice but have the other parent pay him sometimes especially if they’re not married.
He’s wrong. He should have brought food for all the kids.
I think he is within his rights to bring food to just his kid. I saw the video, the ghetto mom is a real piece of shit.
That’s not right you bring McDonald’s to one kid you bring it to all the rest of the kids and your wife and yourself
It's not his wife, he is just one of at least 2 of her baby daddies. I don't think he even lives with her.
He's living with her and helping raise her kids, they're his responsibly too.
If he isn't in a relationship with her, why should he feed other people's kids?
He’s not obligated to feed kids other than his own. Some people might think it’s not cool socially, but he’s within his rights.
Not his kids, not his responsibility… case closed.
I somewhat agree. If they live together and are partners, then I think he signs up for responsibility of her 3 kids as well. If it's an issue of money, he should talk about her compensating for getting food for her kids as well.
@HawkPerception I know it sounds harsh. But if he can only afford for his own child, then nobody should expect him to pay for someone else’s. Their fathers should. I won’t expect my baby daddy to pay for my other baby daddy’s kids … 😂 if you know what I mean
God I hate that term "baby daddy" and wanna shoot whoever came up with it, but I see where you're coming from and somewhat agree.
@HawkPerception 🤣 same but it is what it is
So now men have to take responsibility for other kids as well while women can't take responsibility for a fetus...
he's taking care of his kid. Not the whole damn orphanage.
Dad brings his kid food every day, and his mom is going to spin that and make the kid hate his dad. Typical
Poor Lisa, but that mom needs to learn to close her legs.
You know what the problem is?
They're both right.
Right, if the mom and other child (ren) are fed and full.
Wrong, if they’re starving.
Are the other kids his step kids or just his baby momma's kids?
Does a lion bring food for other lions that he's not the father no
The other kids should consider themselves lucky they ent eatn that trash
thats why you do not date single mothers
hahahahahaha
read the bible retards
Men this is why you should stay away from single moms.
Which ever emotional or financial state he is. He can never be right so screw it.
fuck that shit let those kids dads buy their kids food. people work hard for their money why should he be a jackass and support somebody else's kids that aren't his