So my boyfriend still live with his family ( parents and younger sister 20) he turned 30 this year. We been together for 11 years now. Apparently the only reason why we haven’t moved out is bc he is not financially stable or should I say us.. we live in San Francisco so is pretty pricey anyways
I don't know why I always had this gut feeling that something is going on with his younger cousin and him. My boyfriend doesn’t have any close family besides his aunt ( mom side ) and uncle , younger male cousin and younger teen female cousin. She has stayed over at his house with his sister and one day I remember he was hanging out with me and his mom called but his cousin was on the phone asking him when he was going to come home giggling and stuff and so was him. I found it weird and told him , that his cousin shouldn’t worry about when the F he coming home he said to chill that his mom / family was trying to know when he will come home ( it was 11 pm maybe 11:30..). Since then I haven’t felt the same. When ever he mentions his aunt coming over he only mentiones his younger cousin (male) not female cousin at all , I remember it was February and I saw his cousin sent him a happy birthday , everything normal and some other messages of them talking about my boyfriend picking up his other cousin from school bc his aunt asked for a favor. But now that I have checked his messages there’s no messages from them , like he erased all their messages. From laptop and phone. Makes me think they messaging and he erasing them at the moment. Why would he erased his cousin messages isn’t that weird? Pls sound one tell me I’m not. Over thinking?
