My wife passed away a couple months ago, a few days after giving birth to our son. I just don't know what to do. I'm fucking lost rn.


My wife passed away a couple months ago, a few days after giving birth to our son. I just don't know what to do. I'm fucking lost rn.
That is terrible! Just take it one day at a time. I've never experienced anything like that, but I would think the best way to proceed would be to concentrate on your new son, and live in the moment. Your son needs you, and raising him will be very rewarding. Take support from the people who love you and don't be afraid to ask for help. I really don't have a lot of advice, but I wanted to try. I'm sorry this happened to you.
Part of me wants to tell you not to move on, but that's because I don't really know what you're going through.
But like dude said, lean on your friends and family and hers. You have much to live for, though it won't be easy.
Hold on to all of the memories, even the hard ones. Those who are still with you want to help you and love you. Think of how proud your wife is of you and your newborn son, and be proud :-)
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Lean on people. Tell people that you are close to what you are feeling and do not hold it in. It is okay to not be okay right now. Having friends and family to lean on right now can massively change how hard it is. I wish you the best of luck and I'm sure your wife will be proud of the father you will become.
Perfectly spoken.
Nobody says you have to move on. A lady friend of mine passed away 5 years ago and we're still on the same plane.
Talk to her. She hears you. Talk to her all the time. She's not completely gone.
It's truly sad I don't know what would I do in your position
The wound will close slowly
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