How do I move on?

[Anonymous]

I've liked this guy for almost 5 years. We never dated and never had a talking stage. But I can't get over him. I'm attached for no reason too, he's already hurt me once. Backstory is, I met him in 6th grade. Never caught feelings then, but once I was in 7th grade, I started catching feelings for him. So, two days before Valentines Day, I finally got the courage to confess to him. He rejected me. He added me into a group chat to make fun of me with his friends. (I'm aware, I just can't move on and I keep thinking about him) I got upset and I left the group chat. One of his friends got mad that I got mad. So I had to apologize. The next day, I got blocked on everything. A few months go by, I've created a new IG account. He follows me. We start following each other back. We like each other's posts back and forth until freshman year. I wanted to move on so I blocked him. Sophomore year comes by. We end up in the same three classes. He keeps staring at me. Intense eye contact (always looked angry but can't tell if that's just his regular face). Junior year comes by, again continuous staring. I ask a mutual guy friend about what *he* feels about me. The guy friend asked him and he apparently said "She's alright." After that, I see him smile when we make eye contact. He visited my class a few times and we had no classes together in junior year. Senior year, he looks nervous around me. All of this is pointless though. He won't make a move. He's also hurt me. The advice people are giving me, don't work. Do I need a therapist?

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Sounds like you gave yourself into the idea of liking him. By looking at the description of the situations and considering what all has happened, it seems futile to pursue anything further with this guy.

The part that he added you to a group where you were made fun of and people got mad because you felt bad about was completely ridiculous. That should have been final nail in the coffin for ending things with this dude.

But at last you did say that all of this is pointless. So believe into it, try to think out of the box and keep reminding yourself that this behavior isn't acceptable and make room for better treatment. All the best.

[Cripplingkingship]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/cblfsOIakhk

This will help you.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help you untangle the web of emotions and guide you through the journey of heartbreak. Love has quite the dramatic flair, doesn't it? 😅 It's time to focus on you and reclaim your emotional space. This guy has ghosted you, involved you in some unkind antics, and has never reciprocated your feelings openly. You deserve a leading role in your story, not a supporting one! Embrace single life, discover what sets your heart racing beyond romance, and who knows, you might just find someone who sees you as a treasure rather than a convenience. Moving on can be tough, and seeking help is always a smart move if you're feeling stuck. Shine bright, love! 🌟

[Anonymous]

Why do u like him

[Anonymous]

You need a team of therapists.😆