I’m 25. Is it normal that ALL of my friends are female?

[Anonymous]

I used to have guy friends in high school, less in college and 0 now. Is this normal lol

i find that becuase of this, it’s also limited my ability to meet guys as a single woman. Is this just me?

Yes all of my friends are the same sex

Yes most of my friends are the same sex

No most of my friends are the opposite sex

No all of my friends are the opposite sex

[Xoxocutekitty]

It's normal.

Most people that have All opposite gender friends often fall into one of the following catefories:

1) strong opposite gender hobbies,
2) gay,
3. mooch off their partners due their lack of own friends
4. have Pick me energy that keeps same gender friends away.

If you like being a woman and like things that many other women like, then it's more likely you will have female friends simply because you have shared interests.

[Asker]

What’s pick me energy?

[Xoxocutekitty]

Pick me energy is the belief: "I'm not like other girls, because girls are [insert negative trait]. Really, I'm like so much better, [like other gender]. It's also pretty common in 90s rom coms.

Classic examples being "other women are so gossipy, I'm not like them", while clearly tolerating and participating in male office drama, "Yo tim, i heard you tapped Linda last weekend. She open for business or you exclusive now?"
Cue pick me girl: "Omg I could never be such a gossip AND whore like the other women in this office"

Poor Linda works in a place where none of her coworkers respect her. To be fair, men are just as suspecitible to pick me, but for some reason, I think the more common street term is "simping"

[Part2603]

No, simping is being deferential. It's not about throwing people under the bus at all.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Lol true.

[Sixgunsound]

Most of my friends are men and their wives that I met after meeting the man first. It is what it is. I don’t think a bunch of random strangers on the internet are in a good position to define your friendships for you. Birds of a feather flock together and all that.

[NewsReader]

I don't know about "Normal", but I don't see the problem. You can always ask your female friends for help. I got no real / true friends at all. Zero. Is that normal? Probably not.

[Sixgunsound]

The more observant tend to have fewer friends.

[Part2603]

YES! It's not normal to be a "tomboy" and have only guy friends and surround yourself with beta orbiters!

CONGRATUFUCKINGLATIONS! You're finally growing up.

[RiseofArtemis]

You should have hitched a guy before getting too old. Now you are left with the leftovers who may not be your best choice but you have no other choice.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No most of my friends are of the opposite sex

[Anonymous]

It's normal. The opposite sex can be weird and there's nothing wrong with it.

[shesrad]

nothing odd or weird about it

[Ryfyle]

Why do you even care?

[Anonymous]

I don't see anything odd about that.

[Msputiton]

Yes normal

[Aerolyn]

Yeah.

[Luckycharms12]

Little random