Lots of people around me say my girlfriend is horrible, but I don't see it. Why? (Page 2)
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My parents were like that with my brother's wife. I even didn't like her like she didn't really seem like a good person. She wasn't toxic but it was other things that my parents didn't like about her. My brother at the time obviously accepted her as she was.
Maybe u r toxic too, that's why u see it normal, im sorry im not trying to be mean or judge, but u r the only one who can actually see what u r in, think a bit with ur brain, not ur heart and not ur dick, try to be logical and think about the future, in 5 or 10 years will i still see her as i am right now? If yes then fuk people, if no tjen u need to make some changes
It's that your acknowledge other People about what the say, Some People just choose to ignore.
It's very Possible that She acts differently around you than around other People, So just try to be with her when around other People and see how She acts.
If a friend tells you they horrible. Okay.
If multiple friends tell you they horrible, you should probably listen.
If your family tells you she horrible (and they good people) you should definitely listen
She's obviously trash, but you're a fucking virgin idiot if you can't see that if her own friends can't stand her, what chance you got?
She's either a manipulator or bipolar. Speak to her friends and get the low down on her red flags.
Had a friend like this. Nobody liked his fiancé she was a colossal douchebag. We all told him but he denied it.
Showed up randomly at my place solo after being married a year announcing their divorce. I was like no surprise there bud.
If it’s family telling you, you should listen. But you won’t listen. You’re too caught up in the newness of it all.
One would hope you see sense before it’s too late.
I know for sure you can't see the true picture when you're blind... sooo it is possible. About ya girlfriend, I don't know. Everyone sees what they see, whether it's true or nah
The fact that she is falling out with her friends and they are saying she is a bad person is a red flag
you don't see it now. but you will see it later. trust me on this. you never truly know someone until you marry them.
If before your girlfriend, you didn't know who your true friends are, I think it's time for new friends. If she's horrible to your family, it can be a problem if you care about that.
If you don't experience any issues with her that could be considered "toxic" they are likely just jealous. If there are things you glaze over as not a big deal, then you should consider talking with her about those things.
The way you know good advise is the person giving it will Not benefit Anything from it. You probably do Not want to See it because you love her. When everyone is Saying the Same Thing everyone cannot be Wrong!
It's possible they're seeing something wrong cause they're looking objectively.
If she's constantly losing friends, that's a pretty sus detail.
Horrible in what way? They need to give you more informations and examples.
Everyone can see something that you don't. I've been there before and wish I had listened to the people telling me this stuff.
Start looking at how she treats others without adding any bias for how she treats you.
This happens to any one who loves someone even me too, and no matter what other people say you can’t and won’t believe it, plus you only see the good and reject the bad even tho you know it’s there
Unfortunately I think you will eventually get a very rude awakening concerning your girlfriend. It seems unlikely that even her own friends are completely wrong about her.
Love is blind. Of course they see things you don't. Take their advice.