No, you are an adult, they dont have any legal control over what you do or what is done with your money. Don't put up with over controlling parents, and put your foot down.
"Controlling" is nit food but remember: you are always a child for your parents. They want the best for you and they think their advice is good but sometimes, they are in older times.
Time to leave the nest, I was your age when I moved out, not because my parents were controlling because I wanted to be with my girlfriend which they supported and wanted me to be independent.
Yeah, if you’re still living with your parents, you will still be controlled by them. Once you move out, you’ll gain more independence. This is probably a sign it’s time to move out.
She lives at home and is almost 30. She also never mentioned having a job and/or making any effort to move out. She can’t expect financial support just because she breathes and neither should you.
@RangerBlue22 if Her folks really controlling Her human rights, they are wrong. Most people that are almost 30 have a job. If She makes no effort to move out, it’s either because Her effort would be futile or it’s sort of hypocritical to complain.
She’s a grown adult not a minor. Chances are she is either unemployed or underemployed and has made little or no effort to make it on her own. She didn’t mention paying them anything for rent or utilities either. Her parents worked to buy their house and cover expenses. What has she done on her own?
I briefly moved back home while looking for a new place at 33. Was only home for 4 months. But I wrote my parents a $100 rent check every week to make it very loud and clear I was a tenant. I had a plan from day one to buy my own place and I did.
Given inflation, the economy and rent prices I understand that things are tough out there. But I have little sympathy for people who are lazy/entitled and from what I’ve read she sounds to be exactly that. If she was paying rent and/or had a plan to move out she would mentioned it.
I'm 31 and live with my parents. My girlfriend is 36 and lives with her parents, although she would prefer to live with mine, because then she could live with me.
No, the fact is that as long as you don't impose yourself, they will continue to control you. You can impose yourself and they get mad, but then in time they will accept and understand.
@lemonette super tough one to answer. Some parents are so embedded into their kids subconscious and control their entire lives without them even knowing their parents have that kind of control over them.
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Grow up already. Get a job and do something already. If men get shamed for living with their parents, then women should be treated no differently.
After all, men and women are equal. So stop being a bum bitch and get your own place.
whats wrong blue anon.. not MAN enough to state your opinion and hide?
Are they controlling your life or are they in control of their household which you are still a part of?
If you dont like their rules they have established for their home, then move out.
If you live in their house you have to follow their rules no matter how old you are. Sorry to say. But true.
You live inside their bubble. Get your own bubble.
Usually depends on the country you are living in. That's definitely not normal in US but normal in India
Girl that is toxic environment. You need to pack your bags and live.
No, you are an adult, they dont have any legal control over what you do or what is done with your money. Don't put up with over controlling parents, and put your foot down.
"Controlling" is nit food but remember: you are always a child for your parents. They want the best for you and they think their advice is good but sometimes, they are in older times.
Time to leave the nest, I was your age when I moved out, not because my parents were controlling because I wanted to be with my girlfriend which they supported and wanted me to be independent.
Yeah, if you’re still living with your parents, you will still be controlled by them. Once you move out, you’ll gain more independence. This is probably a sign it’s time to move out.
Life Your life. Don’t slave Your folks. It is not kosher and not right. Nothing is normal. There are 30 human rights. Sue Your folks if You wish.
“ Sue Your folks if You wish.”
She lives at home and is almost 30. She also never mentioned having a job and/or making any effort to move out. She can’t expect financial support just because she breathes and neither should you.
@RangerBlue22 if Her folks really controlling Her human rights, they are wrong. Most people that are almost 30 have a job. If She makes no effort to move out, it’s either because Her effort would be futile or it’s sort of hypocritical to complain.
She’s a grown adult not a minor. Chances are she is either unemployed or underemployed and has made little or no effort to make it on her own. She didn’t mention paying them anything for rent or utilities either. Her parents worked to buy their house and cover expenses. What has she done on her own?
I briefly moved back home while looking for a new place at 33. Was only home for 4 months. But I wrote my parents a $100 rent check every week to make it very loud and clear I was a tenant. I had a plan from day one to buy my own place and I did.
Given inflation, the economy and rent prices I understand that things are tough out there. But I have little sympathy for people who are lazy/entitled and from what I’ve read she sounds to be exactly that. If she was paying rent and/or had a plan to move out she would mentioned it.
That really sucks. I don’t think that’s normal.
In other words, you're a captive slave.
At 30 you're more than a fucking adult.
Turns out we will always be captive slaves. Either to our parents and later on in our lives to our boss...
I left when I was 18 but I didn't like my parents. Maybe you like yours, who knows?
I'm 31 and live with my parents.
My girlfriend is 36 and lives with her parents, although she would prefer to live with mine, because then she could live with me.
No, the fact is that as long as you don't impose yourself, they will continue to control you. You can impose yourself and they get mad, but then in time they will accept and understand.
@lemonette super tough one to answer. Some parents are so embedded into their kids subconscious and control their entire lives without them even knowing their parents have that kind of control over them.
Not normal because by 18yrs, everyone wants to be independent, what are doing to ur life
No not normal
You're letting them, take control of your life
You're complaining. Mine control my life too. I don't want arrange marriage but they won't let me marry