Helpless teen mom?

[Anonymous]

I am 18 and I am in my second trimester of pregnancy and ever since I have been pregnant I have been basically trying to deal with the pregnancy on my own. The father of the baby is my fiancé, my parents try and keep him away a lot. Once in a while they let him stay over but very rarely. I am getting very upset and heartbroken that he isn’t allowed to stay over and help me, my pregnancy has been pretty rough and I have been very sick. It isn’t that he doesn’t want to help but it is my mom. She thinks I don’t need him and she can take care of me. To me this isn’t the same. I need my partner to help me. I feel heartbroken and so alone when he isn’t allowed to stay over. He takes care of me and makes me feel better. My Mom takes care of me but it isn’t the same. At some points I feel like I am a single mom because she doesn’t
Let him support me at all.
What do I say for her to understand why I need him?

Updates

1 y

Also I am at home becuase me and my fiancé are trying to save money to move to another state soon.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know why your family is doing this too you
They are evil
First of all you are an adult 18+ ..
Second of ALL you have a fiancée..
why do you stay at your parents home at 18 and having a fiancée you are allowed to live away from your parents.
Stay away from your dark toxic evil shitty family
Even if they think you did a mistake you got pregnant guess WHAT ? It’s too LATE you already have a baby about to give birth. You are a mother now and your bitchy mom was once pregnant she knows when a women is pregnant MATERNAL INSTINCT INCREASE yet she acts like she doesn’t know.. you have the right to slap her face any second because you are the mother of a BABY now as an ADULT according to natural laws you can bite your mom dad sister ear MOKING a pregnant specie.. even monkeys and dogs don’t do that.
Shame on them

[Asker]

My mom never had kids I am adopted, she says to me that pregnancy is so easy I don’t need him to help me.

[leahzrc]

The baby deserves a dedicated father. If he isn't supoortive through the pregnancy, he is less likely to be supportive through life. He has to be bonded to you and the baby for the future of your child. I wish you the best of luck.

[Berethor]

Your mom is feminist or something, why your mom want you to act like a single mom?

[Apple1996]

Same thing happened to me as a teen. Parents ended up getting worse once the baby came. My advice to you is get out while you can and or tell your parents to stop being so controlling

[Anonymous]

a child taking care of a child

[Asker]

I think you meant to say a adult who is financially independent taking care of a child, I am young but I am not a 13 year old with a baby. That is a child caring for a child.