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Hi,
We have a 2 and half-month-old baby and we are living with my girl's mom. My parents and her mom, both live near each other like 3km between. So my girl has a much different family and roots than me. She is living for herself and her relatives don't push by "Oh when we see a baby... ", but on the other hand, my relatives did push when the baby was born. When the baby was born, she was exhausted and wanted to just be with us and relax and not see anyone just to recover. Okay she doesn't like my relatives, okay that case yeah. But now the other problem is that, my parents are making drama, like "they can move away from their house, if we do not like something about them" like my mom is yeah little bit like "oh we did this and that (when i was born)... " like always saying how it should be. I see that time has changed and new parenting things have come along. The other thing is that they want that we should always go to their place, but like yes they see a baby, but not like every day, we are living our life too. I guess we had a baby by ourselves not to the others.
We have a 2 and half-month-old baby and we are living with my girl's mom. My parents and her mom, both live near each other like 3km between. So my girl has a much different family and roots than me. She is living for herself and her relatives don't push by "Oh when we see a baby... ", but on the other hand, my relatives did push when the baby was born. When the baby was born, she was exhausted and wanted to just be with us and relax and not see anyone just to recover. Okay she doesn't like my relatives, okay that case yeah. But now the other problem is that, my parents are making drama, like "they can move away from their house, if we do not like something about them" like my mom is yeah little bit like "oh we did this and that (when i was born)... " like always saying how it should be. I see that time has changed and new parenting things have come along. The other thing is that they want that we should always go to their place, but like yes they see a baby, but not like every day, we are living our life too. I guess we had a baby by ourselves not to the others.
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So my issue with currently people my age is they highly rely on their parents while doing adult things and then feel like they should dictate how their parents insert themselves. No offense here, you and your girlfriend chose to have a baby knowing that you aren’t financially stable to be on your own ready to start your own life and you are now in a way dealing with consequences of those choices. If you want a more independent life for your family, you and your girlfriend are going to need to get it together.
You mean like my parents are acting little childish and me and my girl should get our own place to live?
I wouldn’t say childish , but more so you should’ve had plans to move out before having a baby if you didn’t want parents to over insert.
I don't live with them, I live with my girl's mom. I just think my parents don't see my perspective from my side of view. Like I don't want to abandon them. Ill help them when they need it. They see the baby too, but not like every other day.
You still live with parents either way. You both need to start chipping in and creating a more independent life for both you and your girlfriend. I’m not saying it to be mean, I just don’t really understand why our generation is having kids before they have the capacity to financially stand on their own two feet. I know price of living is expensive , but even still.