How did I get stuck with a more light masculine body type while my sisters had gotten a more feminine body type?

[Anonymous]

Let me explain, I'm not a jealous teen girl who's jealous of her siblings, but I can't help but feel like I've gotten the shorter end of the stick when it came to physical beauty.

Let's say all of my other siblings had filled out and are taking on more womanly shape or on their way there. And then there's me, I feel like I've been somehow tricked out of having a more feminine shape like my sisters.

People may say to love your body as it is, and that should be common sense. Though sometimes it hard to love your body as it is when the only thing you see is a lot of females your age looking their age.

Not to elongate this more than I already have, but my sisters have been getting their fair share of male attention. I'm always neutral to when I hear it, but I can't help but compare it. And it always boils down to my height, clothing prefrence, body shape, etc.

You should never want to be wanted because of your physical appearance, I'm not that stupid; however I seem to have it in my mind to think that that is some sort of approval of oneself.

That being said, I'm simply confused and needed to get this off of my mind,

[Anonymous]

The long and the short of it is that you are lying to yourself.

Whether it is your sisters or someone else, what difference does it make who you are comparing yourself to?

Presumably as you are still so young you have childish notions that life is fair or that you are owed something, it isn't and you aren't.

You say you aren't jealous and then go on to describe how envious you are of what you percieve your sisters to have and which you do not have, which is literally the definition of jealousy, wanting something that someone else has, that is what those words mean.

Yes, it is hard to learn to love yourself, where do you get the idea from that it was easy? No one said that it was easy but it is what you need to do, currently what you are choosing is mental illness so I suggest you change course.

Look up self love and validation etc, learn to be a positive and supportive companion to yourself on your journey through life.

There is no point in comparing yourself to others regardless of who they are (even your siblings) because there will always be people who are stronger, faster, fitter, younger, older, more beautiful, richer, luckier, whateverer than you are, you could even be the top of a game, the champion of the world and you know what will happen? Someone else will become better than you eventually.

The world is going to do whatever it is going to do, you only get to make choices for yourself, the enemy is within, it is doubt, fear, jealousy etc

[RyanK9b]

All this love your body how it is bs. Especially when you're fat.

To change things at your body is always a factor in life. Even your sister has something that she wants to change.
You can't do much about it, some crucial parts are just dna based.

If you're doing sports and eat healthy should that be enough for good body.

Well ofc clothing is 100 your fault but the rest is maybe ok.
If you are say your masculine sounds that for me like a plus. So better define shape, muscular etc.

[Drewtate]

Guys are attracted by their eyes first then everything else follows. Maybe hit the gym, dress better and make the most of what you got.

[jjj101010]

Firstly I’m guessing ur body hasn’t finished developing yet so there’s time for it to change, also, not everyone wants girls with the same figure