My brother is late 30's him n wife moved into my moms house - brother does not like to work - leaves every job after 6 months says every job too hard?

[Evasandra]

My mom buys the food n pays bills they contribute sporadically - my mom says i must not say anything cuz my brother has said if i do they will leave - this because last time i went "home" my brother n wife had tgeur clothes drying on moms antique furniture and i raised hell for disrespecting my moms home - my mom says she wants the company and my brother is her ladt born child - so my brother is taking advantage and my mom is sad and scared to do say anything - we never have our Christmas days or dinners there in the last 3 years (that stopped when brother mived in) - we never go to see our mom instead she comes now to our houses (myself n sister) my brother said that HE will sell my moms house cuz we dont all get along - but its not his to sell its my moms but its worth $$$$$ so he sits lazy fat slob in my moms house - she feeds him and his wife with her pension $ - they won't talk to us sisters n its all bad vibes n he won't work! We are very concerned for out 76 year old mom - but it is her house n her life n she is in ultimate charge but we feel she is intimidated.. being pressured to sell. She has made another house in another place that she thankfully gets to escape to from time to time - we sisters are so worried. He had another hpuse that my mom gave him which he ran to ruin n we know he will do same to moms house. If we are not to say anything - cuz theyl move out - n mom said not to say anything - what are we to do nothing? Just watch our mother being taken advantage of?

[RoseySaraah]

You can sue your brother on behalf of your mom that is elder abuse 😭!

Get him kicked out and required to be a distance from her! Not on her wants but you and your families!

Also have her come over and do a living trust not a will!

Your brother is a selfish bastard! My cousin is that way drove our grandma to her grave then stole everything she had!

Gambled it away and was broke and got killed!

Latter my lawyer friend told me all the things we could have done! Get a lawyer and someone who can show how he is abusing her and she takes it! So you can legally take the stuff and her home from him!

Record and save all the abuse and recordings you can!

[_Maya_]

Say whatever you want to say. You are all adults. If they move out that is their problem not yours. You don't want them there anyway right? So isn't the end goal to get them out of the house? If that is what does it then say whatever you want. I am somewhat confused by what you mean where you said your mom has another house where she can escape. Okay so why doesn't she just live there or have your deadbeat brother move there? Something doesn't add up.

[Billlewis]

He sounds a little bit like some of the women's boyfriends whom I've served previously... which isn't necessarily a bad thing, in my humble opinion, because a guy like that will always be able to take full advantage of a wimp like me who never gets any pussy... lol

[Chill_Thoughts]

It's your mom's house, they sound awful but so what. Your mom is a grown woman, respect her and if she wants them there, she wants them there and that's that.

[Chill_Thoughts]

And like if you truly believe she is intimidated, talk with her about it. If she's not, it sucks and it sucks that's she's clearly putting him above you guys. Just get a lawyer to talk about inheritages to make sure you don't get screwed when the time comes

[BunBun369]

Mother's always love the boys more than the girls lol my mom would run me over to get to my little bro and he has stolen thousands of dollars from her. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️😩