I got treated like garbage by classmates from grades 5th to 8th. My parents and I moved to another state afterward. I was celebrating that day, happy to not ever see them in any of my classes ever again.
I made some friends in HS and changed my hairstyle (never told anyone I was bullied) but even after going through all that horrible treatment back then, I did the same thing to someone else for 3 months. Here is my stupid reason why I did it. Even though I wasn't popular, I actually had 2 followers for the first time ever. I wanted to feel, to see (got curious) what it was like having that power. I wanted to see what it was like doing what they did to me. I wanted see how it felt like being on the other side of the fence.
After the 3rd month, it didn't feel good. The girl was at the verge of crying and right there I saw myself in that girl. I stopped it right there. We (now 22 year-olds) befriended her afterwards and been inseperable ever since. Was that the most stupidest reason ever?
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No I'd say that is a good reason to treat someone like that... Dumb but a good reason
The dumbest is for Thier hair style or just cause they look dumb but are smart.
Guys usually have the dumbest reasons
I had nothing against her. At the time, she was someone at random I chose for the sake of wanting to see what it's like being a bully. Unlike my former bullies, I did what they didn't do; I did apologized to her. I've only done it for 3 months and that was enough for me to stop; the very moment I saw her sad expression of trying hard not to tear. That was the same expression I had back then when I was the bullied victim and they didn't care.
Two of my former bullies actually had the audacity to send a friend request on FB and wrote ''Hey girl what's up, it's been a long time. How are you doing? The other one actually call me her friend, said ''How are you my long time friend''. Seriously? Ostracizing someone, getting pushed and my math book knocked over as they're laughing, called names, falsely accused of farting in class, getting other classmates to join the humiliation and lastly a false rumor spread about me isn't what ''friends'' do.
I denied their requests and called them straight out on their BS. They replied by saying they don't remember any of what I'm claiming, lol.
How can anyone forget the classmate they put a lot of energy and time with the bullying? All of the sudden, I'm their long-time friend they haven't seen in years, lol.
Wow that sucks they probably remember you fondly as Thier pet and wanted you to be nice.
Usually most bullies don't remember the bad caus eit was fun for them.
They remember you and hanging out with you but you remember it was torture not fun.
My bully did the same 😡 school reunion. Like hey friend we hung out in gym.
No you and your friends tortured me in gym bullied me for my make up and tossed coffee on me lifted my shirt and bra for the boys to see my tiny tits and you did so much more.
They just remember laughing with me.
Yes, they're so inconsiderate. Did you told them off and confronted the bully?
They sure have a distorted way of remembering us, as if we were in their game. It would've made a different if they would've admitted their wrongs (like me and my 2 friends did to the girl) and then asked for a 2nd chance. Then maybe (just maybe) I might have reconsidered it. But not admitting to anything, not even remembering it and excepting a friendship from me as if nothing ever happened, nope; they can take a hike.
I did confront them latter they would not believe they were such bad bullys
Yeah they pretty much don't care. Some people just never change.
Most people don't if they do it's a lie!
Their habbits and how they treat people rarely change!
Especially the born again bullys. Like your clearly thinking you changed but your behavior has not
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