Is it a personal group thing or is gender actually related?

[Anonymous]

Is it true that female friendships gotta stay in contact very often before y'all start drifting apart?

Cause for dudes from my experience can be weeks, months, maybe even years of not contacting each other and when meeting up again, nothing changes, it's like right back where y'all left off, is this based on the specific group or is it actually how the brains of each gender is wired? 🤔

[NathanDavis]

in my experience... which is men/women friendships... we can just pick it up where it was after a long time just the same as I do with the dudes

girl on girl, I would not know enough though... I'm not one

[Asker]

Hopefully we get some answers here lol

[NathanDavis]

I would believe it can go both ways... just like it does with the dudes, lol

[Asker]

Maybe but seems that way so far I guess

[linka_pat307]

Women can also kick right where they left but it comes when some issues arise like you know women with their gossip, so maybe some rumours had that one of the party did something or the other party is particularly starting to upset the other with some kind of habit or choices

[Asker]

Sounds somewhat detailed lol

[linka_pat307]

Hmmmm I tried to be

[Asker]

Thank you for the info 🙂🙏🏽

[7Phoenix7]

Yea, this is just my experience... but my female friends are more clingy. But they know I need my alone time n they got used me.

My guy friend, we'll go two weeks no contact and then hang out/talk like we never took a break

[Asker]

Interesting 🤔

[7Phoenix7]

You have female friends?

[Asker]

Not since after middle school, although there was one in HS, kinda I guess

[7Phoenix7]

Oh ok, was gonna ask what your experience has been...

[Asker]

It's alright I guess, pretty average shit

[Anonymous]

Not true what you say about dudes.. Generally the older people get, the less friends they have and the less energy they have for anything.. It's depressing

[Asker]

Lmao I'll take your word on that

[Opinion Owner]

Why the sarcasm?

[Opinion Owner]

You can make a question, if you don't believe me.. I've heard lots of people saying the same

[Asker]

It wasn't sarcasm lol

[Opinion Owner]

Pheew ok lol

[Lisia]

Yeah except my best friend. We could go months or even a year apart but when we see each other again it's like nothing's ever changed. Those are the best friendships in my opinion.

[Asker]

Yea most definitely, cause life gets in the way but it doesn't ruin the bond, which is some real shit ha

[Lisia]

Fr they stay when life gets tough

[Asker]

Yea that fosho

[IslaTheWitch]

I catch up with my high school friend once per few years and we always pick it up where it was :D

But she is as much an oddball as I am... so I'm not sure if we can be a good representation for women in general :D

[Miah04]

Naw. I stopped talking to my hs bestie when I went to college. Now i graduated and living full-time back home. We picked things right back up

[TiaNour]

Personal group thing ig

[Asker]

Powerful stuff

[TiaNour]

Shit I don’t know lmfao

[Asker]

Fair enough crackmouse lol

[Roudyrebel8]

I wouldn't know

[Asker]

Lmao fair enough