I still feel awful for slapping my cousin once, how can I forgive myself?

[Anonymous]

It happened a couple months ago during an argument about abortion. I got sensitive, lost control and slapped my cousin Marcos.

I apologized immediately afterwards. I didn't excuse it because even if hurtful words were thrown, that was still wrong of me. I still feel bad though. That wasn't right. I never got bullied or hit by anyone in my life and yet I did the wrong.

I feel terrible though. No one deserves getting hit. No one. How can I forgive myself?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang, don't be so hard on yourself. We all lose our cool sometimes, you know? Important thing is you apologized right away. Takes guts to own up to your mistakes like that.

My advice? Reach out to Marcos again. Tell him straight up you feel bad about slipping up, and you wanna make things right. Ask him to coffee or something to chat in person. When you see him, apologize again from the heart. Let him know it ain't coo to hit and you won't let that happen again - with him or anyone. That kind of thing means a lot face to face, trust me.

After that, you just gotta forgive yourself. Can't change the past, you know? But you learn from it. Make it up to him, keep your cool from now on, then you gotta let it go. Don't beat yourself up forever, cuz - that don't help nobody. You live and learn. He seems like he forgave you already, so now you just gotta accept that and move on from there, feel me?

You'll be aight. We all mess up sometimes. At least you took responsibility - that's really what matters. Chin up, girl!

[Asker]

Thank you. I appreciate it.

[Oliverlogan263]

My pleasure mama anytime 😊🌹🌹❤️

[Anonymous]

Then yourslef into police and if your argument is pro abortion. Stop being a whore and you won’t get preggers. Women who support abortion/infacticide have NO motherly instincts to kill their own.


All in all. If you genuinely feel bad you aren’t a reprobate. Repent of it. Maybe it’s God calling you back to him. What’s good left in you

[Asker]

Well if it's a legitimate case of a rape, in that case the woman's choice of whether to have kid or not and with whom was stolen from her. So she should be forced to carry a rapist's child, somethings he never had a choice in?

[Asker]

something she never had a choice in?

[Opinion Owner]

How is that a innocent child’s fault? Rape is horrible. Kill the predatkr before you kill a bang

[Opinion Owner]

*baby

[Opinion Owner]

No motherly instinct for someone who kills their baby. Any woman whose has a miscarriage usually feels trauma.

In a medical case to save the life of the mother. That’s one that I can understand

[Opinion Owner]

Asker. I don’t know how someone could look at the face or a innocent baby and think anything horrible about it. As if that baby did anything to anyone. That is SICK and DISGUSTING 🤢

[Asker]

What if she was a virgin that wanted to wait till marriage but got ganged raped by 3-4 thugs; that's even worse? By forcing her to still carry a baby, a life choice she never even had any say into it (totally against her will) isn't that cruelty already?
Her life changed forever by getting raped. No you clearly don't understand how traumatic rape is. What more does she needs? Add more trauma in her misery by forcing her to carry a rapist's child?
I believe the mother's life being in dangered or she really got rape should be the exceptions.

Hopefully I never have to undergo getting raped but if I did and I was forced to still carry the baby, it would be a triple double to me, first the rape, my ID and humanity getting destroyed and lastly the pain of the forced and unwanted delivery.

[Asker]

Or if the woman never wanted kids, never wanted to get pregnant, wanted nothing to do with giving birth to a baby and was happy living the single life but she got raped. In that case, her life got robbed as well too.

[Opinion Owner]

Asker. Again. It’s NOT the child’s fault. That’s horrible. But it’s NOT a babies fault

[Opinion Owner]

You won’t even deny it’s a human life you make me SICK you would make a TERRIBLE mother to think killing a baby is okay. No maternal instincts with this woman

[Opinion Owner]

There is adoption. Killing a unborn child won’t undo the rape as you think. There are women who had abortions and feel horrible for them.

But people like you. Don’t feel bad for anyrhint anymore do you

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe I happen to know women who had abortions and deeply regret it

[Opinion Owner]

Forced to carry the baby. What a disgusting person. You can put the baby up for adoption. Tell me HOW IT WAS A CHILDS RAULT? PIGGY TELL ME HOW IT WAS THE BABYS FAULT

[butterly248]

@op shut up

[Opinion Owner]

@butterly248 why don’t you shut up. You’re mad I got MHO and you didn’t cry baby.

You’re triggered. Maybe because you see something in yourself. Maybe you can’t face the fact that you got a abortion. Maybe you feel bad? Or maybe there is no heart or mother left in you monster

[Opinion Owner]

@butterly248 you probably smell like butter. Butterly. Lol. I thought it was butterfly.

[butterly248]

It took you 5 days for you to reply to this? And yes my username was a typo and I don't give the fuck about mho. This is all you could come up with @op 🤣

[Asker]

I didn't give this idiot an MHO, the system did.

[butterly248]

I was going to say @asker lol

[Opinion Owner]

@butterly248 oh okay sorry then

[Opinion Owner]

@butterly248 maybe because it was a good response and if you would choose your MHO’s it wouldn’t happen

[Opinion Owner]

@asker I mean

[butterly248]

@op yes a good response 👍

[rosemilk]

the good thing is that you recognized that that was the wrong way to react and you'll probably think twice before doing it again. you'll be okay. talk to your cousin about it so you can resolve the slapping incident. and then just move on. you live and you learn.

[Asker]

Thank you. Yes it was wrong. Now I know if an argument starts getting out of control, I'm not going to continue arguing. I'll just walk away from a bit.

[butterly248]

As someone who had an abortion herself, yes the emotions are overbearing. Do what the other pink accounts suggested. I hope you heal and move on, and you're not alone ❤️

[butterly248]

And what @Oliverlogan263 said!

[Oliverlogan263]

@butterly248 😊😊❤️

[Asker]

Yes and in the end, the ''oh it's murder, never do it, not even if you get raped'' guys aren't the ones suffering life and bodily changes like we are. It's very easy for them to say all that BS if they're not the ones going through all that.

[Paris13]

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