My family is dying especially my grandmother?

[cth2188]

Between the sickness with my family and the constant funerals it's taking a toll on my health. Right now I'm trying to stay above the waters , but see my family as a burden on top of me raising my kids right now. They constantly push unnecessary drama and stress in my life on top of my own stuff and I don't want to be bothered with their declining health and mental problems.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Set a boundary, but do remember they are family. Be respectful, but also care for yourself, as well as the family you have built more.

[cth2188]

They don't respect boundaries

[cth2188]

They are a burden

[SweetJoyGirl]

So, what do you want to do? Cut the dying people off?

[cth2188]

Yes I will there are other family members who can step in

[cth2188]

Not my responsibility I have my sisters who can help

[SweetJoyGirl]

Well, how about little to no contact? Like you are there, but not there, if you know what I mean.

[SweetJoyGirl]

It isn’t really fair to just dump it on your sisters.
I think all of you need to pull your weight.