Can your parents control you when you are 18 can they tell you what you can and can’t do when you live under their roof?

[Anonymous]

[malarkey]

You're legally an adult so you can make your own decisions. They are also adults and can make their own decisions. So if you can not compromise with them and see eye to eye, move of your own free will so that you don't have to compromise with them. You can do whatever you want within the law, and they can tell you to leave their property, you are trespassing. You can live your life on black and white terms, or you can compromise with your family because you want to keep them in your life. You have a relationship with them. If you want to keep it, then both sides have to be a little flexible and have to communicate.

[molonski2]

Yes , you are living in their house , now I suggest you take some of their advice and clean up your act. What is it exactly that they want you to do?

[Kxn748]

She tells me what to do like give me orders

[molonski2]

@Kxn748
An example please? Clean up your room? Help with some work? Get off your arse and stop playing video games?

[Asker]

Yup exactly

[molonski2]

Well.. then just do what she says mate.

[Asker]

But I’m not a child bro I’m a whole adult

[Asker]

Like yesterday I was about to go out and bring a coca bottle with me outside and she told me to leave it at home and tho a another time I was wearing jeans and she told to put a pairs of shorts on to be more comfy

[molonski2]

These I would classify as suggestions man.
Just say " thanks mum , I'm fine , I'm not a kid " .
She is your mother.

[Asker]

I said this and she still doing this..

[molonski2]

Look man , my mother was exactly the same , all the same sht , you just have to find a way to stand up for yourself , I appreciate this petty shit is so annoying , I hated my mother at that time , but its too expensive to get your own place bro , look there are nice ways of telling her but you need to be firm.

[Asker]

I’ve been telling her to stop her standing for myself and she telling me that i should move out if i don’t likes it..

[molonski2]

Exactly what my mother used to say..
She changed when I actually moved out though ( tougher to do that now ) .
What country you in?

[Asker]

Canada

[molonski2]

Have you got somewhere you can go stay for 6 months? That will change her attitude.

[Asker]

Hmm I don't know as u said the housing are pretty expensive lol but I there may be t’emporte housing program for youth people

[molonski2]

A friend maybe?

[petitedollbabee]

When you’re still living under their roof, yes they can, because you’re still in their care and not independent. If you’re living away from them, then no they can’t control you. If you don’t like it then move out.

[Anonymous]

They can’t force you but I guess they could kick you out

[EmmaMary]

Absolutely right they can... Don't like it, then move out and become independent.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, they can. If you don't like it, move out.

[jahaims]

They can kick you out. You are an adult.