How to deal with zero communication skills or opposite too much analysing and paying attention to little things?

[Anonymous]

What to do if I have ADHD or probably autism and get kicked from every group cause I’m too much impulsive and say if something offends me real quick, than gaslight myself that it wasn’t too serious and I shouldn’t have to react that way. But I start thinking about it again and got mad by remembering every details that was wrong. Then it makes other people in group mad or irritated and I fight with specific person that start fighting with me openly and get kicked out from group. It happened almost with group chats😅
But I actually I enjoy fighting and proving that I’m right and not that much sad because they kicked out me. But I make everyone block me and stop talking with me lol. I can be wrong but most important for me it’s proving what wasn’t fair for me.
Sometimes I think that I’m just not useful or beautiful enough to act that way.

[Shiprex]

Maybe you need to work on considering how best to get folk to WANT to think your way instead of conflicting with them in confrontational ways.

Like convince them why your way is an OPTION and not the best way while YOU spot flaws in YOUR way but sell THEIR way as being MORE flawed and thus better.
Life isn't about bashing into folk and should be about mingling with them to create more harmony

[LuminousMind]

@Shiprex hi I just wanted to say I really like your advice and I wanted to ask if you wouldn't mind giving your opinion on a question?

[Shiprex]

@LuminousMind Sure have you posted it somewhere?

[LuminousMind]

yes: Does his physical touch mean he likes me? ↗ Also, I would appreciate a follow so I can pm.

[jahaims]

You are too immature and annoying to be around. You won't make friends with your current ignorant mindset