What are the steps to take to be better at communicating?

Anonymous
I have always sucked at communicating, learning languages, and reading comprehension. All of my brothers (no sisters) are the exact same way, it must be written in our DNA. Funny enough we communicate great amongst one another because we have the exact same interests and understand each other. We can talk for hours. If I’m not interested in something it’s extremely hard to talk with someone. (Same with reading) But people just want to small talk. Teach me how. I’m out of high school and college, good looks aren’t cutting it socially anymore. I only have a few friends at this point in which we just clicked together like my brothers. I also have a fiancée so I can’t flirt in place of social engagement anymore. I just sit and drink quietly when I go out to the bar with people.
What are the steps to take to be better at communicating?
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