Why was my dad was completely against me moving abroad but when my brother decided to move away he was more positive about it?

[Anonymous]

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Patriarchal values. He believes your brother can and should become more independent but he believes it’s the daughter’s job to stay behind and take care of him as he ages.

[Asker]

But I already live 4 hours away and have a live in partner and my partner doesn’t like where I’m he lives because it’s remote

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

And that still doesn’t change your dad’s mind

[HusamRocks]

In most cases girls r considered weaker than boys and can't rely on theirselves, ur father might be afraid something bad could happen to u

[DannyUk2017]

Because he thinks that a man is more strong in to decision making while a woman is more vurnerable.

[Asker]

He said he wants to move to Europe so he can be closer to my brother. I also don’t have a mother so this makes me feel incredibly invisible

[DannyUk2017]

So your father is with you at the moment? I don't have neither of them, but still pushed through...🤷‍♂️

[MasterKS]

conservative old shitty mind.