If you were/are a parent, what would be something that if you don't allow them to do, or dont help them with, it will make life harder for them?

[Anonymous]

Make life harder unnecessarily, as you dont want life to be too easy for them, but these things would probably limit them into adulthood, or if they already are an adult who lives with them, it might make life harder for them when they are able to move out

[ohsheeT]

When you have children you teach them to become the best that they can become you allow them to be themselves if you have a good foundation under them you don't discipline by yelling screaming hitting or taking away your phone etc etc you give them more responsibility you allow them to live their life with boundaries if they cross that line that's when you step in but you give them the room to grow and to keep experiencing you don't hold them back you want them to become 100 times better than you are and you can only do that in a positive way


From a little kid until they're 18 years old they watch how you treat people how you act how you walk how you talk and that's who they become they don't become or listen to you saying no or yelling or screaming that's also who they become everything you do Every Breath You Take that's who they're going to become so don't make their lives harder make and don't make their lives easy allow them to live their own life but you have to have your boundaries to a point Let Them Fall if they make the wrong choice tell them you will put your hand out to help them up the first time you might even do it the second time but the third time if they haven't learned you're going to knock their ass out LOL

And you say that just to make a point When they respect you When they truly love you they truly love and respect themselves That's who you want them to be

[Malwi93]

obviously. water it- itll grow..

[Taurus_Woman]

I would never be a parent, even though I am healthy enough. I would never give birth in this world of chaos.

To me, the world feels too unpredictable and overwhelming, and I don’t see myself choosing to bring a child into it. I know some people find meaning and hope in parenting, but personally I don’t feel drawn to that path. I don’t want to harm a child. To me, coming into this life already feels like a big risk, and that’s one of the reasons I don’t see myself becoming a parent. My love for children is so strong that I choose not to bring them into this world.

[Malwi93]

why would i be making my lfie hard for my kids?

[NathanDavis]

mistakes...

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

This just sounds like whining

[Agape93]

No social media, period.