Is it ever morally valid to hit an abusive father in retaliation?

[Badtobad]

I hate my dad with passion, he's verbally and physically abusive, I would hurt him really bad if I could.

[Clara4567]

Answer with violemce to violence is not good, its bad, so I'd he did abused of you, just go to the police. Violence in never the answer.

[Badtobad]

That's easier said than done

[Clara4567]

Then talk to someone who can help you do the right thing, remember that we are not alone in this world

[Badtobad]

Yes we are

[Clara4567]

No you always have someone who can help you, a sibling, a friend a relative, if you dont then you can go to a psychologist, that can help you

[Badtobad]

I need money for that

You speak as its free

[Clara4567]

If you can't afford that just go to the police, its a way to solve the problem, abuse its not a joke

[Dancer102]

No you don’t have to talk to him. Why is he abusive towards you?

[Badtobad]

Because he's a cunt, we live together it's impossible not to talk to him

[msc545]

live somewhere else.

[Badtobad]

@msc545 it's hard

[David318578]

Best thing you can do is just cut ties with him and live your best life without him in your life

[AngryCarl3]

You're 37, your better response is to distance yourself and take security measures.

[Badtobad]

I am 29

[msc545]

No, it's not morally valid, and it's a bad idea because you may find yourself getting really beat up badly.

[Badtobad]

I'lll beat him bad

[LiamS95]

In the end doesn't that make you just as abusive and as bad as him?

[Badtobad]

Of course not

[msc545]

Does make just as obviously as him

[fish5505_87]

You should not be living with him, period. Violence, is not the answer. How old is your dad?

[slatyb]

Not at your age. It's also illegal.

[Badtobad]

What does my age has to do with it?

[Shiprex]

One shouldn't need to do this.

[Kelly6]

@Badtobad Sorry to hear that 🫤

[MrChinaski]

Nope.

[Paige2006]

I'm sorry