Is she angry/punishing me ?

Question

so this girl and I have been texting and snapchatting  all over the Christmas break. she told me she really likes me and I told her I like her to. The first night back I saw her I was quite drunk, we talk 3 times during the night only briefly as she was with her friend and I was Dancing with a girl most of the night who is a good friend of mine, however I feel something has happen, she's not responded to my texts which has never happen before and gone kinda cold. Could she be angry at me because I was dancing with my friend who is a girl? (nothing happen between us she is just a friend) what is going on in her head? do you think is she punishing me?

Moonrisekitten · Accepted Answer

Yeah she's mad. She said she liked you and you danced with another girl. Friend or not, I'd be upset too, because if you said you liked her as well, then she should be the only female you are focusing on right now. Make she she knows that girl was just a friend and that you aren't attracted to her like that, and if you can swallow your pride a bit, also say sorry. Girls get jealous. It happens. And if you like a girl, you'll want to try to avoid that as much as possible and mend it as quickly as possible when it does happen.   I can understand why she would be if I got the story right

Lafemmedeschats · Accepted Answer

Probably. It's an elementary way of expressing your dislike of something someone did. I would just ask her upfront. And if she responds with a childish attitude I would honestly move on because if you date her its very possible this is how she deals with relationships which is very strenuous on a relationship, especially an adult one

PLLFan21 · Accepted Answer

Yeah I think she got jealous.. I mean I would too.. to be Honest. Would you have cared if she was dancing with another guy? :-) Did she know you were drunk?

TheLion2424 · Accepted Answer

Um... hello?!... Duh!

When a girl knows you like her, dancing with another girl (that isn't family) is a no-no. Now, she probably thinks you really didn't like her that much, or you're just a big player. I'm pretty sure most girls would not appreciate that.

Man up and go talk to her. Don't stand there and do nothing. She's probably hurt. Ask her what's going on and show her that you care. If she's mad about this then apologize. Be sincere, and show her that you didn't mean it.

Hopefully it all works out.

Anonymous · Answer

Does she know that you and the other girl are just friends? Cos if she likes you and thinks you're into someone else...or maybe a player...she might try to distance herself to try avoid getting hurt.