Polls: Family & Friends

Let's just say you could only have ONE child... For whatever reason. Would you want that baby to be a boy or girl? Any reason?

And no this isn't a "who's better between the two" type question.

I have a daughter, and from the moment I got pregnant I always wanted a daughter. And I don't want anymore children, one is good for me. So I was just curious about other people.

My bf's best friend is a girl that he knows since high school (they were very close b4, but now they've remained good friends - they go to each other for advice and she asks him for favors).

He is also very close with me (always affectionate with me -even in front of ppl, met each others families, and he's pretty open, plus he's a friendly, affectionate type of a guy, and were both the same kind).

He has told me that he has never slept with her and that she's a platonic friend and that he knows her for a very long time and they talk a lot, plus she knows that him and I are an item and I've met her once. But I've also noticed that they fight a lot and she's demanding to him).

is this a red flag? or am I worrying too much about her?

My boyfriend and I are together for just over a year now. We are very close - we see each other often and sleep over at each others houses. And we have also met each others' families.

He is always very affectionate with me - always cuddling, hugging, kissing, stroking my belly and always has his arm around me and calls me "my baby" and tells me he loves me.He also loves my body shape (hips, thighs, belly - curves).

He also have a female best friend and they talk a lot on a daily basis and they say I love you to each other and he always does favors for her and buys her things and they fight quite a lot and if he doesn't do as she says, she yells at him and they get into fights and he ends up getting moody and really sad? He also speaks to her in private and feels uncomfortable to talk to her when I'm in front of him...

is he in love with her or emotionally attached to her?

or is she just using him?

why are they so close?

(they are friends for awhile now - way b4 he met me, plus he ahs told me that he would never marry he because she isn't his type and she fights way too much)

Lets say your best friend that you've known and been friends with for about 10 years. She ended up liking the same guy you liked which you had strong feelings for? Would you upset? Would you not care?

Would you go crazy?

(if you're a boy, say one of your guy friends liked the girl you liked)

My best friend has liked the guy I liked for a long time, she tried hiding it from me, but as I can read her like a book, it was obvious.

She knew it would hurt me. I'm trying to get over him.

just curious.. I'm a pill addict and you'd never know it.

do you assume drug addicts are the scum of the earth? why or why not?

I've always wondered about this and have gotten so many different opinions. My freshman year of college I had a boyfriend for 4 to 5 months who all my friends knew because since we were freshman and we were all in the same dorm we hung out together. Him and I broke up but continued to hook up occasionally for the next couple months because we both still have unfinished feelings.

One drunk night one of my best friends hooked up with him while she had a boyfriend of 2 to 3 years! I was furious with both of them because he should know better than to hook up with my best friend and a girl that has a bf! and she should just know that that's not right!

Most of my friends were on my side and were furious at her and my ex, but then others said he was my ex, and when she apologized she said she felt worse that she cheated on her boyfriend then that she hurt me. I've also had other friends hook up with this ex a couple months after we stopped hooking up and I still thought it wasn't right but other people would yell at me saying your not allowed to be mad!

Ive also heard people allow it if your friend and your ex really like each other and ask permission I guess

So, when in your opinion does your friend hooking up with your ex cross the line?

I'm always open to hear anyones personal stories!

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