Questions: Family & Friends

Family member Blew all of his Money, Acts Immature with every Decision and now Homeless in Another state with Another girlfriend. The enabling has Gone on for Years but Now I am Stopping it. Feeling Blue. What Would you Do? xx

I’m 24, ever since I moved to my own studio & driving at 23 parents have been angry that I’m an adult. They don’t treat me with respect or like adult, if I don’t do what they say , mom talks over me yells super loud to win me. she don’t listen a word at all. Mom curses at me tells me shut up, idiot, or fuck you. dad laughs in angry way as I say I’m adult rolling his eyes. they think 24 is a 5 year old. they don’t get most girls at 24 have babies. they never call or bother siblings that are married. they only talk to them 1 time a year. they want see me broke, crying for mom like baby. they don’t want see me strong healthy not sick & living alone. i don’t see 24-28 year old crying for thier mommy. parents don’t see me cuz they miss me, I saw them yesterday & all they ddI was try control me interfere in my life. get angry wen they don’t get thier way. it was 2 months I don’t see them but think now I will not see them one year or half year. each time I see them I come home crying misery depresed. They defend a toxic guy that is my ex and still talk to him daily and love him. Who defends a random bad guy and not thier daughter? they don’t respect & stop talking of that person. they love him & are brainwashed. They crossed the line, I cannot forgive parents that don’t defend their daughter. no parents do this. Mom called me demanding pick me up to go to Thanksgiving at brothers house far away with his wife, I was working & she didn’t care & just demanded pick me up like I’m a toy or baby, we fought & she cursed at me. Who gets cuz I’m working? wtf is wrong with that? im an adult I don’t need go see married bro n wife. I’m an adult women. What if I want be with my man and not bro n wife? i no longer sit in parents car while they fight. No grown adult does that either.

I don't like that she buys them presents when she visits and told them they could not have them. She is now not speaking to me because I was telling them not to eat her stuff because we are all on a gluten free diet. they were rude and mean to her she asked them why and she said it's because I told them to. I didn't say that but she doesn't believe me because I have trashed her to them in the past. She seemed really hurt and said she can't believe I would stoop that low.