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Inner Beauty Isn't More Important Than Outer Beauty (Page 2)
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Outer beauty makes me think "Gee, I'd love to fuck her!"
Inner beauty makes me think "Gee, I'd love to spend my ENTIRE FUCKING LIFE WITH HER"
Needless to say, I disagree... It's no where near equal. Outer beauty is nice but no, just no. You're wrong.
Some will agree with you, and that's fine. It's not wrong to be a particularly shallow, vacuous person, it's only wrong to be a dick about it. But for me, inner beauty is what makes me say around even without sex.
Don't judge a book by its cover. Outer beauty is the cover of the book and inner beauty is all the pages in between than the author took its sweet time writing out every detail to make a wonderful story. Outer beauty does not need to be cracked open because it is already on the outside. Outer beauty it just a vague summary of who you are Your inner beauty holds your personality, your charm, your soul. Inner beauty, to me is who you truly are and that should hold more value.
no I meant outer beauty has to be cracked open if you wanna see the inner beauty. It's because we live in a superficial world, everybody get judged based on their looks and hence, the better looking people based on society standards have more open doors to the world.
who are you to say i shouldn't judge a book by its cover
@animus1988 I'm not telling you to do anything. You can judge a book by its cover if you want to but you will only get a taste of what it has or doesn't have to offer.
everyone thinks they have "inner beauty" so its just as arbitrary and shallow as looks
It depends. It's like a book. You need to actually open and read the book to know what's inside. Without knowing what's inside, you can only look at the cover and a short description.
Cover alone doesn't make the book. A trashy book is a trashy book no matter the cover.
An ugly cover will drive other people away though.
I agree to a degree about the outer beauty may first attract people but on other levels it maybe your impression of that person's personality or their actions so I don't totally subscribe to the theory that inner beauty is the be all and end all but I would say personally it is far more important to me than outer beauty.
Yeah, but if you're ugly inside, your inner beauty won't be nearly as great as it could be. Inner beauty affects how we interact and our confidence. As well, it can physically affect our outward appearance. Also, how can you expect to attract others when your inner self is shit? How will you know who is good for you when you aren't good for anyone else?
I guess it’s important to recognize how essential the “spotlight” is to you. Going by that alone, sure, outer beauty is what draws someone’s attentio and in that case it’s more important. But for true relationships, it’s the inner Beaty that is most important. As we all know beauty fades, It’s the inner beauty why people grow old together.
Yeah, people are judgmental so if you're attractive, more people are willing to give you chance and find out if you're good on the inside too. That's just life, it's not fair in the slightest, but sadly that's how things are. The important thing is that we all try to give people a chance no matter what they look like
I agree. Whenever people say "It's the inner beauty that counts the most" I get SO annoyed! As IF guys would look at some 5'3 and 300 pound chick then think "Huh, well... let's get to know her" NO! That is NOT what happens! Maybe if the guy already knows you, but if he just sees you then all he will judge is your appearance
It's both. Like on dating sites you look at pics first so it's about the outer. Then it's their inner beauty that allows a relationship to form. However like with my son's dad I spent 15 years with. I fell in love with him over the phone having no idea what he looked like. When I did finally meet him he wasn't very attractive to me but I was already hooked so it didn't matter.
yes, inner with moral charm so valuable and last long for a good relationship with the right one, time, place etc. all good things will coming to those who have its in different kind of visible happens. (my opinion for share not for fight with some trolls, regards)
Outer beauty is probably even more important for most of us for a long time, but it is subjective. The longer you like someone, the more they automatically look attractive to you, even if they didn't really at first. It also works the other way, with unpleasant people seeming to become less attractive. This is just in my experience anyhow.
I get your point to a certain extent. Yes, there probably has to be some level of attractiveness in most situations. However, I would say that fades away. I've dated pretty girls, frankly you don't find them as pretty at least physically anymore. What's more important is that you find them compatible with you.
So true. Outter beauty draws in potential mates and inner beauty makes them stay. The only problem with this is that a lot of people aren't exactly 10/10 Victoria Secret/ Magic Mike material. I know a lot of "lesser attractive" people who have excellent personalities and wonderful things about them, yet they are all single. No one ever bothers to get to know them. Everyone wants the prettiest looking girl or the handsomest looking guy it seems.
I'm really not a picky man when it comes to beauty. As long as your physical attributes aren't excessively extreme (like huge deformities or extreme under or over weight) then I'll give almost any woman a shot. H***, if a guy can look girly enough and if fun to be around I'll take him too.
People get stuck in creating long lists of physical requirements and miss a lot of opportunities.
That's pretty much my point of view. Being a decent, smart, funny human being is what will make another person wanting to KEEP you around. But in order to keep you around they have to decide to give you a chance to getting to know you first, and that's where physical attributes count.
It's not like one of the two is less valuable of the other one. They Just work in a different time span.
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Inner beauty might hold greater value than physical features but the truth is that most of this world doesn't really care about how good you are from inside. All the world cares about is how you look, how attractive you are, how sexy or hot you are.
It's much easier for attractive people to get around and get their work done, they are favoured while people who are not that good looking have to work really hard to get what they want.
Outer beauty can extend to your personality as well. Even if you don't look like Scarlett Johanson or Sharon Stone, you could have a pleasing personality.
And this personality would attract people towards you.
So even if outer beauty could mean face and body, why are you neglecting this area... the personality?
It means a lot. Its kinda between outer and inner beauty.
I totally agree. We people/humans actually care about the outer beauty and it makes me so mad when they can't admit. So looks actually matter often, I think this is almost by far the most greatest mytake. Good job.
(No I don't only go for looks, but looks matter)
you mean that YOU judge beauty more than outter beauty. not everyone is at your level. what to expect from someone with such username. u could be the hottest female on earth but if i were a guy i wouldn't touch you with a 50 feet pole. i chose my husband based on his spirituality and integrity, nothing else. his appearence grew in me with time.
good for you, saint lmfao. do you even know how to read tho, I said outer and inner beauty equally matter
not a saint. but not a kid anymore either. when i was a kid i thought and acted as a kid. as for being equal i can't ever agree i m sorry. give me a 5 looks 10 character over a 7 looks 7 character any day.
as you said so yourself that you're an adult, you could've just nicely disagree with me; like an adult hahaha :) have a nice day
well nicely doesn't always get the message across. its sad that we bring up a generation of kids raisedwith foul ideas about life, relationships, self worth etc.
a little advice. if you see a guy liking you for your looks before he gets to really know you as a person, and if he persists to move on fast or else he will leave you, its a pretty safe flag to assume it won't work in the longterm.
the thing is, you don't need to send any message to me. my opinion is that your outer beauty has to be accepted first followed by your inner beauty. your opinion is that outer beauty doesn't matter at all and inner beauty is the only thing that matters. you can have your opinion and you can tell me about it but it doesn't mean I have to care and listen, because an opinion has no right or wrong. the things you've told me I already know by the way. and exclude me from "this generation" because I'm so not in it. I may be physically in it because of my age but my thinking is definitely different from the majority
thats cool and compliments you, but you still seem somewhat affected. this my external appearence matters equally stems from all the media and magazines brainwashing about the ridiculous standards we women are supposed to meet. also remember, when you become elder which will happen ridiculous fast cause life is short, it won't be your looks that will keep your husband or anyone else near you. i don't advise you to never wash and go out as a circus freak, i just mean thats so NOT the category of men that you want to attract in the first place. youth is short and most people waste it instead of building the character for their elder years.
I wouldn't say I'm affected because you have a different opinion, I'm just annoyed at the tone you're using, saying I'm low level just because my opinion is different from yours lol
Well i was born in a generation that still a few girls existed that struggled for ideals and timeless values. now schools are mostly fashion catwalk arenas, and kids completely ditached from reality. gems are becoming all the more rare. Why are we even disscussing looks. I'd be happy if a 16 year old girl wrote a take about history or philosophy or art. The obsession of society with its superficial image is what saddens me.
uh your response to my response has no link but ok.