Tall guys are attractive in my opinion. For some reason, I can't see a tall guy like I see a short guy. I'm not very tall, but dating a guy who's shorter than me would be awkward. And like Lilac79 said, it's a matter of preference.
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No preference is liking a girl who's skinny or who likes some of the same things I like. I can't change my height. It's like skin color. When you figure out a way for me to change my height then I'll shut up.
I know what you mean. Yes, you can't change your height. But like some guys prefer pale girls, or tan girls or dark skinned girls, some girls prefer tall guys.
I prefer pale redheads with freckles but that doesn't hinder my want for other types of girls. Therefore I have a preference and it's not discrimination.
If a girl were to say she'd date a guy of any height but she prefers tall guys then I'm cool with that. That's preference and not discrimination. Make sense?
Does it seems that I'm discriminating short guys? I don't so. Like many girls, I just have a preference for tall guys. I like them. And there's nothing wrong with my preference.
Not all of us are that judgy. I’m 5’3, and the guy I like is around 5’4. But this guy is always considered really “short” when really he’s taller than me!
Some have a personal preference, I don’t care as long as he’s not way shorter than me. I once had a difficult type of crush on a guy who was short haha so who knows what could happen. Find a short girl and you’ll probably be ok lol
i just want to be with someone taller than me... i think when the girl is taller than the guy it looks really weird and i dont like that. as long as i can wear heels and at least be the same height as the guy, im fine. other than that, no deal. so for me i just dont like the way it looks
I like short guys, but typically no shorter than 5'6"-5'7"... me being 5'9". It's not about protection or anything, it's about being able to look the guy in the eyes while going easy on my spine. Nothing more.
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Going easy on your spine? o_O huh? Well I don't like girls taller than 5'4 how's that sound (I like girls of all heights I'm making a point)? And your white too. Don't like white people (I like girls of all races again making a point).
I just wanna be able to kiss a guy without having to bend over too much or to crouch.
I don't see how are you making a point here. I'm just being pragmatic about the height issue... BUT if a guy came along and he was charming, witty and had handsome facial features, I wouldn't even mind if he was 5'2". That's why I said "typically" - most guys I've liked have been 5'7", give or take an inch. You're just easily offended, I guess.
Why? A tall guy would have to do the same thing if he were to kiss you. Have you ever considered his struggles? LOL!! Nah I'm not easily offended. I'm a quiet nice calm guy. When I sit and watch the world burn nobody says anything but when I say the world is burning everyone goes crazy. I'm not a mean or easily offended person. So if I DO point out something it must be a serious problem.
You say typically you like tall guys but your willing to try a short guy right? That's a preference. That's ok. I'm not complaining about that.
I'm taller on average for a girl. So it just looks weird if I'm with a guy who's super short. And I'm attracted to manliness... which encompasses height. Sorry.
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LOL!!! My masculinity doesn't but thank you for your opinion.
Cause I'm not attracted to short people. It's a preference. Nothing wrong or shallow about that. The only people who would call a preference shallow is someone who doesn't match up to that preference. In other words he's insecure about himself
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I don't consider it a preference but even if it was that doesn't make it right. There are some who only date people of a particular race that makes them racist to me but others say it's a preference. It's shallow and close minded of course some who is close minded wouldn't see it that way. You don't match up to my preference are you insecure about yourself?
I am 5'2 and I prefer taller guys since they make me feel more feminine and I can wear all sorts of shoes without thinking that I might be taller than him.
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Yet females say they care more about the personality of a guy? LOL!! Liars.
wait the fuck up. are you guys (asker and ocicatlover) telling me you would date a girl who's 6'2 and weighs 240 lbs? probably not. not even if she had the perfect personality. so don't even get mad at us.
nooriginality , we are talking about height alone. and i have gone out with women who weighed a lot more than me and were only about 2 inches shorter than me
@nooriginality I wouldn't date a girl who is 240 ibs but she can always lose weight. I'd latch on to a 6'2 girl. I've seen some hot females who are that height.
I know where she's coming from. As a guy I find it really attractive when a girl is only 5'2". It sucks you may not experience being a lot taller than a girl, but there is some kind of dominant feeling to it which can be a turn on.
Being short and saying you're okay with someone tall or short just isn't the same as someone tall saying they're okay with tall or short. One is generally the more desirable trait.
Yes, of course. Just because he doesn't care about heigh doesn't mean everyone else should adhere to his preferences. Different people like different things. I don't think it's alright to bully people into liking something they're not into.
I'm personally ok with short guys and have mostly dated short men, because I'm 5'7 myself. But it's definitely not mine or anyone's place to tell people who they ought to be attracted to.
You say your mindset wouldn't change, but I guarantee it would.
Instead of short and tall, imagine this scenario as skinny and fat. Right now you're the fat guy asking why skinny, in shape girls won't go for bigger fellas.
It's not invalid because, and here's the kicker, people don't give a damn if it's something you can change or not. Tall is a far more desirable trait than being short is. So you can't expect tall girls to be open minded about settling for someone short.
What do you mean by that? What makes you think I'm settling? What if I do have a tall or average height girl? I realize that most don't like short guys and that's what I'm debating. I never said I was looking for a upgrade.
Taller is more desirable. Plain and simple. You're okay with tall and short girls because you have the inferior trait. You can't honestly expect it to work in both directions.
I'm thought of superior in other ways yet I'd take a girl who's thought of as inferior in other ways. I've got a good example of that but I don't want this to turn into a different kind of debate. So for sake of argument here's a different example
I'm big somewhere else yet girls say size doesn't matter. The media says it does. Society says it does but most females don't care.
The truth is that it's a subconscious thought process that could be changed. The realest people are people who follow their own path and not social norms.
You have good things about you I'm sure, but if said good qualities are also possessed by a tall guy, he's going to have the edge over you. It sucks, but it's the truth.
Or choose to be but I mean I feel you though. I get what your saying. I feel my height is a blessing in disguise. Maybe I wouldn't want a girl who's real skinny or a girl who's taller than me if I was tall.
I'm small. Only 162 cm. However I prefer taller guys, 180 cm +. Perfectly he can be 185-190 cm. Why? Not because of their looks. I like big hands, I like wide chest, when a tall guy hugs you you feel protected and secure. Just psychological thing for me. Anyway I dated smaller guy. I believe the smallest was 170 or so. But I didn't feel comfortable cuddling with him.
I'm also curvy. I got wide shoulders, thin waist, but wide hips, I need a big guy to feel myself fragile.
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Same reasoning. False security and protected. You could have saved yourself from writing all that.
You seem to be very agressive. I'm chubby, but I don't get mad when the most of guys claim they prefer slimmer girls. You asked POV, here it is. This is not false. This is years of evolution and history. We are still human being. There are a lot of petit girls who will prefer smaller guy. But no, none of my taller girlfriends prefer smaller guys, coz they also want to feel femine, which is harder to do when you're 180.
It is a false issue because protection is based on strength, speed, courage, etc. Not height. Also, we are not animals. If we are then why should a guy go to jail if he rapes a girl? I mean sex is natural right? I don't believe in Darwin's bullshit. He's the same guy who thought finches evolve. Species don't change into other species. If evolution is true then that's backwards. In today's day and age it shouldn't be a factor. You're not attacked by wild lions are you? The fuck do you need protection from? Why not hire security?
I think the problem here is grown women want to feel like little girls.
Also, you say none of your taller GFs prefer smaller guys this must be a rare occurrence because tall chicks typically are attracted to the same height difference short girls are. Girls taller than me have wanted me just as much or more than short girls percentage wise.
Some women love to embrace their height. They feel female empowerment by being tall and their guy reminding them
that they are tall by the guy being short. It's clear insecurity on display here LOL. Clearly your tall GFs are insecure about their height. They HAVE to feel short in order for them to feel feminine. How you can't see that as shallow is beyond me.
You literally just said why do you have to "settle" for a girl that's shorter than you. I'm not trying to be pedantic, but your use of the word "settle", is interesting.
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That sentence was a form of writing. I meant to say no short guy should have to only be able to get girls that are short. I say this in my other comments. Yeah some people on here are being pedantic, but it is my first question I every asked. I didn't know I had to be so specific. I like girls that are short, medium height, and tall. Can you say the same about guys?
I'll be honest, I'm verging on 5'9. I prefer that my partner is taller than me. I obviously subscribe to the notion that a man should be physically bigger than me, including height. If I'm extremely honest, it probably comes down to my insecurities about being a tall woman and having a shorter partner only highlights that. In all, it's superficial and it's due to me worrying about being judged by people outside of my relationship. Which is silly, but it would still affect me negatively.
I'll do better next time at stating questions, especially questions like this because people get real picky about these types.
I think that could be said for a lot of girls. They even said taller guys make them feel "secure". If only girls cared more about horizontal height than vertical height. 😣
It's nice to be able to wear heels around your man without towering over him, lol. I've met more short guys than I've met short girls to be completely honest with you.
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What's wrong with towering over him? Your still the "fragile" "innocent" female so to speak and he's still the "masculine" male.
My friend Cinya is dating my friend James who is almost 2 feet shorter than him. Don't feel ashamed for your height. Some girls think short boys are cute.
Maybe it's because of this social ideal that a guy should be taller and bigger than his girlfriend. Although I have met a few girls who wouldn't mind dating a guy shorter than them.
Well I guess I'd rather have a guy that's taller than me...but I'll try anything once. If I really like a guy that's shorter than me than I'd see where it went.
I mean this is just be personally. For me it makes me feel self conscious and I start to notice things that might make me feel manlier...idk its hard to explain
That some guys will look towards physical appearance...But I thought about this and I am admitting that it is wrong of me to look at these things rather than what kind of person he is..When it comes down to it, at first I might think it is awkward that he is shorter but I would be able to get over things like that...when I think about it, if that person can't get over the fact that you are shorter then its their loss. Just find someone who can accept all of you :)
Asker you cannot force them to change their preferences.This is the reality of the world. World is materialistic. To gain something you have to fight plus u must have luck factor. You must look for the girl who is shorter than you after all girls look for men who are at least 2 inches taller than them. I am not generalising but dude feelings doesn't have to work with women everytime. I observed white girls are generally tall but there are many who are at your given height.
Well like I was telling the other guys I don't know exactly how tall I am but most girls are either a little shorter than me, the same height, or a little bit taller. I mean it's give or take 2 or 3 inches. Most don't see it as a problem. I don't know if it's because I look good to them. I'm not gay but I think I look good. But society says that taller men are better. And I don't like that.
Oh. Well then you gotta deal with the "Asian guys are small in another way" stereotype. But you know some girls don't care about that either. You just gotta pick out the right ones.
Hmmm...right...but i think we don't care. As long as our women are loving and marrying us..i don't want to think what white women think of us. Also i live in india so actually i don't worry.. Also many girls don't care of dick size...as long as it is average. I am 5.4 inches which is quite enuf at Indian women's point of view...Also indian women ( at least in india) don't care that much on dick like western women might do. And man don't worry...you will get your women man! I think , presently you have crush on tall woman. Are you white?
I don't have to worry about horizontal size just vertical but even then I'm usually at least the same height as most girls so idk. It was a general question but people kept trying to apply it to me.
Indian girls are sexy. I have a crush on all types of girls. My most picky preference is red head white girls with freckles.
Girls are very hypocritical when it comes to height. They are very vocal about preferring tall guys, but as a tall guy I get so much hate from short girls if I'm honest about their height being unattractive to me.
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You don't like short girls? I find short, average, and tall girls attractive. Maybe I just love females so much that I can find beauty in any height.
When a girl is much shorter we look like a father and a daughter... kissing, dancing etc. is weird. I also have a thing for long legs. But having said that, height isn't high on my priority list.
And btw, being extra aggressive and such will just make people shake their heads and go, "lil'man syndrome."
Oh, and fun fact, no one "gets all the options" except rich, good looking guys. For everyone, it's a Ven diagram of what we want intersecting with what we can get.
The last part of that sentence. "BS". Because that's what it is. In other words people let nature define who they are. I make my own decisions. Outside the common sheeple world of society.
"Lil man syndrome" LOL!! You don't even know the meaning of that word. Or do people mean it in different ways? I'm not little by no means and I'm not aggressive unless I want to be. How you know I'm aggressive in person? You don't know that.
I look good, I'm broke though. I have had girls of all different types at least say I look good. Still don't mean they'd date me but they at least find me attractive so yeah.
Oh, of course, forgive me. We're all sheeple who let biology dictate what turns us on, you're breaking the mold. Or you simply can't afford to have standards or preferences. You wanted to know why girls don't like short guys. Well, thanks to this board and internet, you know. but hey, you can pat yourself on the back, "They're all shallow sheeple who let biology decide what turns them on." lmfao.
I don't think all girls don't like short guys. I prefer tall yet my guy is not tall ;) much more goes into a girls thought process when finding a partner they are attracted too.
A short guy can be masculine too, of course. Just in general, if you compare a short guy to a tall guy--the taller guy will appear more so than the shorter one.
I think most girls can't help it. The same way guys look at fat girls and judge them, it's the same...just that height is something that can't be altered. Some girls don't mind it, though.
I wasn't aware that we girl didn't like short guys 😳
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Some see the height of a guy and immediately cross him out. I've never had a problem with it but I am around most girls height so I guess they don't care? o.O
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Tall guys are attractive in my opinion. For some reason, I can't see a tall guy like I see a short guy.
I'm not very tall, but dating a guy who's shorter than me would be awkward.
And like Lilac79 said, it's a matter of preference.
No preference is liking a girl who's skinny or who likes some of the same things I like. I can't change my height. It's like skin color. When you figure out a way for me to change my height then I'll shut up.
I know what you mean. Yes, you can't change your height. But like some guys prefer pale girls, or tan girls or dark skinned girls, some girls prefer tall guys.
I prefer pale redheads with freckles but that doesn't hinder my want for other types of girls. Therefore I have a preference and it's not discrimination.
If a girl were to say she'd date a guy of any height but she prefers tall guys then I'm cool with that. That's preference and not discrimination. Make sense?
Does it seems that I'm discriminating short guys? I don't so.
Like many girls, I just have a preference for tall guys. I like them. And there's nothing wrong with my preference.
*think so
Not all of us are that judgy. I’m 5’3, and the guy I like is around 5’4. But this guy is always considered really “short” when really he’s taller than me!
Some have a personal preference, I don’t care as long as he’s not way shorter than me. I once had a difficult type of crush on a guy who was short haha so who knows what could happen. Find a short girl and you’ll probably be ok lol
Although the short to tall paring is cute, as long as the guy is my height or taller would be just fine
How tall are you?
I'm 5'3 :)
that is cute
My height or what I said? Haha
We'd be around the same height. Give or take a inch or two.
Aww! Nice :)
i would be about 4 or 5 inches taller than you btw. and i was talking about your height
yeah i always felt my height isn't a bad height either lol
It's a happy medium height.
i just want to be with someone taller than me... i think when the girl is taller than the guy it looks really weird and i dont like that. as long as i can wear heels and at least be the same height as the guy, im fine. other than that, no deal.
so for me i just dont like the way it looks
I like short guys, but typically no shorter than 5'6"-5'7"... me being 5'9". It's not about protection or anything, it's about being able to look the guy in the eyes while going easy on my spine. Nothing more.
Going easy on your spine? o_O huh? Well I don't like girls taller than 5'4 how's that sound (I like girls of all heights I'm making a point)? And your white too. Don't like white people (I like girls of all races again making a point).
I just wanna be able to kiss a guy without having to bend over too much or to crouch.
I don't see how are you making a point here. I'm just being pragmatic about the height issue... BUT if a guy came along and he was charming, witty and had handsome facial features, I wouldn't even mind if he was 5'2". That's why I said "typically" - most guys I've liked have been 5'7", give or take an inch. You're just easily offended, I guess.
Why? A tall guy would have to do the same thing if he were to kiss you. Have you ever considered his struggles? LOL!! Nah I'm not easily offended. I'm a quiet nice calm guy. When I sit and watch the world burn nobody says anything but when I say the world is burning everyone goes crazy. I'm not a mean or easily offended person. So if I DO point out something it must be a serious problem.
You say typically you like tall guys but your willing to try a short guy right? That's a preference. That's ok. I'm not complaining about that.
No, I typically like short-to-average guys. I haven't found myself liking a single guy over 6'. But the perfect height for me is 5'7"-5'10".
Well I'm below that. Perfect height for me would be any.
I'm taller on average for a girl. So it just looks weird if I'm with a guy who's super short. And I'm attracted to manliness... which encompasses height. Sorry.
LOL!!! My masculinity doesn't but thank you for your opinion.
How tall are you
Cause I'm not attracted to short people. It's a preference. Nothing wrong or shallow about that. The only people who would call a preference shallow is someone who doesn't match up to that preference. In other words he's insecure about himself
I don't consider it a preference but even if it was that doesn't make it right. There are some who only date people of a particular race that makes them racist to me but others say it's a preference. It's shallow and close minded of course some who is close minded wouldn't see it that way. You don't match up to my preference are you insecure about yourself?
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I am 5'2 and I prefer taller guys since they make me feel more feminine and I can wear all sorts of shoes without thinking that I might be taller than him.
Yet females say they care more about the personality of a guy? LOL!! Liars.
I said prefer, it doesn't necessarily mean that I would choose a taller guy with bad personality over a short guy with great personality.
and they have the nerve to say men are the more superficial and shallow than women lol
I didn't say that, we all have preferences and are attracted to different things. I prefer a taller guy because that's what I am attracted to.
@Dzindzer As long as you'd give a short guy a chance I guess :/.
@ocicatlover right.
I definitely would they might have more to offer. :)
hey i understand why you prefer taller guys than you, what i dont get is the women who want guys that are a foot taller than them or more.
wait the fuck up. are you guys (asker and ocicatlover) telling me you would date a girl who's 6'2 and weighs 240 lbs? probably not. not even if she had the perfect personality.
so don't even get mad at us.
nooriginality , we are talking about height alone. and i have gone out with women who weighed a lot more than me and were only about 2 inches shorter than me
@nooriginality I wouldn't date a girl who is 240 ibs but she can always lose weight. I'd latch on to a 6'2 girl. I've seen some hot females who are that height.
i would go out with a 6 foot talk woman too
I know where she's coming from. As a guy I find it really attractive when a girl is only 5'2". It sucks you may not experience being a lot taller than a girl, but there is some kind of dominant feeling to it which can be a turn on.
Exactly! :)
Why should you have to settle for a girl that's shorter than you?
Why you should a girl have to settle for a guy that's shorter than her?
(Ignore the "you" in the second question)
She should be ok with a tall guy and a short guy. Just like I'm ok being with a tall girl or a short girl.
So essentially what you're saying is that nobody is allowed to have preferences, because your personal taste settles everything.
Cool.
Being short and saying you're okay with someone tall or short just isn't the same as someone tall saying they're okay with tall or short.
One is generally the more desirable trait.
I'm assuming that you're addressing QA and not me, right?
I don't have any preferences. Or if I do it doesn't have to do with height.
I'm a pretty open minded person, I doubt being 6 foot would change that mindset.
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Yes, of course. Just because he doesn't care about heigh doesn't mean everyone else should adhere to his preferences.
Different people like different things. I don't think it's alright to bully people into liking something they're not into.
I'm personally ok with short guys and have mostly dated short men, because I'm 5'7 myself. But it's definitely not mine or anyone's place to tell people who they ought to be attracted to.
You say your mindset wouldn't change, but I guarantee it would.
Instead of short and tall, imagine this scenario as skinny and fat. Right now you're the fat guy asking why skinny, in shape girls won't go for bigger fellas.
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Nah because I can get in shape. I'm a skinny guy but I've been ripped before. I can't change my height though. Your argument is invalid.
It's not invalid because, and here's the kicker, people don't give a damn if it's something you can change or not.
Tall is a far more desirable trait than being short is. So you can't expect tall girls to be open minded about settling for someone short.
People aren't open minded. It's unfortunate.
Oddly enough, you're the close minded one here. You expect women to settle because you think you deserve an upgrade.
What do you mean by that? What makes you think I'm settling? What if I do have a tall or average height girl? I realize that most don't like short guys and that's what I'm debating. I never said I was looking for a upgrade.
Taller is more desirable. Plain and simple. You're okay with tall and short girls because you have the inferior trait. You can't honestly expect it to work in both directions.
I'm thought of superior in other ways yet I'd take a girl who's thought of as inferior in other ways. I've got a good example of that but I don't want this to turn into a different kind of debate. So for sake of argument here's a different example
I'm big somewhere else yet girls say size doesn't matter. The media says it does. Society says it does but most females don't care.
The truth is that it's a subconscious thought process that could be changed. The realest people are people who follow their own path and not social norms.
You have good things about you I'm sure, but if said good qualities are also possessed by a tall guy, he's going to have the edge over you. It sucks, but it's the truth.
If only I was as shallow.
That's the thing. The less desirable you are to the opposite sex, the less shallow and picky you can be.
Or choose to be but I mean I feel you though. I get what your saying. I feel my height is a blessing in disguise. Maybe I wouldn't want a girl who's real skinny or a girl who's taller than me if I was tall.
I can weave out the weeds from the grass.
Bottom line, we have to play the cards we're dealt.
And some people given a royal flush to start the game, where as others are given trash cards. Make it work.
You right bruh. Thanks.
I'm small. Only 162 cm. However I prefer taller guys, 180 cm +. Perfectly he can be 185-190 cm. Why? Not because of their looks. I like big hands, I like wide chest, when a tall guy hugs you you feel protected and secure. Just psychological thing for me. Anyway I dated smaller guy. I believe the smallest was 170 or so. But I didn't feel comfortable cuddling with him.
I'm also curvy. I got wide shoulders, thin waist, but wide hips, I need a big guy to feel myself fragile.
Same reasoning. False security and protected. You could have saved yourself from writing all that.
*protection.
You seem to be very agressive. I'm chubby, but I don't get mad when the most of guys claim they prefer slimmer girls.
You asked POV, here it is. This is not false. This is years of evolution and history. We are still human being. There are a lot of petit girls who will prefer smaller guy. But no, none of my taller girlfriends prefer smaller guys, coz they also want to feel femine, which is harder to do when you're 180.
It is a false issue because protection is based on strength, speed, courage, etc. Not height. Also, we are not animals. If we are then why should a guy go to jail if he rapes a girl? I mean sex is natural right? I don't believe in Darwin's bullshit. He's the same guy who thought finches evolve. Species don't change into other species. If evolution is true then that's backwards. In today's day and age it shouldn't be a factor. You're not attacked by wild lions are you? The fuck do you need protection from? Why not hire security?
I think the problem here is grown women want to feel like little girls.
Also, you say none of your taller GFs prefer smaller guys this must be a rare occurrence because tall chicks typically are attracted to the same height difference short girls are. Girls taller than me have wanted me just as much or more than short girls percentage wise.
Some women love to embrace their height. They feel female empowerment by being tall and their guy reminding them
that they are tall by the guy being short. It's clear insecurity on display here LOL. Clearly your tall GFs are insecure about their height. They HAVE to feel short in order for them to feel feminine. How you can't see that as shallow is beyond me.
You literally just said why do you have to "settle" for a girl that's shorter than you.
I'm not trying to be pedantic, but your use of the word "settle", is interesting.
That sentence was a form of writing. I meant to say no short guy should have to only be able to get girls that are short. I say this in my other comments. Yeah some people on here are being pedantic, but it is my first question I every asked. I didn't know I had to be so specific. I like girls that are short, medium height, and tall. Can you say the same about guys?
In terms of romantic/sexual partners.
Fair enough.
I'll be honest, I'm verging on 5'9. I prefer that my partner is taller than me. I obviously subscribe to the notion that a man should be physically bigger than me, including height.
If I'm extremely honest, it probably comes down to my insecurities about being a tall woman and having a shorter partner only highlights that. In all, it's superficial and it's due to me worrying about being judged by people outside of my relationship. Which is silly, but it would still affect me negatively.
I'll do better next time at stating questions, especially questions like this because people get real picky about these types.
I think that could be said for a lot of girls. They even said taller guys make them feel "secure". If only girls cared more about horizontal height than vertical height. 😣
Lol, horizontal height?
You know now that I thought about it that's incorrect to say. I guess I should say horizontal length. Just one in particular though.
It's nice to be able to wear heels around your man without towering over him, lol. I've met more short guys than I've met short girls to be completely honest with you.
What's wrong with towering over him? Your still the "fragile" "innocent" female so to speak and he's still the "masculine" male.
a lot of guys always seem uncomfortable with it
I don't. I'm still the guy in my opinion and she's still the girl.
then i guess thats you. I'm two inches shorter than my bf and i can't wear heels around him so we don't party together
If a guy feels his masculinity is determined by height then that's on him. My masculinity is more than that.
My friend Cinya is dating my friend James who is almost 2 feet shorter than him. Don't feel ashamed for your height. Some girls think short boys are cute.
shorter than **her** my bad
I am cute. I look in the mirror and say "who's that good looking guy." LOL!! Smh. Nah but your right.
Exactly, so go after what you want. James did and he got a lovely girl. You can get your perfect girl. Good luck on the search
Maybe it's because of this social ideal that a guy should be taller and bigger than his girlfriend.
Although I have met a few girls who wouldn't mind dating a guy shorter than them.
You would mind wouldn't you?
Well I guess I'd rather have a guy that's taller than me...but I'll try anything once. If I really like a guy that's shorter than me than I'd see where it went.
For me it just makes me feel like...idk manlier? (when it comes down to it, its really dumb but like im pretty sure many girls can agree with me)
Smh.
I mean this is just be personally. For me it makes me feel self conscious and I start to notice things that might make me feel manlier...idk its hard to explain
I can't even argue anymore. Short guys are going to have to just take their bat and play with others.
And this goes for guys too..
o.O what do you mean?
That some guys will look towards physical appearance...But I thought about this and I am admitting that it is wrong of me to look at these things rather than what kind of person he is..When it comes down to it, at first I might think it is awkward that he is shorter but I would be able to get over things like that...when I think about it, if that person can't get over the fact that you are shorter then its their loss. Just find someone who can accept all of you :)
Yeah...the girls who nip pick on height are fake to me.
Asker you cannot force them to change their preferences.This is the reality of the world. World is materialistic. To gain something you have to fight plus u must have luck factor. You must look for the girl who is shorter than you after all girls look for men who are at least 2 inches taller than them. I am not generalising but dude feelings doesn't have to work with women everytime.
I observed white girls are generally tall but there are many who are at your given height.
Well like I was telling the other guys I don't know exactly how tall I am but most girls are either a little shorter than me, the same height, or a little bit taller. I mean it's give or take 2 or 3 inches. Most don't see it as a problem. I don't know if it's because I look good to them. I'm not gay but I think I look good. But society says that taller men are better. And I don't like that.
You black?
No i am not black. I am south asian.
Oh. Well then you gotta deal with the "Asian guys are small in another way" stereotype. But you know some girls don't care about that either. You just gotta pick out the right ones.
Hmmm...right...but i think we don't care. As long as our women are loving and marrying us..i don't want to think what white women think of us. Also i live in india so actually i don't worry..
Also many girls don't care of dick size...as long as it is average. I am 5.4 inches which is quite enuf at Indian women's point of view...Also indian women ( at least in india) don't care that much on dick like western women might do.
And man don't worry...you will get your women man! I think , presently you have crush on tall woman. Are you white?
I don't have to worry about horizontal size just vertical but even then I'm usually at least the same height as most girls so idk. It was a general question but people kept trying to apply it to me.
Indian girls are sexy. I have a crush on all types of girls. My most picky preference is red head white girls with freckles.
I'm black.
Girls are very hypocritical when it comes to height. They are very vocal about preferring tall guys, but as a tall guy I get so much hate from short girls if I'm honest about their height being unattractive to me.
You don't like short girls? I find short, average, and tall girls attractive. Maybe I just love females so much that I can find beauty in any height.
When a girl is much shorter we look like a father and a daughter... kissing, dancing etc. is weird. I also have a thing for long legs. But having said that, height isn't high on my priority list.
I don't know man...I guess people don't think like I do. I must be "different". I mean I like long legs too. I guess I just don't care idk.
The same reason that guys like C cups over A cups, even though women often just buy formula to feed their babies.
I like small boobs and big boobs, and medium.
dont lie to your self. if you don't have preferences you don't have standards (toasker)
@nooriginality I do like any kind of boobs. I swear I do. Just so long she doesn't have a inverted nipple or something. LOL!!!
Then you're the exception, QA. Most men prefer larger breasts over small breasts. Just as most women prefer taller men over shorter men.
I prefer both small and large and medium. I give no fucks about tit size.
Dude, point stands, and you know perfectly well why girls don't like short guys.
Point doesn't stand and why?
"Even though I said all that I know I'll probably get stupid comments about nature and genetics. BS."
You already know why girls don't want short guys.
And btw, being extra aggressive and such will just make people shake their heads and go, "lil'man syndrome."
Oh, and fun fact, no one "gets all the options" except rich, good looking guys. For everyone, it's a Ven diagram of what we want intersecting with what we can get.
The last part of that sentence. "BS". Because that's what it is. In other words people let nature define who they are. I make my own decisions. Outside the common sheeple world of society.
"Lil man syndrome" LOL!! You don't even know the meaning of that word. Or do people mean it in different ways? I'm not little by no means and I'm not aggressive unless I want to be. How you know I'm aggressive in person? You don't know that.
I look good, I'm broke though. I have had girls of all different types at least say I look good. Still don't mean they'd date me but they at least find me attractive so yeah.
Oh, of course, forgive me. We're all sheeple who let biology dictate what turns us on, you're breaking the mold. Or you simply can't afford to have standards or preferences. You wanted to know why girls don't like short guys. Well, thanks to this board and internet, you know. but hey, you can pat yourself on the back, "They're all shallow sheeple who let biology decide what turns them on." lmfao.
Most girls I've ever talked to at least thought I was cute. Some 6'0 or taller. Carry on with being tall and stupid though.
I was speaking about society in general. Luckily I'm attractive so they usually look past height but I'm a rare exception to the common rule.
Plus I'm not THAT short. I'm at least a inch taller than most girls I see.
Hey, don't get upset at me little fella, I didn't make you short.
I'm not upset. o.O
LOL!! "Little fella". I'm a big guy.
I don't think all girls don't like short guys. I prefer tall yet my guy is not tall ;) much more goes into a girls thought process when finding a partner they are attracted too.
mhm!!! same here. my ex was 5 inches shorter then me hehe
It just appears more masculine and makes us feel more feminine
Are you trying to say I'm not masculine? :(
A short guy can be masculine too, of course. Just in general, if you compare a short guy to a tall guy--the taller guy will appear more so than the shorter one.
Let me ask you this, how can I change my height?
You can't :(
So why judge me by it? I like girls of all shapes and sizes and they can change that by working out...or eating. Smh.
I think most girls can't help it. The same way guys look at fat girls and judge them, it's the same...just that height is something that can't be altered. Some girls don't mind it, though.
Thanks for your input.
I wasn't aware that we girl didn't like short guys 😳
Some see the height of a guy and immediately cross him out. I've never had a problem with it but I am around most girls height so I guess they don't care? o.O
There's a lot of girls out there. How you're around all of them is beyond me! ;)
This is true. In fact y'all outnumber us guys by a large margin. I guess because we are too busy screwing stuff up and fighting each other. LOL!! XD