Who is that model? She has a very winsome demeanor. On any other girl, I doubt it would be so appealing, but she pulls it off, and not just because she is a hottie. Demeanor is not just looks (although it is that too).
To "New Age" for me. Like a 70's stoner hippie girl into jewels and crystals and Eastern mysticism. I'll pass. But the first pic of the chick in the dress, that was okay. But to many necklaces. Just one would suffice. Or just a choker
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Id say my style is mostly bohemian, i fell into it because its comfortable
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It can look good or it can look very dirty and skanky. If styled right then yeah 👍🏼
It's a lovely style, good taste and nothing too rude, also pretty chilling I think it improves the smile of a person and gives a bit of a sensation of security
@VIVANT That is flattering but it is really how I see and feel it sometimes I am a bit mad men don't have access to some of the clothes I am really glad that I could make you want to dress again hope you will do it even if I must say the dress you are currently wearing sounds wonderful too
i did not start appreciating clothing until recently. i was 'too serious' i thought clothing will make me frivolous. I actually feel like i have evolved more after i started paying attention because how i dress has somehow helped me expand in how i relate to the world, which is odd but true.
Anyhow i appreciate this style or exactly the reasons you said and it was the perfect transition from monotonous, to feminine without going to the tacky or cheap or ditzy side of things, and maintaining a feeling of strength. i think truly feminine clothing is open to the earth and does not constrain women and exposes just enough to be reminded of strength but is not exposing in a 'vulnerable' way. Just in a rooted kind of way. I really felt embraced by something i was not familiar with and the softness and flow and subtle hint of body just made it a very beautiful awakening.
lol i never really thought of it in depth i just felt it, but what you wrote reminded me.. i do think men are cheated
from experience the beauty and strength in the flow of fabric.. sounds silly but really its kind of like flying on ground. I feel energy lift just by my dress blowing in the wind. i can understand why men used to wear togas and members of the cloth wear long robes. I do know some guys wear flowing fabric but its rare.
@VIVANT You seem like a very sensitive and with good taste person and as I see it you just need a spark to describe everything a lot more beautiful then I did. Yes indeed sometimes I believe clothing can make us seem superficial but it has a big impact on everything and most important of our own selfes how we see our bodies in this world the colours are usually how we feel. Yes I really love this style too has such a good and pleasant vibration and it gives power and grace to a woman it is intoxicating in a very beautiful way. I imagined it a bit and it is like the inside beauty of a woman vibrates on the outside breathing through every molecule of air surrounding her.. Yeah we are a bit cheated and a bit judged if we dress.
@VIVANT I think you cannot be more right about the flow of fabric that's pretty much close to vibration clothes do contain energy and change the energy insides us too at least to a degree. You become one with the wind and flow through rays of sun spreading beauty and grace everywhere.
@VIVANT You got it a bit mixed up in the last comment but I understood what you wanted to say and I would so love if more people would think like that.
@VIVANT Ohh really don't worry it is not my first language either. Still your description about clothing was very poetic and beautiful I loved it. Would I be too curious if I would ask which is your first language?
I do not know about the first statement.. I have always been odd and oblivious to my surroundings I do not think I ever have belonged anywhere. Thank you for the second statement... Actually I live in the United States now that i get dressed ;p
@VIVANT Not belonging anywhere should feel natural to more people to be honest that would literally make the world a better place and the ego of people smaller with less conflicts and such. Do you believe the states helped you stepping outside that castle or you would have one way or another anywhere you would have been? Probably you just begin to know yourself better as I see it. I have been in that castle of being serious too, I have an ideea how it is.
I think being on my own, being a bit older-- helping me to realize i am actually still young. I became more exploratory of who I am how I want to relate to my surroundings. I discover counter intuitively, I feel more authentic when i do not ignore what i used to think was a shallow part of me.
Ohh and I did wanted to go in the direction that french people are more inclined to art and good taste but I do realize that would be very dull of me to judge these things from a nationality perspective of course I am a bit inclined too becouse of the majority but in the end it really resumes to each individual.
@VIVANT Authentic, that is a very wisely chosen word. I think we are always young or that's how we should feel. Also a lot of times it is hard to get over some of the barries that were like forever in our lives. Parts that seem shallow can actually be most intense, in the end it is just a matter of how you feel and percieve it.
@VIVANT I mean if this seemed shallow for you imagine how it felt for me as a man, indoctrinated with "valors" men should have when to be honest we all have a feminine and masculine side more or less pronounced. So many rules of how to be or not to be how to feel and not to feel. In the past 8 years I explored most of the things that seemed shallow to me or things which I was so convinced by others and this pattern of reality that are shallow.
I do not think I ever felt things as female pressure-nor male. but pressure to be a rational human being.
Men have more rules as human beings, Women have more restrictions as Women. I think i likely automatically identified with male rules of personhood, not bc i identify as a man but as a human being not as a kind of being that is similar to human but softer ;p
I think a lot of the limitations I placed on myself are more similar to that of Men than Women. Just by default. As male limitations have more to do with being productive-on print but it turns out to be bullshit in my opinion bc to be your best you need all of you. Whereas female limitations seem to just be to be 'feminine' but fake feminine. I do not think real femininity is constricting and weak.
I do not really hold onto any kind of arbitrary limitations now, but i can see I had more male influence on my brainwashing than female. I am now deciding what it means to be the kind of human being I respect, and there are pieces of things I picked up along the way but im adding much more, figuratively and literally --including but in no way limited to- dresses ;p
@VIVANT Yes indeeed you actually imagine it very well and I have a feeling that you do since you used "productive-on print". So where do you think being a rational human being would go to? I feel that only rational thing to do is helping others so as a race we evolve. Indeed males have more rules and women more restrictions but sometimes being all of you means to break most of them. Well being feminine has kind of lost it's "colours sort to say becouse the sacred feminity is kind of lost and surely not weak but very powerful but not controlling-powerfull, powerful from the level of understanding things.
@VIVANT Well knowing the rules and restrictions very well but actually having close to none can be interesting. I am sure the being you respect might aswell be forged in many, many years since you need to bypass all the brainwashing. I find it interesting that you used respect and not love, even if usually love comes with respect wouldn't it just be wiser to become the human being that you love?
haha its interesting because even now i think there is some censorship. I think 'respect' has been placed very carefully at the forefront of my ethos I care about life, people, beings, its part of my soul.. but 'love' does not come naturally as a word though i do it easily :)
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Who is that model? She has a very winsome demeanor. On any other girl, I doubt it would be so appealing, but she pulls it off, and not just because she is a hottie. Demeanor is not just looks (although it is that too).
To "New Age" for me. Like a 70's stoner hippie girl into jewels and crystals and Eastern mysticism. I'll pass. But the first pic of the chick in the dress, that was okay. But to many necklaces. Just one would suffice. Or just a choker
Id say my style is mostly bohemian, i fell into it because its comfortable
It can look good or it can look very dirty and skanky. If styled right then yeah 👍🏼
Girls Can only get away with it in summer. But I like it I think these girls are beautiful.
Currently wearing that style today and it is a great style for Summer
Like the dresses and the hats but I don't like the jewellery
Oh yes I like this style , its a little bit cowboyish , lovely...
I think in the top and bottom pic they look stunning
It looks chill and beautiful I guess it depends on who is wearing this kind of clothing
Some are really cute, but sometimes it's a bit too busy to look at.
It's not bad looking, some ladies can pull the look off
Yes I love girls who have the hippy and surfer look
>Bohemian
IS THIS THE REAL LIFE?
IS THIS JUST FANTASY?
CAUGHT IN A LANDSLIDE
NO ESCAPE FROM REALITY~
OPEN YOUR EYES
LOOK UP TO THE SKIES AND SEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
I'M JUST A POOR BOY, I NEED NO SYMPATHY
BECAUSE I'M EASY COME,
EASY GO,
A LITTLE HIGH,
LITTLE LOW,
ANY WAY THE WIND BLOWS, DOESN'T REALLY MATTER TO ME~
TO MEEEEEEEEEEEE
Do De do de de do~ (keyboard sounds)
MAMAAAAA
JUST KILLED A MAN~
ahah queen
😲Why would you interrupt such a sacred song?
Let's just pretend nothing happened.
PUT A GUN AGAINST HIS HEAD,
It's a lovely style, good taste and nothing too rude, also pretty chilling I think it improves the smile of a person and gives a bit of a sensation of security
3 thumbs up man.
great answer :)
@VIVANT thank you :)
I love the way you put everything, and i agree.. it made me want to go get dressed again ;)
but im at work anyhow already wearing a flowy dress -its so hot today so light fabric is where its at. :)
@VIVANT That is flattering but it is really how I see and feel it sometimes I am a bit mad men don't have access to some of the clothes I am really glad that I could make you want to dress again hope you will do it even if I must say the dress you are currently wearing sounds wonderful too
i did not start appreciating clothing until recently. i was 'too serious' i thought clothing will make me frivolous. I actually feel like i have evolved more after i started paying attention because how i dress has somehow helped me expand in how i relate to the world, which is odd but true.
Anyhow i appreciate this style or exactly the reasons you said and it was the perfect transition from monotonous, to feminine without going to the tacky or cheap or ditzy side of things, and maintaining a feeling of strength. i think truly feminine clothing is open to the earth and does not constrain women and exposes just enough to be reminded of strength but is not exposing in a 'vulnerable' way. Just in a rooted kind of way. I really felt embraced by something i was not familiar with and the softness and flow and subtle hint of body just made it a very beautiful awakening.
lol i never really thought of it in depth i just felt it, but what you wrote reminded me.. i do think men are cheated
from experience the beauty and strength in the flow of fabric.. sounds silly but really its kind of like flying on ground. I feel energy lift just by my dress blowing in the wind. i can understand why men used to wear togas and members of the cloth wear long robes. I do know some guys wear flowing fabric but its rare.
@VIVANT You seem like a very sensitive and with good taste person and as I see it you just need a spark to describe everything a lot more beautiful then I did. Yes indeed sometimes I believe clothing can make us seem superficial but it has a big impact on everything and most important of our own selfes how we see our bodies in this world the colours are usually how we feel.
Yes I really love this style too has such a good and pleasant vibration and it gives power and grace to a woman it is intoxicating in a very beautiful way. I imagined it a bit and it is like the inside beauty of a woman vibrates on the outside breathing through every molecule of air surrounding her.. Yeah we are a bit cheated and a bit judged if we dress.
@VIVANT I think you cannot be more right about the flow of fabric that's pretty much close to vibration clothes do contain energy and change the energy insides us too at least to a degree. You become one with the wind and flow through rays of sun spreading beauty and grace everywhere.
yes i agree.. and somehow when things flow it never looks delicate. gentle but not weak. i guess bc of the rugged earthiness.
nice meeting you :)
@VIVANT You got it a bit mixed up in the last comment but I understood what you wanted to say and I would so love if more people would think like that.
Nice meeting you too :)
Sorry.. English is not my first language, :)
@VIVANT Ohh really don't worry it is not my first language either. Still your description about clothing was very poetic and beautiful I loved it.
Would I be too curious if I would ask which is your first language?
I will give you a hint, or I have given you a hint- In my name ;)
@VIVANT Ohh I guees I am just being a silly slow goose it's obvious as daylight
:-) :-) :-)
@VIVANT So there is from where the roots of good taste in clothing and different way of feeling them comes from probably
@VIVANT Anyway I am glad you decided to leave the "too serious " castle and explore the surroundings :)
I do not know about the first statement.. I have always been odd and oblivious to my surroundings I do not think I ever have belonged anywhere. Thank you for the second statement... Actually I live in the United States now that i get dressed ;p
@VIVANT Not belonging anywhere should feel natural to more people to be honest that would literally make the world a better place and the ego of people smaller with less conflicts and such. Do you believe the states helped you stepping outside that castle or you would have one way or another anywhere you would have been? Probably you just begin to know yourself better as I see it. I have been in that castle of being serious too, I have an ideea how it is.
haha Noooo.
I think being on my own, being a bit older-- helping me to realize i am actually still young. I became more exploratory of who I am how I want to relate to my surroundings. I discover counter intuitively, I feel more authentic when i do not ignore what i used to think was a shallow part of me.
Ohh and I did wanted to go in the direction that french people are more inclined to art and good taste but I do realize that would be very dull of me to judge these things from a nationality perspective of course I am a bit inclined too becouse of the majority but in the end it really resumes to each individual.
@VIVANT Authentic, that is a very wisely chosen word. I think we are always young or that's how we should feel. Also a lot of times it is hard to get over some of the barries that were like forever in our lives. Parts that seem shallow can actually be most intense, in the end it is just a matter of how you feel and percieve it.
@VIVANT I mean if this seemed shallow for you imagine how it felt for me as a man, indoctrinated with "valors" men should have when to be honest we all have a feminine and masculine side more or less pronounced. So many rules of how to be or not to be how to feel and not to feel. In the past 8 years I explored most of the things that seemed shallow to me or things which I was so convinced by others and this pattern of reality that are shallow.
I think I can imagine very well, in fact :)
I do not think I ever felt things as female pressure-nor male. but pressure to be a rational human being.
Men have more rules as human beings, Women have more restrictions as Women. I think i likely automatically identified with male rules of personhood, not bc i identify as a man but as a human being not as a kind of being that is similar to human but softer ;p
I think a lot of the limitations I placed on myself are more similar to that of Men than Women. Just by default. As male limitations have more to do with being productive-on print but it turns out to be bullshit in my opinion bc to be your best you need all of you. Whereas female limitations seem to just be to be 'feminine' but fake feminine. I do not think real femininity is constricting and weak.
I do not really hold onto any kind of arbitrary limitations now, but i can see I had more male influence on my brainwashing than female. I am now deciding what it means to be the kind of human being I respect, and there are pieces of things I picked up along the way but im adding much more, figuratively and literally --including but in no way limited to- dresses ;p
@VIVANT Yes indeeed you actually imagine it very well and I have a feeling that you do since you used "productive-on print". So where do you think being a rational human being would go to? I feel that only rational thing to do is helping others so as a race we evolve. Indeed males have more rules and women more restrictions but sometimes being all of you means to break most of them. Well being feminine has kind of lost it's "colours sort to say becouse the sacred feminity is kind of lost and surely not weak but very powerful but not controlling-powerfull, powerful from the level of understanding things.
@VIVANT Well knowing the rules and restrictions very well but actually having close to none can be interesting. I am sure the being you respect might aswell be forged in many, many years since you need to bypass all the brainwashing. I find it interesting that you used respect and not love, even if usually love comes with respect wouldn't it just be wiser to become the human being that you love?
haha its interesting because even now i think there is some censorship. I think 'respect' has been placed very carefully at the forefront of my ethos I care about life, people, beings, its part of my soul.. but 'love' does not come naturally as a word though i do it easily :)
@VIVANT Well you will surely one day be completly you in your whole complexity and love will come naturally.
pretty dresses, but i think you can see her hoohaa in the first picture... i would only let my boyfriend see that...
I love it and wear it in moderation. Most things I wear have an accent of it.
Yeah. It's no the kind of style I can pull off easily, though.
Maybe... if I’m at Woodstock. I don’t have anything against it. The first picture looks better then the others.
I enjoyed it at one point but now it's so damn trendy it's lost it's flare