What are your thoughts on choker necklaces and why? (Page 2)

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My boyfriend was saying that chokers are seen as slutty (I’m rephrasing). He says I could wear what I want but if I wore a choker, it basically meant that I disregarded what he said.  He doesn’t want others to see me in a disrespectful way and that’s why he’s concerned. He says there is a time and place to wear it.  I understand but im also seriously annoyed that I can’t wear something just because it’s looked at as something else. I’d like to wear what I wear without worrying about others but clearly that’s not how the world works  anyone else have any thoughts or relate?

HALKYXN · Answer

Well, to be honest, they don't intrigue me too much. They are flashy and all but don't have the same appeal to me that say earrings or bracelets have. I agree with your guy though, there's a time and place for everything and honestly chokers just seem sort of candid. However if you feel comfortable wearing them, then go for it. Staying happy is important, after all.

Hope this helps, luv. Cheers

Kitten967 · Answer

I don't mind chokers but I do know they used to be worn by prostitutes as a way to show they were a prostitute, some also used it to cover syphilis marks

1truekhaleesi · Answer

It’s a fucking necklace though.

Bavhroul · Answer

he says he doesn't want others to see you in a disrespectful way, but in reality he is the one who is seeing you in a disrespectful way. He can accept you or he can move on.

yasii · Answer

Disregard what he said

geminiboner · Answer

I think a modest chocker, cute or sexy depending on who wearing it or what you're wearing with, I don't know you so, just a whore is a whore no matter she's wearing... though I wouldn't encourage you to wear extremely short skirts.

rullysy · Answer

Yes they are slutty. A choker shows that a woman accepts her place as a submissive and is even grateful for it. I personally love fucking women while they are wearing one.
But if he has ordered you not to wear one, then you must do what he says.

janna_jcb · Answer

How can a necklace be slutty tho... I personally think chokers look classy and not at all slutty (unless you wear it with very revealing clothing of course). Wear whatever you want girl! Haters gonna hate no matter what you look like🤷🏼‍♀️

AxlStahlmann · Answer

... I never thought of it that way. :/... I always thought they were cute. Some might imply slutty based on design if it's more shooting towards a bdsm feel, but I believe 90% of chokers are fine/cute.

cherry3666 · Answer

Some not all see as a "collar". Like saying "yes daddy choke me! " A lot of people don't separate the fashionable ones from the ones that actually signify that.

luvstoned4him · Answer

I heard it has some meaning attached to it in the past but I honestly think they are some classy looking ones that you can get away with.

Adam_INTJ · Answer

Never heard that about chokers before, but they Do make me think of bdsm a little bit

lomimore · Answer

I do find them slutty too but idc of girls who wear them its not my problem but still a little part of me will not help but judge.

TallAnon · Answer

I really like chokers on girls, no idea why, but it looks hot

t3hhottdawg · Answer

What does he think the time and place for it is? I mean I'm not a huge fan of chokers, but I def think you should be able to wear one at almost anytime? Maybe not at an office job or something, but generally anywhere?

HungLikeAHorsefly · Answer

Do whatever you want. Yes, wearing a choker is hot. If you want to wear one, do it.

KittyWolf · Answer

... tell him not to ware one. But that's stupid.  Its ur body. Ur not a slut for wearing one, even if u had 80 of them on.  Luck to u

Slim57 · Answer

Me and my ex used to say they were professionals in dick sucking, now, not true of course, but just something the young girls seem to find trendy nowadays and I personally don't like them

smilingsunshine · Answer

They can look pretty. Tell your boyfriend that some guys think showing any skin, or behaving a certain way, is slutty. Slutty is in the eyes of the beholder.

gclark2708 · Answer

I don't think they're slutty at all, but they're really hot on the right girl

dontgofalling · Answer

Not slutty at all, they're quite cool, and beautiful. Just don't make em' too fancy, remember, it ain't no drass

umairso · Answer

It's fine as any other jewelry item. Asking men about women accessories is like asking a beggar what's it like to be rich

Nobodyx · Answer

I guess it depends on the style of the chocker. Some look really cute and some don't and can maybe look a little slutty.

GFEDATY · Answer

I think some look so sexy while others are a bit over the top

lacaras · Answer

I think they're cool, can definitely add to an outfit

KuffarSlayer · Answer

Historically choker necklaces used to be worn by prostitutes that's why they give a negative air around them

MikeHug · Answer

Well, I don't know your boyfriend and don't want to speak poorly about him, but I think his concerns are ridiculous. I've never heard such a statement before. Sounds like he's making something up to try to strengthen his opinion.

GWolfe · Answer

Do as you please. I personally associate them with rockstar or transgender women but that's just me.

justpassenthru3 · Answer

I agree from a few points of views u as the opposite sex should be able to wear whtevr u ljke whn evr whr evr how evr u ljke

Jasmine_IV · Answer

I tried one, and not like it has to be this way for everyone, but it literally felt like I got chocked all day.

winterfox10 · Answer

Chokers are flirty and sexy, but I definitely don't see them as slutty or trashy... Your boyfriend is is being a little over the top.

pasimuscle · Answer

It's definitely a sexual sign

drew23a · Answer

I don't think there slutty i think there sexy im into choking a little bit an yes that makes sense you should be allowed to wear whatever you like and if he can't except it then maybe its not right

PrincessPie · Answer

I like them, i wear them.

gabbiflowerss · Answer

Don't let your boyfriend control what you wear or anything else for that matter. I don't see chokers as slutty at all! It's an accessory and super cute! I wear them all the time it's my favorite piece of jewelry!

DakotaNorth · Answer

My daughter likes them and they're harmless, so I don't care if she wears them.

cth96190 · Answer

You could go the whole way and wear a dress version of a BDSM slave collar. 😈

Girolamo · Answer

Every relationship requires compromise. You must decide which compromises you are okay with.

Pistachio0690 · Answer

Something you wear can't be slutty. Slutty is based on actions, not what you wear. Wear what you like. If he really loves you, he'll understand that

tommo1818 · Answer

I personally don't like the look of chokers, but I know people that do. I don't see them as slutty as all though. Just another item of clothing.

Password_Is_Taco · Answer

Well back in the day it was how prostitutes showed people that they were prostitutes

Liam_Scherl · Answer

Sometimes they can be a little slutty but they can also be cute I think they look good

pizzaman123 · Answer

I wouldn't wear it daytime but at the club yeah but people do get the wrong idea about u.

errez · Answer

There's a reason why chokers have this name, and there's a meaning behind wearing a choker.

jessture · Answer

I've never thought of them as slutty or negative. In fact they are quite sexy

RevMarv · Answer

I firmly believe a lady has more rights than any man to present herself in any manner she so dersires!!!

Jellyfox88 · Answer

Why wear it? Is it comfortable, no. look good, no. Send a good message, no. It's like wearing ugly itchy sweater because other people wear it and "look good" in it but not you!

markZ · Answer

Some chokers do look too sexy for a regular walk in the park, and some are appropriate. But if you boyfriend is bothered about it then something has to change

ClumsyBlade73 · Answer

If its worn right it could be pulled off as hipster casual but if its worn wrong you look just stupid like a giraffe or one of those highschool party groupies

Anonymous · Answer

Just don’t wear chokers, its not that big of a deal. It’s just a piece of clothing. it’s the least you could do for him. Stop b&@$hing.

farskte3 · Answer

Best thing to think of is the circles you're in. If you hang with a bunch of people that will think it looks slutty, then you need to think about if you care or not. Your boyfriend surely does.

hereforthefunofit · Answer

I personally like seeing a lady wear them. No you are not a slut. But does being attention your way

Anonymous · Answer

I think their stupid. But it's your choice on what you want to wear

barracuda375 · Answer

I've never seen them as slutty, they look good on some girls but don't seem to fit others' look. They are more of cute to me

MedicalAdventure · Answer

They are very sexy but I don’t think of a woman wearing one that she is a slut

musics_destiny · Answer

I think that they are a sense of fashion but i dont agree that they are slutty

Kaprim · Answer

They're not that bad apart from the fact that they strangle ladies for nothing lol

jwanay · Answer

I personally don't like chokers but my friends wear them sooo

KoningKoffie · Answer

I think you should Wear what you like..  Like if you wear a pink shirt and yellow shorts.. if you like it wear it.. its you're life not his..

niceguy13056 · Answer

Tell him to fuck off fine some one else that's going treat u right

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