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Chokers were acctually used by royalty a lot so per definition it isn't slutty. I really wish they would suit me I think they're such statement pieces. And cares what men find slutty, most men look like shit but girls are too well-behaved to complaint. And they will always say we're either too prude or too slutty so f*** that. Its just gender power order who has to define things.
Chokers are fine. There is nothing slutty about it. It be that your boyfriend has some insecurities about your relationship or it could be early signs that he is controlling. The "how others see you" argument is a cop out, it shouldn't matter to him how others see you unless he is worried that other men will look at you which could mean he is the jealous type.
They look fking hot but yes, very slutty. Think of him as a good father, he doesn't want you to he disrespected so he"s lookin out for ya
Chockers are really hot and triggers a gothic and/or a BDSM fetish. If you're attracted to assertive confident men then let him take control in this matter. It is healthy masculinity for him to assert himself in this area, just like you would call him out for not working and becoming a couch potato. Relationships are a two-way street. If you want a creepy feminist beta male type who is ok with other men cuckolding you with their gaze, you might be with the wrong dude.
I am taking my choker necklace off right now. It's been on me all day and it's just choking me worse. lol I have to breathe.
Yeah, my boyfriend has the same mindset... He say "it's cal CHOKEer for a reason, you know?" but he doesn't tell me not to wear it
I love them! I don't exactly know why, they are cute and beautiful and the same time. It makes a woman look like she knows what she is doing. Hot hot hot hot hot. Cannot say it enough.
Your boyfriend has the wrong attitude and needs to appreciate your beauty.
Just be more affectionate to him while y'all are in public if it's together when you wear it, if it's off by yourself & someone hits on you or something then give them his phone number
😂that honestly sounds fun
I like them, I think their hot af. Although I'm not the pig-kind of man who likes to slut shame women for dressing in a certain way or for any other reason for that matter.
Your boyfriend sounds like a very judgmental person though with a hint control issues.
I'd say wear whatever the fck you want and if he's got a problem then maybe he IS a problem.
You see a bald, muscular man with a leather motorcyclist jacket. Do you think he'd a big, dangerous guy?
You are being jugmental. He is a maths teacher.
You see a McDonalds cashier, with a tired expression on her face. Do you think she is probably undereducated
You are being judgmental. She is studying mathematics, and just works in a fast foor restaurant because she has to pay for the hostel and the regular drinking.
People are judgmental, because it helps compartmentalising the world. Generalising makes out lives easier. Because the fact is that MOST muscular bald people wearing motorcyclist jackets are mean and dangerous, and most McDonalds employees are not exactly the cream of the crop.
And most girls wearing chokers are sluts hungry for male attention. End of story.
I don't care what you wear, I don't care if your black or white, I don't care how old are u age it's just a number, I don't care if you have tatto on your face. .. If someone has a problem about it its their problem, u dont like it? Then don't fucking look at it, It's my body, my life, fuck off. Don't do something only coz someone is telling you to do it, don't listen to enybody, listen to your heart, be you, be real.
I don't care for how chokers feels, so I don't wear them. They do not mean that someone is slutty. Your boyfriend is trying to insinuate that clothes/jewelry indicate a willingness to have sex. This is errant thinking.
Wear what you want. Choker or no choker, he should accept your choice. It's fashion, not slutty. And according to his logic, two of my friends are slutty (they really aren't).
I use to have a friend who would were them every day and me and other friends would joke with her about them but never mean it. Honestly it all depends on how you look at the because at the end of the day the only opinion that matters is your own.
I think they're sexy as hell. I'm often told that slutty IS sexy, so my opinion may not be helpful.
Naaah classy can be sexy
Slutty can also be sexy. So it depends?
I agree, both can
I agree eith your boyfriend. Chokers give of a whoreish vibe.
Depending on what kind of choker a woman is wearing I'd say they can be cute or sexy-sometimes even classy.
Chokers are seen as 'sexy' like fishnet stockings. Whether or not it's seen as slutty depends on what you wear with it. My nieces (under 10) wear them, looks cute on them!
Is this what you mean by choker?
Very nice.
I really like girls wearing chokers.
Obviously it has to match her outfit or else it looks out of place, but there is nothing wrong with em. I find girls wearing them cute
Chokers are sexy. It's just a thing with "guys" that if she wears a choker she loves anal or is a slut. It's basically a meme but not all guys are lame like your boyfriend