Okay so i just had a answer on my question that guys do NOT care AT all what a woman is wearing it makes no difference to there attraction, so told him i will ask a question to see if he is right that the majority don't care at all. I'm not saying you have to care about fashion or whatever, i'm asking if it makes any difference to you, I personally disagree and think most people will find a outfit takes away or adds attractiveness to someone but we will see. -So feel free to answer completely honestly on the poll.
It makes NO difference to me with attraction at all what someone is wearing, they look same attractiveness no matter how they dress themselves.
It makes a difference to me, and makes someone look better or worse depending on what they're wearing.
I would definitely want to fuck a woman twice as much and twice as hard if she were to approach me in a cute, sexy, sophisticated business skirt and blouse with heels and a pearl necklace (and maybe glasses). I know that's oddly specific. I don't know why it's so sexy to me, but the pearl necklace and heels especially, I will cum like a racehorse ma'am. Just feels like I'm fucking such an incredibly sophisticated woman. That chick the picture with that skirt and shit is also pretty cute. Versus like say a rocker chick in like leather and black shirt and shit? No thank you. But my girlfriend also looks equally good, cute and fuckable in sweat pants and a hoodie. Yes, female clothing makes a huge difference for us. Would a Lion be more likely to eat the shit out of a Gazelle if it were wrapped in bacon? Exactly. We're men damnit, we're lions looking for bacon... or... something. It's like when you get a REALLY fucking good Christmas gift (got my girlfriend would just love being compared to this), obviously it's the gift that matters and you really give a fuck about. But the wrapping is what presents it and gets you there and you want to savour that shit as your tearing it open like a rabbid squirrel going at a nut for as long as you can. It's anticipation.
If we're talking bout physical attractiveness, It definitely makes a difference for just about every guy. Guys that say the clothes don't do anything are likely lacking in awareness and don't know themselves that well.
Bonus tip: Beauty goes way deeper than physical features. A girl with an awesome personality will actually start to look better too. Anybody who says otherwise is again likely lacking awareness. Awesome personality does of course differ from guy to guy but generally, guys appreciate confidence (not to be confused with cockiness), honesty, reliability, and kindness (not to be confused with being a pushover).
I think there should be a third option, “doesn’t matter what she’s wearing as long as she’s taking pride in her appearance” I know you’re asking guys but I’m gonna go ahead and flip it. I personally care only somewhat what a guy wears. Does it fit him? Is it clean? Is it appropriate for the occasion? If we’re going to a movie and gonna grab coffee, by all means wear comfy clothes, I don’t expect khakis and a blazer, but do not wear the clothes you worked out in, did a ten mile run in then dripped coffee down yourself in this morning. That shows a lack of pride, in my opinion. Same thing with if it fits. Believe me, I get it. That t shit that’s three sizes too big is super comfortable to sleep in, doesn’t mean you need to show everyone by wearing it any chance you can. And that bargain pair of pants that you got on sale, if they’re hanging off you or they’re so tight I can see the outline of your you know what then that’s not appealing to me. I don’t care what a guy wears, I’d actually prefer he’d be comfortable in, both, a tailored suit and adidas pants and hoodie but it won’t matter as long as he’s takes pride in how he looks.
I like your third option and pretty much agree with your thinking. For me, I think I subconsciously categorize women into one of three categories based on what they're wearing:
1) They don't feel good about themselves and/or don't care what they look like 2) They think that their body is their best attribute and want or are at least comfortable with being viewed sexually 3) They feel good about themselves, want to be taken seriously, and are confident that people will accept them and like them for who they are.
While I might find #2 sexually appealing, the women I'd want to be with (as just friends or as a potential romantic partner) are #3. It doesn't matter if it's jeans and a T-shirt or a nice dress. If it fits, is clean, is in decent condition, and not too revealing then it raises my opinion of her because it makes me think she values herself.
I think it always going to make at least a small difference. Clothes talks about personality, it's a way to express your identity. So a person would always find more attractive a boy/girl whose clothes express the kind of personality they are searching for in a partner.
Dresses provide a little coverage but leggings show off the legs, butt and curves big difference. Don't get me wrong, loose dresses are cute and fun but if you want to get down to attractiveness dpegb9ebondhq.cloudfront.net/.../...6_original.jpg
Now, don't get me wrong, a girl for the most part will be attractive in whatever she wears because she is a girl, her curves and body will mold every outfit into be sexy but their are outfits that specifically add attractiveness. Hopefully that makes sense
This isn't a 'yes or no' type of question. Obviously physical appearance is the premier criteria for choosing a partner by the vast majority of people all around the world. The only true exceptions include the blind and mentally or emotionally defective. Clothing has an effect on our outward appearance, and so can help a person attract or repel certain others. But most men care much less about fashion, accessories and makeup than most women. The reality is simply this: if you're worried about your those things then you're more concerned with women's opinions than men's. A beautiful woman with a positive attitude could go anywhere in the world wearing a burlap bag as a dress and bread bags on her feet and still find a receptive fella. No exceptions. In that sense, your detractor is right. He's tragically mistaken if he doesn't understand or accept that men and women both can produce a predictable and desirable result in someone to whom they're attracted by dressing a certain way, and making themselves up to be approachable. If I were you, I'd do a few searches on approachability and throw a ton of evidence at him. Either he'll come around, or he'll expose himself as willfully ignorant.
What a woman wears makes a big difference for me. And by big difference, I mean it can be a deal-breaker.
It is not largely a matter of attractiveness for me. As I have mentioned in the previous question, what you wear and the way you present yourself is one of the most telling things about your personality. Someone who I would want to attract and be with is going to dress a certain way and so are people who I would not want to attract.
Of course, I'm not instantly going to write off someone for dressing a certain way, because money/availability are still a factor, but that observation is always there.
Obviously it matters what she wears, but not in a way you would expect.
I don't care how attractive a woman dresses, if she hits a certain level. The only time where it REALLY matters is if it is a deal breaker - something so disgusting and unfashionable that it is blatantly obvious she is simply not sophisticated enough to dress properly. I know this sounds snobbish, but I also know everyone reading this will understand if I say it like this: I don't want to date women who look like hookers.
I am not a fashion genius, so if I can see something looks trashy, that must be a horrible dress indeed.
You can frame this question in a way that makes the answer obvious. Would it make a difference to a woman's attractiveness if she were wearing a burqa vs a bikini?
Obviously a guy is going to get more aroused if a girl wears a bikini instead of a burqa. Generally the more skin the girl shows, the more guys will be turned on by her.
That being said, as long as the girl's face isn't covered, her clothing choice wouldn't change my mind on whether or not I am attracted to her. She can change her clothing to make me more or less aroused, but my attraction to her wouldn't change.
neither and both. at first blush, would state that the less she wears, the better - but then again, i'm a testosterone-fueled pig. in truth - it's not so much WHAT she wears, but HOW she wears it. attention to detail, grooming and other health-related issues are all on display. the REAL attraction to me is what's between her ears. intelligence and attitude are extremely sexy to me. there's no way on this earth to make up for stoopid.
I do think clothing is important in how it can make a person look.
If I was dating a girl however and we were around other people, I do think I'd prefer her to dress a little more modest, though not like cover up completely, just like not show cleavage or too much legs.
I would like to say it personally doesn't matter to me at all for what girls would wear regardless, in the long term.
However, the first 3 meetings with her (assuming I don't know her) would matter. Especially in a company-case scenario where one would hire a new employee.
That is because what you wear can spark your first impressions to me and other people involved.
For me it matters a great deal. What a woman wears and how she presents herself to the world says much about her, and certain types who don't care at all how they present themselves are of no interest to me at all.
A woman who takes the time and makes the effort to look nice, whether her clothes, makeup, hair, or whatever, will have my attention. On the other hand, a girl who wears sweat pants and looks like she just got out of bed will definitely NOT have my attention.
I don't care if she wears comfy clothes, casual clothes or something posh. But some clothes can look awesome on a girl. It's rare, but it happens. Some "styles" on the other hand can make things worse. But for the vast majority of options, it doesn't make any difference at all.
Well here i am, maybe the 1st man who won't agree with anything she wears, if she's going to be my wife, she shall wear something respectful, maybe sexy but respectful, boobs cannot be revealed a lot, dresses cannot be too short like revealing her entire legs... because she will be mine only and her body is a treasure that no one i allowed to see...
It makes a lot of difference to me. If she wears those silky shiny athletic clothes, on a scale of 1 to 10 in looks, it could add between 1 to 2 whole points on her looks. That is my favorite outfit for girls. The same goes the other way too. If she is wearing plaid flannels, or ripped jeans, or both it could take away 1 to 2 points of her attractiveness for me.
It depends on the girl. Every girl looks good in different outfits. I once knew a girl who wouldve looked great in a potato sack dress. But that was her. Every girl is different. Big or small, doesn't matter. You just gotta make the best use of what you've got. No matter what your shape or size, if you dress right and accentuate your assets, some guy is gonna flip his socks off. Guaranteed.
It matters a little bit, of course, because what kind of clothes a person wears can very often say quite a lot about who they are. If a woman is wearing an oversized sweater and hides her arms in the way-too-big-for-her-sleeves, my heart will melt immediately. Yeah, that's specific, but there is nothing cuter than that...
It makes almost no difference for the most part, although I think there's something a girl can do to make themselves look non-attractive via clothes, for the most part I think a girl can seduce a guy wearing just about whatever.
while it makes no difference what they wear I'd still feel the same way but what they wear could improve some attraction but if they were my s/o and they wore scruffy, casual or revealing clothes I would still praise them on their beauty
2) Some men do and some men don't. Not all men are the same. Some men prefer a woman in jeans, t-shirt, and scuffed cowboy boots. Others want her to dress like someone would in New York.
Makes a big difference to me. Like I've even had some female friends that I didn't think were that attractive until they dressed up real nice and I was like, "Wow! I didn't know she could look so pretty." So it makes a pretty big difference to me.
One thing that I don't think makes any difference for me though are like fancy painted fingernails -- small things like that, and I don't think jewelry makes much of a difference to me unless it accentuates her figure or face in a pretty dramatic way.
Or things like how pretty a girl's shoes look -- again, small stuff to me. I do notice heels but that's because it's affecting the girl's entire posture -- it's not necessarily about how pretty her shoes are in that case but how it's affecting her entire figure.
It's like she could be standing on a piece of painted wood with a steel bolt drilled into it for a heel, and it'd hardly matter to me -- what matters is how it's affecting her whole figure. And same thing -- like for jewelry she might be wearing plastic dangling earrings, but if that dangliness accentuates her neck or face in a nice way, that's more what matters in my opinion -- it's the big picture stuff.
Don't care about things like brand names. Like if a girl looks good in a dress and it fits her well, then I don't care if it's a Gucci dress or one from a thrift store. But certainly if the color of the dress matches her skin tone and it fits her well and all that, then it can make a pretty big difference to me in terms of how attractive she looks in a particular moment.
Oh to a degree it does. I like certain styles, I like certain looks. There are other looks that tell me we'd be incompatible. Like if they're walking around dressed like a lesbian, that's pretty relevant.
I personally believe that if your focusing on the outside appearance of someone. You are looking at only a small part of the picture. Something I think men have lost through time is the will to see women and the priceless treasures they are. There soul should be brighter then what the wear. That just my opinion though.
I TOTALLY care how a woman presents herself, just like I care about how I present myself. I also pay attention to how she dresses for different occasions and what she thinks is appropriate, or not.
What you wear and how you present yourself is a demonstration of you character. If you can’t bother to present yourself with your best foot forward, then you likely have other parts of your life not in order.
Well whether she dresses up or not you still wake up to the same naked woman. I guess it shows she cares about her appearance and will diet and exercise to look good in her outfits. Dressing up also catches a person's eye.
i usually prefer girls who wear casual and sporty outfits, but if a girl is naturally beautiful, and wears some other kind of clothes, I won't discriminate her based on clothing style.
Ofc it does, especially when it comes to first imoressions. They wereprobably thinking a gal thats already their girlfriend and probably past the "honey moon phase"
Ask him if he would rather date a beautiful girl in a beautiful dress or a unknown looking girl who is wearing a bag on the whole body (unknown looking obviously because of the bag)
A girl who looks nicer will make a better impression, but males care a lot less than females do about fashion.
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My preferences are very different from the next person. Hence the reason they are my preferences. In this argument of yours, you are missing the point and not taking someone's valid opinion at face value and instead want them to say what you think their opinion is. You are going about it the wrong way hence I didn't vote because my opinion is not related to what you and that guy were discussing.
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