Can a 36 year old woman dress the same way as a 20 y/o one? (Page 2)
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Well your mum is 1 year older than me and my girlfriend and I our outfits are like this.
I mean your mum is pretty young
Also tbh no age for clothing a certain standard anyway. What people don't forgive is taste most of the time. And even 16 yo girls can be badly criticized for their look. Its only often because the styling is wrong or quality etc
So yeah if your young mum happy be happy
It's probably nothing meant to make you uncomfortable and she might feel like it's a bonding experience rather than trying to be you. I would talk to her about how you're feeling if you're close enough. I will say I'm 33 and I don't feel like I'm not allowed to wear what I used to. You don't just wake up and feel "too old", you know? So maybe if she knows you feel uncomfortable, she'll dial it back a bit. Good luck!
Yes, yes and yes again! My personal opinion about dressing is, you
have to feel good about what you are wearing as long as you are appropriately dressed for the environment you'll be. Like if you are going to the beach, wear shorts, if you are going to church cover yourself... but how old you are doesn't really matter, if you feel good with the clothes and you are appropriately dressed for the venue. then Why not?
It's kind of in the middle. I think at a certain age you have your own style and it changes over time. But I think you should still be able to feel young in your 30's. There are boundaries, I put it this way, would you still like to feel young in your 30's? I would consider helping out your mom but setting some clear boundaries for you and her. Tell her your comfort level, and see how she responds. If she respects it, you can move forward having fun with your mom
Yeah of course, at 36 you probably still have the body for it, unless you've had kids then it'll show (but not always). Though I have seen some 30 year olds who simply CANNOT pull it off anymore and some who really can, it just depends on how well you look after yourself :D. Obviously I can, but I'm 21 lol
If she is fat after pregnancy.
Tell her to go on a low carb diet.
Low carbs is the fastest way to burn 10+ pounds in a week. 10+ pounds as in if you exercise and do cardio at the gym.
What is a low carb diet?
NO PASTA!
You can only eat MEAT, VEGETABLES, AND LITTLE FRUIT!!
I think a 36 yr old woman could totally pull of some of the outfits 20 yr olds wear. Of course bottom line is people should wear whatever that want as long as they feel good in it and forget what others think. There is too much worrying about what others think anyways. Everyone should just be themselves.
Should a 20-year-old or any year old women or girl dress in that manner at ALL? I would rather wear clothes that I can still fit in from my pre-teen - teen years than outfits like that to try to 'prove' your a woman. What matters is whats appropriate not so much of just what she wears. It's her business either way as long as she doesn't advertise. A lot of other women don't have a problem with what I wear. Many of them assume I'm a teenager anyway.
She can wear whatever damn thing makes her happy. The closer to 40 you get, the fewer fucks you have to give about what anyone else thinks. By age 50, most women have entirely run out of fucks to give.
I agree
My mother is 62 (she looks 10 years younger) still she dresses very good for her age, she still has a great body and she has great style. Wearing Nike pumps, slim jeans etc. but with that said she still dresses classy and wouldn’t wear a crop top with short shorts unless she was at the beach. But she might look younger and still feel young inside, which is what matters. Let her be
No because it would send my daughter the wrong signals and I don't want to be a source of any kind of influence of lifestyle that I don't wish for her to have. I understand that ultimately she will make up her mind on the way she wants to behave and dress, but as her mom I would raise her to be respectful. And my dressing and behaving like that would make me a bad influence on my kid. At least that's the way I feel about it. I see it as disrespectful but other people may see it a different way.
36 isn't even old anymore. 60 year old women look on their 20s these days so I see nothing wrong with a woman dressing sexy, youthful, and stylish no matter her age. If she's got the sex appeal, she can surely wear whatever
Absolutely, I don’t care if I end up with five kids and become a professor or lawyer; I’m going to always dress cute. For me I’m a late bloomer, so I want to enjoy being sexy because I wasn’t very attractive as a teenager, and I won’t care what my hubby thinks lol. I will most likely wear daisy dukes and tube tops at 40. I love to be sexy.
The only time I would think dressing a certain way matters is when they're really old... like 80 and have a sagging figure. That goes for fat people as well. Too young is also a problem. You don't want pedos to check out kids like 12 years old. But other than that people should be able to wear what they want. I see absolutely no problem with it.
It’ normal. She may feel that something is missing in her life and needs a change. She may not be ready for 40. Most people are not ready or willing to accept the fact that we are not “young anymore. Maybe she is trying to stay close to you because she may feel like she losing you. It could be absolutely nothing at all but a fashion change.
It may not be normal but considering she is only 36 sure why not she is still Young
If ur mom still has a rocking HOT body of a 20's something woman then accept it but don't be surprised if you're boyfriend is more attracted to your mom and dumps you for her
She can.
Whether she "should" is a different question.
In this case I don't see why not. If one of you weighed 300lbs it'd be different.
36 isn't old... And I have a question which you do not need to answer... If your mom a single mother?
With social media accounts, are there people who your mom contact on there?
Is your*
age is nothing but a number! i know it might be weird but if your mom feels confident enough to wear that stuff then you should accept it and encourage her ☺️
Not true, just seen a 21 year old leave her date because he was 33 apparently he was "too old" despite being an attractive and well established man
@Tslaveee that's not what I meant. When it comes to dating, obviously age definitely matters. I'm saying with clothes, makeup and any kind of body image that makes you feel confident, has no age limit
I don't think clothes should define a person. I didn't even wear those clothes as pictured above when I was a teen lol. I wouldn't allow my teen daughter to wear those short tops/shorts though unless she was very hot and at the beach trying to get some tan with her swimsuit or bikinis. I think it has to do with some trends being advertised.