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Should a husband/boyfriend have a say on how sexy their wife/girlfriend dresses for the occasional girls night out? (Page 2)
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I am of a opinion that when you are in a relationship, there should be no nights out without your partner. I’d only be with a guy who goes out with me or with others while I’m there too. Otherwise he can go out anywhere during the day with his friends. It’s just the parties I’m against about.
But like I said it really depends on individuals. Some are fine with that and understand it, while some of us are against it.
If there's a "free show" I'd say something about it.
Exclusivity in Relationships are important to me, I would hope I have a partner that believes the same thing.
It's not a territorial thing because If she doesn't agree she can do what she wants, but I'll do what I want to.
the husband needs to decide what out fit his wife wears for a girls night out ! if she wears something revealing then he needs to know why? for he is her husband and if it is to revealing then is she going to have an affair or what? is this the reason she is wearing revealing clothes?
everything in a relationship is a compromise. Neither person is wholly dependent on the other, but nor are they wholly independent. Each should know whether or not the woman wanting sexual attention would bother the man, and each should know whether or not the fact that it bothers the man should bother the woman. And so on...
Husbands and boyfriends are not the same, a boyfriend can just leave a husband and wife have made a stronger commitment.
At the end of the day both parties have freewill to decide what they wear and how they behave, but respect is one of the most important things in a relationship.
If I was married, my s/o has freedoms, but wear tits in, and peaking VA Jay Jay to strangers.
After all i wouldn't walk around my under wear or my d swing in the breeze lol
Common ground, agreements must be met and agreed upon, mutual appreciation.
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I fully believe that communication is the number one key to healthy relationships. That being said, if the man has an opinion on the matter, I think the couple should openly discuss their views/concerns. Either a compromise can be found or the woman decides on her own. Either way both will know the other's concern in the matter and an understanding can be found.
As much as some men may have ideas for how he’d like his woman to dress, it’s the girl’s choice at the end of the day.
Luckily though, my lady does allow me to make suggestions to her about outfits and she simply picks her favourite one. She trusts my advice since I’d be the more fashion-minded one & I know what I’m talking about 😏👗👠💄💃🏻
@StephenCF you're right askim👍😘😘❤❤you'll be my style advisor👗👠😍
@celin98 I know how to make you glisten like a fairy 😍☀️☀️☀️
No. She's her own person. And it's her body and her decision. Just hope she has an enjoyable night out with the girls.
He can have a say and should definitely feel free to give it but not the final say. He should earn his privilege to give input!
Very well said
by the way That dress in the pick is AMAZING!!! Love it!!!
Yes it is
No guy is telling me what I can't wear out with my girlfriends... then again, I'm not married; perhaps if I were, I might feel differently...
Nope, it's her body and her decision. Why are you so insecure that you need to decide how she expresses herself?
I think being her boyfriend he should have a right to say what he feels comfortable with her wearing. But at the end of the day it's her body and its her choice of what she wears
A man can give his opinion about his girlfriend's dress but cannot force her to take it off but a wife needs her husband's approval about her dress if she can wear it or not for the ladies night out cause there will be men around them.
Also the man needs his wife to always look decent and not filthy, so a smart wife will know what to buy.
With girlfriend no. The sexier the better, i mean i should trust her if im for real right? If she can't keep it in her pants n bra she wasn't for me anyway. With a partner almost the same though it might not always be the same conclusion, what if we have kids or are married?
Why on earth should a guy tell his gf/wife what or what not to wear? NOTHING more of a turn off for me more than jealously/insecurity. If you don't trust your partner, it's not going to work so just do both of you a favour and end it now.
I think he has a right to express his objections but ultimately it's up to her what to wear. It's also ultimately up to him if he wants to break off the relationship due to her way of dressing when going out with the girls. Let's face it, no guy want his SO to dress up provocatively and be around other guys without him there no matter how much he trusts her to remain faithful.
Sure. If you're going to live with someone and trust them then you should also respect them and their opinions. If you want to just throw caution to the wind and do whatever you like then long term relationships are not for you. If you don't want to be single, don't act single.
Apparently the metric for relationship success in 2019 is that "both partners do whatever the fuck they want"...
@SomeGuyCalledTom Which is why virtually none of them work.
bingo
Lets reverse roles. How would you like it if your husband wore whatever he felt like? Including cross dressing. Yes I think the husband should have a say. The same way the wife should have a say in what her husband wears. If you don't even care to do that then they shouldn't have gotten married at all.
Yes he can voice his opinion but it should not be to the point of him infringing on her sense of style. He can recommend that she wear something different (anyone has that basic right to tell a loved one you don’t like their outfit). It’s up to the woman to respect his request though because it is her body. I wouldn’t try to control what my boyfriend wears. Why would I even want to date him in the first place if I didn’t like how good he looked when he got dressed up?
That's not a totally symmetrical comparison though, since men are the more visually stimulated gender. A man gets dressed up to look "sharp" and like he "belongs" in the venue he's visiting. Women get dressed up to look "sexy" (ie: sexually attractive = attracting sexual attention). So critisising a man's dress choice is hardly an equal point of reference-- his motivations are intrisincally different in what he wears on a night out.
case in point: ever heard a woman critisise her man for "showing too much skin" on a night out with his buddies?