Hair extensions, My boyfriend hates them but my natural hair is unattractive?

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Yes I’m black.

My hair is thick but it doesn’t grow in length so I said screw it and got some nice hair extensions. They were so nice everyone thought my hair was real. I looked way more attractive, I took more selfies and I was also working out a lot so my confidence grew, that’s when my boyfriend first noticed me. He thought my hair was real, I was too embarrassed to talk about my natural hair cause I hate it so much and it DOES NOT GROW and if I went the long route to grow it I swear it will take over 3 years to get to an attractive length. He would sneak his hand in my hair to feel my clip ins while i sleep and keeps making small comments about how his hair is nice and why a girl should go natural. I get it, he hates hair extensions and I bet it’s a turn off to find out just like every other black girl my hair isn’t beautiful.

I’m not wearing extensions now but I swear I feel so ugly and unconfident and my attractiveness is low despite going to the gym every other day.

I don't know what to do, I want to buy more hair but I feel like itl turn him away.
I can't help my hair is shit, I’m just trying to help myself.
Hair extensions, My boyfriend hates them but my natural hair is unattractive?
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