Is it possible for the nerd to get the hot girl? (Page 2)
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Hellz YES!
Don't underestimate yourself. A great brain is sexy as hell!
Depends on what the nerdy guy acts like, and what the hot girl is looking for.
it really is true. But I don't settlw. Height yes, face no, body type no
Ya, but he has to actually get to know her. Just thinking of her as "some hot chick" isn't any different than the hot, shallow guy has to offer ... it's just missing the hotness.
It would never happen in high school, that's for sure... College either.
I say yes.
I don't really care if there nerdy or not.
Just if there a good person... And honestly id rather date a nerd than a jerk
I could be called a 'nerd'.
Two of my exes are quite hot girls.
I've aways conidered my wife to be one too.
Yes, but why does everyone want the hot girl. What about the rest of us, why can't we ever be enough!
Well, turn that on its head. Given the choice between two guys with an equally great personality and otherwise hits all your respective buttons, would you prefer a hot guy or an average-looking guy?
This is all very superficial! Its all to do with personality and what is in a person's heart - something you can only learn with age ;-)
iv e seen some shallow bitches that are up around their 30's. yes age does play a factor but its not what defines maturity
Impossible, women are hardwired to be attracted to dominant men, women see nerds as weak, I could go on and on, in other words any nerd would be lucky to be with an ugly girl
I'd like to point out it is possible to be a nerd without being ugly. :P
Nerds could make good money so the answer is yes.
Yeah once the money comes in nothing else matters! lol
Explain your update.
Your wish is my command.
Hahaha I've actually read that article before. I thought it was pretty funny and is a fresh alternative to all the stupid pickup artist "YOU can be a ladies man, too!" bullsh*t. I'd have to read the article again to find out if I actually think any of it is true.
You do that and tell me what you think. I'm still questioning it myself but everything seems to lead to it being true. Simply because all of my nerdy friends from high school are in relationships, and allot of the regular guys who seem like they could get girls are single. Weird huh?
Yeah I'll read it again. I actually use that article's definition of geek when I happen to be talking about what I think a geek is. It's funny, but it's true too. I told a friend on here that I think I'm at a point where I'm starting to challenge this whole PUA culture. It might work in clubs (which is what it's marketed for), but show me a large group of girls that act the same in both a club and in real life.
I don't trust PUAs either. Allot of girls go for guys that are in their friend groups, no matter how weird or nerdy. As long as they both get to know each other and connect she will go for him because she feels comfortable with him. Just goes to show you how getting girls can differ on the situation. Club girls are easy to get for any jerk. Outside however where things matter.. not so much.
Which is exactly why I have always scratched my head when hearing PUAs talk. They seem very contradicting and fake. Even if I were to read into what they said, it would've been an act for me. I know that I'm not that kind of guy, so keeping up this persona would be very exhausting to say the least.
And I agree about girls sticking within their social circles. And that is my biggest problem and challenge- I don't belong to any of them and don't know how to break into them.
Guess you just gotta be lucky.
The game only works on girls who aren't very smart and are distracted by flash. If some guy tried to use a neg on me he'd get one back
Have any tried before?
Yup- I understand it helps some guys get confidence but that's not the way to get a girl or at least one you'd actually want
Oh trust me, I feel the same way. They seem to have a few good points on making guys not get wrapped up in 1 girl, not feel crushed if they get rejected, things like that. But the more "advanced" they get into their game, the stupider and more fake it sounds to me. I found it funny one day when I came across this forum devoted to PUAs. They almost sound like a bunch of nerds on there, except with arrogance problems and high testosterone lol
It's doesn't really give confidence it gives arrogance. Confidence won't normally turn people off but these guys have gone beyond that. They are aggressive. No girl in her right mind wants a man in a feather boa or sparkle leather pants, telling them that they are going to be taken out weather they like it or not.
We want romance- like you're the most beautiful girl in here
Not I usually hate girls in black dresses but you look great in it
Well arrogance vs. shyness/anxiety/apprehensive...arrogance is the lesser of the two evils in that situation. At least with arrogance it gets him out and experiencing the world. He can fine tune it with experience, but at least he has the balls to be out with girls at that point.
I'd always go for the wallflower myself. I don't really mind asking guys out or sparking up conversations, though I don't really have to, one I'm engaged, two I get enough attention as it is.
I can kinda understand what you mean though. Last night a reasonably attractive guy had his friend ask me if I had a boyfriend for him. Obviously I do but even if I didn't I would of told the friend, that unless the guy asks me himself it's not happening. Shy is one thing coward is another
Nerds rule, nuff said ;)
i've seen it happen before
yeh, tho I don't go for 'nerds'