Is average attractive?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think so much of it is open to interpretation and personal tastes.

I've always thought I was below average, below average looks, below average sexually, got bullied and called fugly at school etc...

Got into work, met a super hot girl, I mean like way out of my league hot.

We hit it off, she flirted a tonne while in a relationship, they broke up, we had a fling and we split. But her reasoning was that she thought I looked great, and she was sexually attracted to me but she just didn't feel an emotional attraction.

So where so many people convinced me I was ugly and would never get anywhere, the hottest girl I know saw something in me and to her I was super sexy.

It's less about a general average of how you are. Moreso a case of finding that person who sees you as a perfect 10.

JDavid25 · Accepted Answer

Average is too broad of a term really.. Most people use it as "bland", but it really means normal.. Let's say if there was a city where most women looked like models, then in that city it would be considered "average".. So yes average can be attractive, cause there are plenty of attractive normal lookin women..

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Be definition it means being in the middle of the bell curve
where the bulk of people live (well, technically that's the median in the dead centre, while average is a mathematical calculation taking into account all values.) Another way to look at it is average is what the majority of people are, so of course it's possible to be attractive to others. Find your equal. Find someone who looks like you. That validates people, makes them feel good about themselves.
Remember, it's not always about 'an upgrade', finding the best person possible, looks-wise. There are many factors that go into partner selection.

Xoxocutekitty · Accepted Answer

Average is a good place to start. Typically means there are't any glaring "red flags" or difficulties that are outside of what you would otherwise get statistically. If you look deep enough into "Average" you'll find that everyone has their own small cute quirks which makes them who they are. At the end of the day, average probably means functional and functional is good.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

it can be but it is up to the individual on what they consider acttrative ! I think my mecanic is cute because he has - dark hair , brown eyes and dark skin while I have - hazel eyes and am caucasian too ! he seems to like me and I him ! others may think he or I are not attractive becasue of our looks but I think he is cute ! when I am out I do get compliments and such from boys - men so who knows ! thanks

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

Attraction is subjective, as well as what is considered "average" looks.

To me, average is someone who is just ordinary looking. Not really that good looking, but also not ugly. Just plain. If they have a good personality, they can be attractive.

Kaazsz · Answer

Well I wouldn’t mind taking home like 70% of girls I see and putting a baby in em as long as I don’t have to raise it. Not like that happens for me I’m no playa.

But in terms of say, marriage, a lot more things need to be taken into account other than “you look good enough for me to bust a nut into.”

Gravit1 · Answer

It certainly isn't unattractive. However, average or below doesn't impact pheromones as you can still be compatible. So an average woman can be more attractive than a pretty woman if she is more pheromonally compatible. Pheromones determine physical appeal, they don't care what other people call pretty.

Browneye57 · Answer

Study SMV - sexual market value. Average is 'most people', or 'most people are average'. So yes, it's attractive to others that are similar in SMV.
A severe mis-match never seems to work out well, and in most cases there are underlying factors. Such as when you see a really great looking gal with a very average or even blow average guy - either he's got a big dick, great game, or a shit-ton of dough. Or she's got a really low self esteem/percieved value.

CuteNerd9 · Answer

There are so many more qualities that make someone attractive than outward appearance. Can average looks be attractive? Absolutely! Can someone with above average looks be ugly? Absolutely!

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

average = average. It is the median metric of all bits of information that have been found in an overall pool. Average is not something that can be used when discussing the subjective, only the objective. It is not a feeling, it is not something you can argue over. Average simply is average.

Women need to stop using this word incorrectly, because you're all wrong about it.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends. I can be attracted to some average looking women and not to others. I've seen plenty of 8s that aren't my type and I've seen many 5s and 6s that are exactly my type. I generally find "average" looking women attractive but that being said, I'm not attracted to every average looking woman.

DavidDong · Answer

Where I'm at average is very much not attractive.
I do not like 70% of the girls that are native here at least.
Scotland, truly, you get hot blondes and gingers and that but my damn a lot truly are bad lookers.
I'm sure it is though in many places, I live in scotland

JamesBlackDragon · Answer

I find everyone average once I get to know them that's when they start to go above or below  I mean i can call someone cute sexy hot or whatever but still think they average

worldscolide · Answer

Average is attractive.. I would much rather have an average girl with a good personality, than a hot girl who has a shit personality and is dumb as a post.. Because in most cases, from personal experience, that has been the case, hot girls typically are just incredibly stupid and have shit personalities. Again personal experience, i am by no means indicating this is a rule.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Most people are average, yet get in relationships. You don't need to be above average to be attractive.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

I would much rather have an average looking partner. provided she had a enjoyable personality and attitude.

jkm1864 · Answer

Men have a wider range of what they consider attractive than women so in Your case yes. If Your an average looking guy then Your fucked so You better start improving in other areas to make Yourself more valuable.

Enochian · Answer

To me yes. There only two things I find unattractive... 1- If they an awful person 2- if they are extremely overweight.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Average can be attractive. Depends on whether a girl dressed to maximize her appearance and combines that with a charming personality.

Nicolette777 · Answer

Well, there are lots of average people. Statistically speaking, most people are average and these average people find love as most people do so many must find average attractive  enough

heyitsbianca · Answer

Well even if he is average looking but hella romantic and loyal.. he is worth it... instead if of going for those hot ones who aren’t loyal.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

Depend on what the average is. I mean, it differs from regions and countries.. Average in Sweden is superhot in my opinion. I don't even know what average in the US is.

Rino07 · Answer

It's not "the average" that are attractive, it's the intern personnality that creat the sexieness. I know my friend she is not even average but has amazing personnality and she married a very hot rich guy

Gibbby · Answer

Yes, because that means you have a higher chance of procreation! Like majority of the population is average for a reason!

MCheetah · Answer

F*ck no!  For me, the very least attractive thing you can be is replaceable, valueless, and insignificant.

BlueScorpio · Answer

Yes, average just means common/the norm. You can still find attractive everyday people, just cause their not a supermodel doesn't mean they are ugly.

Desconhecida · Answer

What's average? What you may consider average may be considered beauty to other's eyes...

candy77 · Answer

If you're a woman then it is a definite yes but if your a guy then your never the first choice nor preferences.

blondfrog · Answer

It can be. Average just means you have the same level of attractive as most people. So its not a bad thing.
It's like saying is 5'9 short for a man? Because see here 5'9 for American men is the average height.

davids88 · Answer

Average is average  Attractive is attractive Average = 4/10 to 6/10 Attractive = 7/10 to 10/10

jshm2 · Answer

Only in areas of ugly people, and ugly people who think they are attractive.  You call it "New Jersey".

Tndd13 · Answer

What do you mean by average? Baby taking into account everything that happens average or not average are all great!

Wise4myage · Answer

Average can be very attractive, especially if you have good character and personality.

wankiam · Answer

if it wasn't i think humankind might have died out thousands of years ago

apollo3000 · Answer

Usually, yes. Many people make the mistake of trying too hard, being someone they are not etc - when anyone who would like them would like them best for just being their ordinary self

skunkbeard68 · Answer

Average is fine. There might be more to a Average person that meets the eye, or perhaps not, you will never know till you get to know the " Average " Person..

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

It's called 'average' for a reason. That means not too attractive, not too ugly.

fonduegirl · Answer

If by average you mean "trying not too hard", yes very much.

Don-_-Don · Answer

I would say yes, but people prove to me that is not the case. My answer is no.

JosyJosy · Answer

Of course most of us if not ALL of us here are average, we're just your everyday people

Anonymous · Answer

Males aren’t as picky as females, so average girls still get a lot of attention, by average guys get hardly any

Mroz75 · Answer

Yesssss, personally i would prefer an average girl over the very pretty one.

Gedaria · Answer

Yes. What one says ugly is very nice someone's average is someone's gorgeous. And vise a versa. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...

Anonymous · Answer

Average looks is a matter of opinion. I have always thought Jessica Beil was average looking. I have never thought she was pretty. Seems like other people find her attractive though.

douride2 · Answer

Seeing as most us us are average yes it can be attractive.

finallylettinggo · Answer

I find the average looking girl next door types are the most attractive to me.

realperson02 · Answer

Average is average hence it's called average not attractive

Trooper205 · Answer

Of course! I've seen the "Average" Girl. They're a pretty type.

YHL6965 · Answer

Yes it is. it just means you're not particularly exceptional but not bad either. To me, it's like good but common.

Anonymous · Answer

For women yes, for men no because the bar for men is underground

JoobeJoob · Answer

Everyone is beautiful, people are just idiots and society’s idea of beauty is fucked

Aquiline_feast · Answer

How many of got super model wife or husband? Is help available?

V12NI · Answer

Below average - unattractive  Average - attractive Above average - very attractive

MrCanada · Answer

Yes. I much pretty a girl next door look then a girl all glammed up.

ohshee · Answer

Confidence is beautiful and sexy

Anonymous · Answer

Women qho ask such a question have no idea how a guys mind works. Smh

Jack-mayhoff · Answer

For me it yes for sure. I prefer it over a high maintenance all glammed up type girl

raka_1128 · Answer

would you like to text me pls? yes why not heart must be true then everyone is aatractive

robocop666 · Answer

average is a minimum requirement. Boobs and butt is what men are after.

sabesauce · Answer

What's your idea of average

martinxdenver · Answer

With a good behavior yes.

IMainHanzo · Answer

Depends from person to person

dploegjeexx · Answer

Someone’s average is someone’s perfect match.

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