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Do you think removing a girls glasses and straightening her hair will automatically make her look more attractive?
No!! Glasses can look super cute. And as for hair, I grew up hating my natural curly hair but now that Iβm older I get tons of compliments on my hair and guys always tell me that what first caught their eye about me was my curly hair. So basically moral of the story, embrace what makes you unique and sets you apart whether thatβs ur glasses, ur hair, or something else! There isnβt a set formula for what is beautiful. So experiment a little, see what you feel most comfortable in, and I recommend embracing ur βquirksβ instead of trying to change or hide them.
Not true, but I do believe that depending on how one naturally looks and if they change up their looks it can turn heads and draw an appealing attraction. I have natural dark hair and don't have 20/20 vision. I have dyed my hair, permed it to create waves, used a curling iron, wear contacts (usually and generally), but also wear glasses at times and have gotten a variety of positive comments for changing up my style. Same goes with men and when they change up their hair style or grown out their facial hair - it can really change up their attractiveness.
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I loveeeeeeee this postπ You are a lovely writer
No I don't agree with that. Some girls look even better with glasses and a ponytail. I don't mind the glasses and ponytail and think it can definitely look hot if you make it work. I do agree that in some cases you're right, but those are the people that usually don't really put that much effort into their looks. This is not a 100% true statement, but I have seen plenty of people that could work on it if they would choose to do so.
I think that a ponytail glasses combo can be pretty fking hot
Not necessarily, but it probably wouldn't hurt. And then to make it obviously so, in movies such as TPD, or shows such as Wonder Woman, the make-up and hair- possibly even padding in their bra- are all highly and repeatably controlled to achieve the effect the stylists and director require for the particular scene.
OMG yessssss! Loved your post and thanks for giving an example to explain your answer! Who ever downvoted this is an idiot... This was spot on advice... This is why the downvote shouldn't even be possible... People are morons and abuse it... Like there was no reason for this post to be downvoted!!! If I could upvote more than once I would
I take these "downvotes" in context. If someone asks for an OPINION, then they really have little or no call to downvote. If i made a factual error in my reply, then a downvote could be fair game. But since Carter obviously has that "waif' look in her eyes as Miss Prince and a forceful stare as WW, has unpadded shoulders as Prince and most likely somewhat padded breasts for WW, and a rather typical posture for Prince but an almost defiant, upright posture (as if visually saying, "I dare ya;") as WW, then from a factual standpoint, I think I'm on reasonable ground and I can easily just dismiss that downvote which was obviously made in error. :- )
What if I told you, my transition from puberty into "blossoming" and improving in my appearance what the total opposite? In my cultural background straightening your hair and "removing" your glasses is as some media has portrait what makes you beautiful. I went from being imposed to that norm, to allowing my curls to be. I also use my glasses often! And guess what? I received more compliments in my natural state. Yet what matters the most, I've learned to love my hair as it is and feel more comfortable and beautiful that way.
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Thanks for the detailed feedback and for sharing your story!!!
I have so many different styles but the point is that you have to respect me either way (not youyou but people in general). Glasses on, glasses off. Tied up hair, hair put down. Baggy clothes, "slutty" clothes. It's all just superficial things but the human in you is the only truth. It's the thing that remains consistent and if anyone's searching for "realness", they have to look past the superficial shit. But if you wanna look pretty in society's eyes then there's a general expectation for that for sure. But it's not just no glasses and straight hair. Wavy and curly hair is pretty af, glasses are hott, and bald girls can get it.
Girlllllllllllll you are fantastic!!! I really enjoyed reading your post!!! The details were clear and concise and even before you said who it was directed at I knew!!! That user is going to be blocked but I am giving him time to read my feedback so he can't go and cry and say I blocked him for no reason... He stopped interacting with me for over six months and as soon as I make a bait post for haters guess who comes out of the dark!!! It's pathetic... He literally trolled three of my posts and trying to make it seem like he's better than everyone and I am some piece of shit loser because I like to dress sexy at home and take pictures... I don't even wear my outfits out of the house AND I'm not sexually active... But he feels the need to leave hate on all my posts... Even let me know that he unfollowed because he doesn't understand why I need to be sexy... Like you unfollowed me because I dress sexy and you're not even my man... I know I have mental health issues but I rather be mentally ill than a hypocrite... Sorry I just needed to vent... I am so sick of all the hatred in the world... And I really hate people who knowingly spread hate and call it love... Those are the most sinful people in my book... I am very blessed that's all the proof that I need to know that God loves me and accepts... And I love and accept me... That's all that matters... #NoMoreHaters
Don't even trip, I've been ranting a lot too haha. People are so entitled to what women do and wear, it's ridiculous. The crazy thing too is that he might not even be trolling. A lot of people really do have this mindset because it's about what you're taught and how you implement what you're taught. And he was taught that women should dress for his eyes and ego. And that's literally my brother so I'm donedone LMAO I've also been reflecting a lot on all the bs in the world and I'm slowly going insane at this point tbh. But yeh, block the negetivity. We don't need it. He needs therapy but if the people around us won't go to therapy, then we must. I'm gonna go to therapy soon and I think it's gonna help me a lot. Maybe the first step to healing is to find the right words to explain what it is that's making us mentally unstable. You should try it out and see how it goes! Best of luck to you! <3
This was such a great detailed post! Thanks for explaining his behavior... I am usually excellent at reading people but I struggle with understanding the "why" and you answered that... I hate being confused... It's like I am so nice to you and have been nothing but be kind but they are making a conscious choice to hate me and the things I do... Even though it doesn't effect them in no way shape or form... I am a people pleaser and it angers me when people basically say I hate the way you dress and you expressing your sexuality so I am going to unfollow and keep coming back to make you feel bad for posting... That's what reallyyyyy grinds my gears... People can't be hateful in silence... They need an audience... It sucks πππ’π
AB-SO-LUTELY not... And that would be quite absurd and sad to feel that way about someone a person would claim to care about or be interested in. Imagine a girl, telling a guy that he should add a third testicle, cut his hair and try wearing blue contacts lenses to fit her ideal guyβs image. Laughable, first who designated blue eyes as dreamy? Then suggest cutting his hair like a bushwhacker and adding a third testicle would make him more attractive? 😂👉🌎 Where do some of these people on earth come up with this stuff? Glasses can appear quite appealing on some people and I can get lost in curly locks easier than straight hair. Just ask those three bears 🐻🐻🐻 her name was Goldilocks.
I wouldn't describe a girl doing that with her appearance more attractive, no it only makes them look flirty and fun to go out and loosen up to have a good time with. Thats what my thoughts are on why we would call this attractive, but not more or less than when she wore glasses with a pony tail
Sure, if she has major daddy issues. I would prefer too encourage her too see as much of me as possible once she's made it known that she likes what she see's when looking into my eyes. Therefore, why would I want too obstruct herl vision of me, or mine of her'
Thanks. I forgot too mention that I wear glasses too, and after seeing a romantic comedy wear two foureyes try removing each other's glasses in a romantic moment gone hilariously wrong, I saw the error of such gestures in real life scenarios.
To me, Few people look better with glasses than without according to the style... even though beauty doesn't change, the natural look always wins to me (natural, nothing on the face).. but if you are gorgeousmost things like good : https://images.app.goo.gl/i1Ky3b5gKY31zjiP6 see through glasses are my fave... Shaded tinted glasses serve a purpose and look cool in the moment but I would get frustrated not seeing the eyes clearly l like to see eyes.
It can be a big change for some girls just like it can be insignificant or worsen things for others. Personally though, I would rather just notice her beauty as is, all natural instead of trying to change her. I think this way because natural is authentic, it's who they truly are while, with changes like that (I also include things like make up in that), it's not who they truly are and, if you like them with the changes, what happens if she feels like not doing these things anymore and you don't like who she is naturally?
No, changing these things is the wrong way to go. Glasses make a girl look more intelligent, respectable, and modest. Glasses enhance a girl's femininity and so she should keep them. As for her hair she should keep it natural. If her hair is curly, she should keep it curly. That is who she is. It reflects the inner her. For more formal occasions she can braid it or put it up. A strong and feminine woman should always be proud of her inner core and never change it.
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I enjoyed reading your post!!! Thanks for explaining your answer and leaving detailed feedback!
Not always, I have a round face and naturally wavey/curly hair, I also wear glasses and contacts. Depending on what I'm wearing or what I'm going for, I can make it work. But it isn't the case for all ladies.
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You're super cute! Thanks for the feedback! I enjoyed reading! You give some good opinions and I like your energy...
Nah.. when I put on my glasses, my boyfriend will call me sexy teacher. My ex also called me sexy secretary. So in my defense, my glasses makes me looked sexy. And my hair kinda wavy. Not curly. But not straight as well.
I think there is some truth to that but there is a reason the hair is like that in the first place in which if girls can be mindful of the guy that's helpful but in the real world people can't just simply take their prescription glasses off either :) however there are contracts :)
Getting rid of glasses sometimes is a good thing as people can see your eyes better. It is important to be able to see eyes. But then again sometimes glasses are very attractive.
My ex boyfriend liked me more without glasses and I whenever had to see him I would take my glasses off. But still that didn't let him stop cheating on me.
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Your glasses are cute on you! Thanks for the feedback π
No. They add makeup, change the lighting, as well as more confidence. ( more so in the first example ) Also, I tend to like girls with glasses and sometimes with curly hair too... I believe it's less making them look prettier but, more of making them look different because I can't lie, they do look different - but not nessarilary pretteir. Though, this IS all in my opinion and I'm hoping this is a reply you were looking forward to.
This is an issue in today's world. The ignorance portrayed by the media's definition of beauty. Like okay "Fuck the fact that you can't see anything. Take your glasses off because you won't be beautiful if you dont."
Men are constantly saying, stop wearing make up, don't get plastic surgery. Only ugly women and women in their 30s who's can get laid anymore do all that dumb shit. You want a hot guy who's a slut, go ahead. Want to find an honest guy who's good for you... be real. Dump all the fake shit and try not to be a whore. Sleeping around is people's rights, but eventually people grow up and want to settle down. Guys don't like settling with bimbos. They will fuck a desperate dolled up girl who's in love with him or who thinks she's winning, then go get married to some good girl who is Actually loyal and not fake and not a slut. ^^
I'm not sure what you're going on about but thanks for the feedback! Not that helpful... Makes no sense... And you seem to be ranting more than answering the question... You're energy is quite negative... Would you like a hug?
And I'm empath and a Psychology Major... Let me break it down because you aren't aware of your pattern of behaviors... Whenever you interact with me you NEVER have anything good to say... It's like you feel forced to answer my questions and I didn't invite you... Nor do I enjoy your thoughts... So wassup with that?
If what you had to say had any real validity, you wouldn't have to say you're a mind reader and boast about your degree. Lol. You sure are putting a lot of time into this huh.
And you are strategically avoiding my questions because you know I'm right and you can't admit that you are a hater and you STILL want my attention... It's okay... You're actions show me EVERYTHING I need to know... Thanks for explaining your answer!!!
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