Going from redhead to blond?

[Anonymous]

I don’t feel like I’m any guy’s type with my looks. I’m tall and thin, pale and have red hair. I see a lot of tan blond girls who get a lot of attention especially at the gym. They may not be as objectively attractive as me but they’re tan and blond which is usually more preferred than red hair and pale skin.
I think I’m unattractive or average at most, and I’d like to be attractive to them so I can successfully find a partner. It’s important that they’re attracted to me sexually/physically which isn’t my current case right now.
I think men tend to prefer the blond, big boob, tan look over my features. Should I go for it? I could get a spray tan and get my hair colored bleach blond.

[ChrisMaster69]

No definitely not, one of the worst looks is fake.

also blonde and big boobs with a fake tan is 🤢

it’s really not a good look.

A night out in Newcastle shows a lot of Bottle Blondes and a shit load of fake tan.

it’s a nightmare when you have a girl at your house, then you look in your bed after she leaves, there is her face imprinted in the pillow case and her body print on the sheets. Make up and fake tan…

Stick with being a red head and look at what you are wearing, how you walk, your confidence etc.

it’s all about feeling and looking good, look at different stockings / tights etc to wear, play to your strengths not your weaknesses.

Where I live we have the worlds largest variations of Gingers / Reds and also loads of blondes, there is not really anyone better than the other.

[jamesgoldman]

My first girlfriend looked like you well working on your description of yourself... I have a sole regret well I suppose 2 but they'd equal the same result if implemented successfully

I regret letting her go (she moved to Poland) and I regret not proposing to her

[WonderBell99]

Are you kidding me? I wish I was a redhead, lol. Do you know how beautiful redheads are? Their hair color is so unique and fiery. I’m not a guy, but I don’t think hair color matters that much. Don’t change your appearance for guys. Seriously. You can change it for yourself if you want a change, or maybe just for fun. There are many guys who are into redheads. If a guy doesn’t like you for who you truly are, is he worth it? No.

[uwu_princess]

Stupid idea. The fact that you will change hair color doesn't mean that everyone will love you. You shouldn't change your appearance just for boys.

[MCheetah]

No! Redheads are awesome! There's enough blondes in Europe! Don't have us lose another redhead! Tall girls are also awesome, too! I legitimate have a thing for tall redheads. (They just don't like short, non-white dudes.)

[Anonymous]

If you like one night stands better than relationships, then do it. Would you rather find a few high value men who like pale red heads or attract a bunch of low value men who like blond girls?

It seems like you seem to be going to quantity over quality so choosing a man will be easy once you are blond, just watch out because future boyfriends will not trust a women with too many men in their lives

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Don’t go for it. Many guys like the natural look that you have.

[pretty_bad]

Girl my advice is that you should please yourself look how u want to look and let a man like that about u nd if a man don't he can suck himself just be yourself you'll attract the right person

[TheMajesticKing777]

You are changing for people and that's a path you don't wanna go down

[VikingWarLord]

Gotta see a pic of you to know for sure. Some redheads just can't do the blonde thing. Send me a DM and I'll be brutally honest

[Anonymous]

"I think men tend to prefer the blond, big boob, tan look"

You think wrong. Polls on this site have stated otherwise.

[Bubbles16]

You don't have to change the way you look to fit someone else's opinion on what you should look like so I say stay a redhead

[FearlessHero7]

Girl stop right there. You are definitely my type. There are guys after this type. Don't change the beautiful red colored hair. Besides it's so rare people dye their hair reds. Keep it!

[TacosRAwesome]

You're not unattractive, you're just in the wrong location.

[888theGreat]

Quit reading the Magazines because it is not true. I like Red Heads with white skin, and small breasts. I don't like Blondes, big boobs.

[joeldalton]

I'd have to see what you look like, first. Redheads can be smoking hot.

[Katherine_Rae]

No. Redheads are so hot to most guys. They might not approach because they think you have a boyfriend or don’t stand a chance.

[slatyb]

Redheads are the best. Don't change.

[stickit]

I personally find redheads more attractive

[Asker]

A lot of men say they prefer redheads but blonds get more attention when I’m out.

[stickit]

do you have a pic?

[nawtee_me]

I love red hair and smaller boobs. I always have.

[BCA6010]

Absolutely not.

[Wise4myage]

I say stay red.