When you show someone your regular selfie and they don't say anything about if you seem attractive do you take it to mean they find you unattractive?

[Still-alive]

Because ill admit when i actually show someone a selfie or pic of me im secretly hoping they tell me if i look attractive or something. but when they don't say anything about that does it mean they don't think you look attractive and just don't want to seem rude about it or something?

Yes when you show someone a pic of you and they make no mention of if you look attractive it likely means they find you unattractive and being nice about it

No it doesn't likely mean that

It depends (please explain)

[Steelcore5280]

I don't necessarily care too much, even though compliments are nice to receive. That said, if her initial reaction is "you look okay" or "nice," I know it's eventually gonna end in us not talking to each other again or something else. I've noticed women will just block you or leave you on read if they're not attracted to you. In some cases, they'll verbally abuse you before they block you.

So my experience says yes, they're not attracted to you.

[Belgie]

I don't usually read negatives into silence. Silence can be read as positive or negative. As an upbeat confident person, why would I assume a negative?

[BlackBeauty90]

I'm not so insecure of myself that I care what others think of selfies. It's a picture. Doesn't represent my personality, nature. Can't copy my laugh or witty sense of humor.

People are so, so, so shallow nowadays that they honestly think selfies have meaning when it captures 5% of a person and ONLY matters to dimwits that think looks are the only important aspect of a person.

[Sour-rose]

If it's one of my selfies, I don't expect for them to say anything. Because... well you know my selfies, yeah?

For those who don't know, my true form

[ariadneR]

I know I'm not everybody's cup of tea, looks wise and that's ok with me. The only other opinio. I'm concerned with other than mine is my partners.

And my parents taught me if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it all.

If nobody says shit, don't worry about it. All that matters is what you think of yourself

[rosemilk]

what is the context of this tho? is it for dating? why are you showing the selfie? it is generally weird to not say anything

[Still-alive]

Usually getting to know someone online and you don’t have your real pic in your pfp. I show it if they wanna see me.

[SphynxUK]

I never say anything. I don’t feel the need, regardless of whether I find them attractive or not.
If someone wanted feedback, they should ask for it.

[FifiJones]

Selfies are an indicator of poor mental health to begin with.

Also a great way to get into crosshairs of weirdos, narco users and dealers, criminals etc.

[ShelbyFun]

Well personally if I don't say anything it's not because the person is unattractive if anything they are probably average. But if a guy is conventionally good looking then I will point it out just because it's the obvious thing

[itsalyssaagain]

Not really. Some guys compliment me and some say nothing. I don’t think it changes anything. Everyone’s different I guess.

[menina]

Yes, I usually assume that they don't find me attractive. Which is fine, because we all have different preferences.

[horatiohornblower]

Complimenting someone on their looks in a picture isn't something that would occur to me.

[anon1903]

I don't look attractive in the filter less selfie. It's not me, it's my camera.

[Softlife808]

I dont show people selfies of me. I'm not the type to seek validation from others.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No, it doesn't likely mean that

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I know I'm ugly. I don't need someone lying to me.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Nobody finds me attractive and I've accepted that.