Guys, Which is more uncomfortable, wearing heels or wearing a tie all day?

[neilsmart]

man's shoes vs women's heels

open collar vs tie

[NamerOfStars]

Overall or in the moment? Heels are really only uncomfortable when you're on your feet; ties are uncomfortable whenever you have to breathe. At my sister's wedding, I was a groomsman, and they rented suits from a place for us; all we had to do was go in for measurements, and then pick them up a day before the ceremony. Cool- except that the ties they used weren't long ropes that you could knot relatively loosely, but knit circles sewed to another piece that hung down.

I guess the idea was that if it was big enough to fit over your head, it would fit comfortably around your neck- but it WOULDN'T fit over my head, and wasn't big enough to go around my neck. I had to tear the thing and have Mom sew it back together, and I still had to hold my breath whenever I leaned forward, or risk passing out. It was agony- but for most people, in most situations, the moment-to-moment wearing of heels is probably more painful; mine was an extreme case. There ARE women out there who are smart enough to not wear shoes that hurt their feet, but they're almost invariably lesbians.

Incidentally, I no longer wear ties; I have central sleep apnea I can use if I really feel a need to be oxygen-deprived. Should the need arise and be unavoidable, I DO have a clip-on somewhere, that I'd put in and tuck in the corners of. I have also given instructions, promised by several people to be enforced, for my funeral that if they try to put one on my body, it is to be removed, replaced with a dog collar and leash, and everyone told that I died in a kinky sex accident. Unless, of course, I was killed in a major event such as a terrorist bombing or a duel with the President, in which case it should be "a very kinky sex accident".

It's good to be prepared for these things.

[LikeALog]

Heels, definitely. I was part of a skit and "volunteered" to be Dolly Parton. The absolutely worst part was high heels. I was "walking" on my toes. I avoided using the heels unless I was standing. The high heels were a fall waiting to happen. And me walking was one of the funnier parts of the skit or maybe they were laughing at me. Nope, you ladies are welcome to your high heels. The only high heels I'll wear are cowboy riding boots.

I wore a tie for many years. A proper fitting shirt and collar are comfortable. The tie needs to be made with thin material so it's flexible. The size of the knot also matters. A knot that's too big can make the collar irritating, especially near the Adam's Apple. A buttoned collar and tie were never an issue for me. I didn't really notice them until undressing.

[Makeushiver]

I'm sure heels. Esp the long if ones on Louboutins, Ji! my Chops etc. I truly appreciate the discomfort women endure wearing things that make you beautiful. I love long legs with shapely calves, real stockings not the abomination called party hose, thing underwear, seat stuff in general. The main reason I'm not the slightest interest in ! an is because women are so goddamn beautiful. At times so believe its the only example of a benevolent universe. I cannot imagine anyone not getting turned non by women's beauty

[Lynx122]

Pretty sure it's heels they can even give you joint problems and stuff. This one idol I used to have a crush on, she had a knee injury from soccer when she was younger. She had to go dance in high heels on stage because the whole group wore high heels and it caused inflamation and stuff sometimes she could hardly walk after performing.

[neilsmart]

it's not easy trying to walk and balance in 6 inch heels never mind dance - at least she never has to wear a tie around her neck though?

[Lynx122]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QDKSsMo2LuE

[Lynx122]

They did wear pretty much every outfit imaginable in this compilation there's only one outfit with a tie but there were more performances where they wore ties and suits because the song was called Mr. Mr. :)

[Lynx122]

But I feel like you were being sarcastic there did some guy tell you wearing a tie is worse? :)

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I'd say heels.

I wear ties almost every day but I make big knots so they are in place but don't strangle me either, while heels there's no way of making them more comfortable.

There's a woman in my office who wears them almost every day - her choice, there's no dress code - and often I see her slipping them out under her desk when she's sitting.

[DrPepper12]

The torture devices known as heels. Don't get me wrong, a noose as fashion is REALLY FUCKED UP considering ties began as bibs for the wealthy & royalty. Men could always loosen them too. I am a 16.5 collar but always got 17 or 17.5 just for that reason.

[MicroJ]

Speaking as a guy, who will admit, I've worn both, heels are definitely more uncomfortable. They end up hurting all around, in the end, sitting, walking, dancing, driving, etc. A properly tied neck tie with the right collar can be comfortable.

[LiamJHayden]

Heels I would think. Ties can be made loose. Heck, if one is creative just tie a tie properly, cut it at the top, sew is some Velcro, and have an easy attach / easy remove that won't risk the movie horror scene of its getting stuck in the elevator or some machinery.

[Finchie40]

I don’t wear heels , but I am sure heels are worse on a girls’ feet compared to a tie wrapped around a guys’ neck , even though I like a girl that wears heels and find it attractive, she doesn’t have to wear those heels for long 😋

[neilsmart]

it's not easy trying to walk and balance on our tip toes all night but we get more attention from guys. guys look relaxed and confident without a tie and their shirt collar open

[DavEEErattEE]

As a guy I would have to say wearing a tie becuase it is the one I'm more likely to do. I'm not saying heels don't hurt but I don't wear them so they don't affect my comfort. I also think girls sometimes exaggerate how much discomfort heels cause them because no matter how much they complain they're still wearing them again next time they go out. I only wear a tie if I absolutely have to.

[neilsmart]

it's not easy trying to walk and balance on our tip toes all night but we get more attention from guys. guys look relaxed and confident without a tie and their shirt collar open

[DavEEErattEE]

Are you really balancing though when you've got the heel of the shoe to keep your foot up there? I've never really thought of being on tip-toes as being that uncomfortable

[neilsmart]

we always feel like we're about to fall over when we walk so we have to take very small quick steps. you said you mostly don't wear a tie but does you neck feel naked with your shirt collar open?

[Unit1]

I could tell you if I was a transgirl.

But I'm not.

I guess it's heels. I hear things about them.

[DryGermanGuy]

I have obviously no experience with heels, but a tie used with a correctly fitting (!) shirt is not uncomfortable at all. You forget that you’re wearing one.

[Paul09]

Women usually hurt them selves for fashion. So yeah heels for sure. They can look so good. But at what cost? Can't be good for your Long term posture. I actually like it when women wear flat shoes. Or boots (short or long).

[AviatorTom]

Wearing a tie all day is no big deal, I've done it many times.

I'm not sure how long I would last in heels.

[TadCurious]

I've never worn heels so I don't know about that. But my guess is that wearing heels would be much more uncomfortable than wearing a tie.

[Sonora81]

I have never worn them, but I'd imagine heels, since you can loosen a tie, but to get relief from heels, you'd have to go barefoot.

[NathanDavis]

I've never worn heels, so I don't really know...

[ilistengood]

Heels , no contest , and I never wear both at same time

[Ironic_Method]

I imagine wearing heels would be worse, though I hate ties.

[Jackblue]

Probably heels, ties are unpleasant but they don't damage any part of the boy. I have never worn high heels so I can't be certain.

[Arizona8]

While I have never worn them, I would guess heels. A tie can be loosened. If you are wearing heels, you would have to go barefoot for relief.

[OfDeath]

Probably heels. That’s really bad for your feet. Long term problems are on the way.

[Pete671]

I've tried heels actually, I lasted about half an hour lol,,,

[Wayneg89]

I actually enjoy dressing up. Very comfortable wearing a tie.

[neilsmart]

its not easy trying to balance in heels all night

[kaucky1]

Wearing heels more uncomfortablere-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[captain_voidwalker]

Heels seem kinda shitty wear to me. Ties aren't that bad just don't over tighten them and your fine but Heels bend a foot in ways not ment to be bent.

[debtfree_oneyear]

Ties serve no purpose but heels while high heels do

[neilsmart]

why do young guys very rarely wear ties?

[debtfree_oneyear]

They aren't necessary

[neilsmart]

but they keep your collar neatly closed otherwise your neck is naked

[debtfree_oneyear]

Who cares if our neck is naked

[neilsmart]

doesn't your neck feel naked without your collar open?

[debtfree_oneyear]

No more so than when I wear shorts in summer

[Likes2drive]

Never wore heels but I’m betting they would be more uncomfortable than a tie all day

[shortster]

Probably depends on how tight the tie is; but my money is on the heels.

[CubaPirate]

As I've never worn heels it has to be tie lol

[slatyb]

Heels. Nothing uncomfortable about a tie.

[Miristheiss]

I have never worn heels.