Are pretty women typically perceived as innocent and mysterious simply because they’re physically pretty?

[Anonymous]

[Rosexøxø]

I don't know about the mystery. I think maybe it’s a mystery if they’re a “baddie in bed.” How much they know sexually.

It is innocent if they’re pretty. The two kinda relate at times. Pretty are non provocative or self parading. They dressed nice or casual. Simple maybe natural beauty and if younger in age this also translates as innocence. Especially their type of joke style and communication with it.

If considered ugly or just not what does it for them (the guy) the guy will not give much a second glance or long enough moment to wonder if she is innocent or not.

That’s usually the term used for younger or well dressed young ladies- pretty. So it’s also paired/assumed with innocence.

It’s rare to see younger girls dressing provocative or seductive in the slutty sense (but you know how times have changed a bit).

Usually legal and older females can dress more pronounced and somewhat revealing or provocative and guys may consider it her trying to be seductive or she’s had experience/encounters with guys. If she seems interesting to him. His type. And she’s dressing extra sexual she will be seen as sexy and/or hot. If she has adult or dark humor and more social then she may seem somewhat experienced. Pair in level of flirt and all.

You just don’t call ladies like that “pretty” with ear to ear grin. Guys may be serious about considering her type as a partner in life so may say she’s beautiful or other, and usually she’s just hot/sexy. “Knock out.”

Not pretty. Younger ladies are said to be pretty when trying to be nice and also not seem perverted. Parents work friends or teachers will not call her sexy. There’s usually nothing indicating that either so to be nice and appropriate and accurate they will say pretty.

So if anyone is called pretty and they ARE older they can be guessed/assumed to be innocent. And on and on (I feel like I’m repeating so I’ll conclude it here lol).

The mystery? It’s just her level of sex intellect/experience maybe her set of fetishes or what open for/up to. What she may or may not have done. Her “skill.” And if she’s the marrying type or not. If he’s HER type or not. Having no clues or typical evidence to go by cause she doesn’t fit some stereotypes or commonalities then she will be a mystery to him until he figures out. Can that be pretty? I suppose so. It would count but it’s not the only option. Other types of ladies can be mysterious too. Just don’t ask me to list them. I’m not a guy 🤷‍♀️

[Rosexøxø]

Hope this helps a bit 👍

[Puppystarfish23]

Yes. I've been told I look very innocent and it's mainly a blessing in ways but also holds you back a lot In others.

Growing up in school I was a pretty well behaved child but when I did do something bad I'd always get away with it because teachers would never believe I'd do something like that and take my side the same with work as an adult. Everyone assumes im the victim and telling the truth which I usually am but I've never been under anyone suspicion. Maybe it's pretty white girl privileged I don't know.

But on the other hand guys didn't want to date me. They'd say I look to young or that it be like "fucking a bunny rabbit" one guy said and it really hurt my feelings. The only guys I'd attract were creeps with little girl fetishism. Luckily I eventually met my husband who loves me for me but even he gets comments off people saying I look like a child.

Also no one takes you seriously. They assume your dumb or try and treat you as if you are to bring you down

[Summeroflove]

Some are yes but looking pretty really just depends on the effort someone chooses to put into themselves so someone whose a dark personality such as narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths, Machiavellian‘s, dark empaths, and the list goes on may spend HOURS on themselves a day to make themselves look just perfect. To hide who they truly are inside. At the same time not everyone whose good looking is by any means bad either as well as some ugly people can be very nasty on the inside.

I think that some people just become too trusting because they are a good person therefore they project that on others. They assume everyone has their best interests at heart (which don’t get me wrong sone do) but they underestimate how many bad people are out there as well and end up getting very hurt. That goes for good hearted women as well.

Also people have preconceptions about people who are good looking. A lot of times they make assumptions that when someone looks good they start to create a mental picture inside their heads of who someone really is. Trust me spending hours on hair and makeup can make someone look like anything they really want to be. As well as people who are good at pretending to have a personality they don’t have. Until you’re stuck with them all the time and you see who they really are.

People need to be careful not to fall for a pretty or handsome face for that matter. Because some people aren’t who they seem. Some people can look really good and even act really good but have more nefarious intentions.

[Anonymous]

No. Where did you get this from?
Typical.. not at all.

One reason I like some pretty women is how well they presented themselves. So liking their choice and way of presentation which I believe it reflects their personality to some extent. Mainly as good.

Though there was for example this no-mistake looking girl, and was told she is totally hollow and empty as personality. So to me she is as a wall and even worse.. because she doesn't use her mind.
Otherwise, I percieve pretty women as good. Unless they are using beauty as a cheap way of feeling successful.

Innocent.. no.. doesn't resonate in any way. That's face gestures, posture, and style as well. Innocent as a trait comes alone and is clear if you ask me.

[DishLady]

Interesting you ask that. A guy friend of mine was telling me yesterday that I'm intimidating to most guys bc I have "that angel-goddess thing going on... someone who is real and here with us but also unattainable." I chuckled at the comment because it doesn't sound like the quirky chick with the long blooper reel I call life. Honestly it was a bit of a surprise.

I guess in a lot of ways I actually *AM* innocent at times and mysterious at times. Other times I'm perceived to be that way by guys who feel the way this guy seems to.

[supercutebutt]

An elderly angel. That's a new one!

[DishLady]

@supercutebutt Angels are timeless, saggyass. With that nasty attitude you probably won't get compliments when you're my age.

[ManOnFire]

@DishLady And she probably doesn't really have a super cute butt either😂

[DishLady]

@ManOnFire A troll’s butt is none of my business.

[AyChingao]

I don't, girls widely regarded as "pretty" seem to get put through XXtra shit from the guys for the most part, and most ladies are very good at deflecting and coming straight to the point when necessary, so by default they wouldn't be innocent. Still can be good people though

[Rosexøxø]

I appreciate the logic of this but also wanted to say if it’s intentional and in the wrongdoing department or just common mistakes, men and women both have had cases of not accepting responsibility, in various ways other personally foremost, but in “category and gender wise,” ladies may deflect and guys sometimes rationalize or ridicule it. It’s not always common people own up to stuff when mistaken or doing wrong.

If it’s in general conversation, it’s either habit for the lady, her personal choice, or she’s unaware of it- in which case, she’s not the opposite of innocent. And it doesn’t prove her to be innocent either if she is direct. People can express directly and still be lying.

Direct is not always honesty or integrity. Direct is not always evil. Sometimes just a choice of communication style, which some may consider a flaw,
or it actually be so in times of importance.

I don’t think it can be held against them though.

If they’re irresponsible, or malevolent, then yes. That’s it and they may use indirect communication to supply/support that, but it’s just simply not always entirely the case.

I liked your comment though. I’ve related at times and witnessed it in others too.

[AyChingao]

@Rosexøxø so, I guess I never really was trying to frame this as good or evil, but more in terms of being aware as opposed to being innocent. It strikes me that any woman has to learn to set boundaries and uphold them, this is where the being direct point comes in, after all there are some people who just won't allow a graceful retreat. I've experienced some little things like being given a number that wasn't real etc. in past, and just took it that she wanted to stop the train before it could start rolling, dishonest but effective... didn't bother me really, she got her point across. As you point out we meet people of all degrees of evil / good and sincere or not of both sexes, and in the right circumstance you'll see any given behavior out of most everyone. It truly spans the entire spectrum.

[Rosexøxø]

Agreed and I appreciate this response and expressed experience/perspective.

Wishing you better experiences and interactions with both sexes onward.

[AyChingao]

@Rosexøxø we could all use a little more of that

[RavVid]

Lots of guys will say they are inclined to perceive a girl as beautiful on the inside if she is beautiful on the outside. This portrayed in fairy tales and movies as so.

Innocent sexually not so sure but she would not be thought of as having done gang bangs and lots of pick ups.

Mysterious probably not. That is more a bad girl edge.

[Asker]

I find it that some women fit all fantasies/perceptions depending on not just her physical looks but what she wears, how she walks, her natural scent along with scents she prefers (perfumes.) How she talks (The words she uses. The conversations she has). All those things play a role in a how a man will view an outwardly attractive woman. Depending on those things she may come off as mysterious, innocent along with a bad girl edge as you say but also the type of bad girl they view her as would be more so in a “Now that’s a woman.” Kind of way rather than “She’s a hoe” kind of way if that makes sense lol.

[RavVid]

It does make sense. Highly selective does have some mystery in it it and we would expect a beautiful woman to regard her own value highly. And I think it is largely dues to physical looks.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I'd say yes. I believe in this tendency, for some men, to tack innocence and mystery on an aesthetically pleasing face. I also believe that some women notice this projection tacked onto them and play with this mirage. I view that mind trade as detrimental to both parties, as they are both at risk to trust an illusion about to crumble, which has to end with a rude awakening

[AReyMarz]

No, id say more demeanor. I’ve had a girl I find cute (small petite blondie) scare the shit outta me cause she started acting “crazy” stabbing a cardboard box like a maniac, complete turn off😂 being pretty does naturally make people “ready to be in a better mood” but that doesn’t make them be in a better mood if you don’t have a personality to go with it. Shitty people are still shitty.

[Byte131]

I think society looks at a pretty woman and thinks she is innocent and proper, but deep down, we all know she is not always so innocent, just as some people believe that women don't fart, we all know that's not true, I've known some really beautiful women that could clear a room, plus we all know you never judge a book by the cover, because once you get to know that beautiful woman, you might find out she is not so innocent in anything. Just have to take it a day at a time. Get to know her, then you can judge.

[FreyaRed]

"Innocent"..."mysterious"

Maybe some guys who want in you pants glorify you that way a short time.

When you don't look bad most people think you're mentally handicapped because your have been fed with silver spoon and everything you achieved came served on a silver platter. Your merit will always be projected as achievement of your physical assets and pretty face, never as hard work and commitment of personal sacrifices.

[Finchie40]

It’s possible because sadly we live in a world filled with judgmental people that assume things way before actually getting to know someone . Most people tend to judge a book by its cover , not realizing they are completely wrong about someone. Just because someone is attractive on the outside it doesn’t mean they have a beautiful heart or good moral values on the inside. We can easily assume they do but we can easily be wrong as well.

[Zack-Bann]

Guys usually make these excuses to justify being too chicken to talk to a pretty girl


Like: “ yeah she’s pretty but she’s also <insert cope> so ended up not approaching her even though I totally could”


Truth is: pretty, ugly, average. None of it really change what we are underneath

[Crazzyyworld]

I think the case here. Men who makes money in this shitty society feel no self worth. They feel like they are a piece of shit. So when they see women who value herself more than she is they feel attracted. They feel like they are selfworth by being with woman who value her$elf. That’s why they end up paying so much money for the greedy woman who abuse their husband so much.

[NicholasRedone]

@crazzyyworld that explains. Lol as I knew how when I look happy, I draw eyes 👀👀👀

[MissTrix]

Agree most guys want to be abused and made girly! Such a turn off

[foxsquirrell]

Yeah. I think yes. Not all of them. But sometimes yes you see these beautiful women who look like angels and its difficult to think of them as bad. Some attractive girls still won't look innocent though.

Why are you asking this question, or what prompted you?

[BCA6010]

No.

The innocent look is sort of a subcategory that isn't even necessarily attractive to some men, and "mysterious" typically refers to a woman's personality/how she carries herself moreso than her looks.

[EyeAmNiceGirl]

Not really. "Innocent" is an image, or maybe a style. The perceptions of the pretty women I know are all over the map, both on "innocence" and personality.

[Sonorous]

Maybe innocent but I don't know about mysterious unless they're just naive. Most people are the complete opposite of mysterious. Most people are predictable. Especially kids since they aren't even like fully human yet.

[Sonorous]

Especially when da microwave beeps cause them mofos be runnin like they're invincible.

[Sonorous]

I used to heat up hotdogs in a Styrofoam plate & watch it curl up around da hotdog in da microwave. Pretented that da hotdog had super powers

[Joshydavid25]

I don't think pretty women are necessarily perceived as innocent and mysterious.. I guess it depends on her demeanor.. But there's plenty of pretty girls that aren't innocent and don't pretend to be..

[ProbablyClueless]

No, it's usually more because of their behavior.

[Anonymous]

If somebody provides me with enough evidence to prove a person did something wrong I will think they are a bad person no matter what they might look like.

[ManOnFire]

Absolutely not. Most are far from innocent, and they are rarely mysterious.

[WhitneySnow]

Sometimes, though innocent and mysterious don’t always coexist in the same person

[Kelley1]

I don't know but they have preferential treatment.

[MrOracle]

Maybe sometimes, but quite often, no. That typically requires a soft, sweet, feminine personality.

[Miristheiss]

Innocent?

Modern women? No such thing.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't think attractiveness correlates to any particular level of moral standing or secrecy/openness.

[Communicationisking]

depends what they are selling... that goes for any human not just women.

[msg321]

Yeah because of media, movies, series e. t. c. they are perceived like that. Men also tend to see a woman innocent if he finds her beautiful but that is wrong.

[Anonymous]

No. They are usually viewed as intimidating. A prize to be had if possible.

[SeekerOfTruth007]

Surely that hottie doesn't have any STDS. lol at the way people think.

[Jennz6]

Sometimes you might think that I am innocent

[Bricealan]

@jennz6 Well, we KNOW that's not true, Jennz 👀👀😁😊

[Jennz6]

@Bricealan that’s not nice

[Bricealan]

@Jennz6 ... Jennz!!! Just joking. I know nothing about you, only what you tell us? I am always nice.

[RedThread]

I don't think anyone is innocent and mysterious due to their looks.

[dragoblack]

Pfft, no. They are perceived as knowing they are pretty and are either narcissistic & manipulative or already with someone

[Ladsin2]

Doubt it. If I see a pretty woman I likely presume that she's a whore, unless I see something that would disabuse me of that idea.

[lorenzomichael]

Fuck no who told you that shit? I love a little pretty miss dangerous.

[Blueeyes81]

No. Body language and an air of aloofness lead to that. Looks play no part.

[Anonymous]

are they? I take everyone as they are after knowing them i never percieve or think about someone in a particular way and experience of life also showed me that looks doesn't ahve anything to do with personality

[Anonymous]

I actually prefer pretty women who are dominant, self-confident and assertive.

I don't like women who are passive/submissive.

[Opinion Owner]

Most women would perceive me as innocent and mysterious.

[MikeRJ]

I don't think people base who is innocent on someone's attractiveness.

[RedInnocent69]

No, they’re perceived as physically pretty, but that goes for a lot

[PartyGirl2004]

Nah that’s to boring. Well-behaved women don’t make history.

[nicfire171]

Depends on the type of pretty I’d think and how they present themselves

[Anonymous]

They are usually smart too. Very intelligent.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure I agree with your premise. Are pretty women seen as innocent?

[Rohaan2020]

It doesn’t work like that…. Noone assumes that pretty women are innocent

[Anonymous]

No, innocence is a personality trait, not a physical one.

[Anonymous]

There's no such thing as an innocent woman.

[On_cloud_wine]

No that’s retarded

[NathanDavis]

no, that's not how it works

[Dongie]

Tell'em what's up, hoss!!

[jshm2]

No, those are two very different things.

[NicholasRedone]

Yeah some of the time they are

[Gymrat01]

Yes their is I expect everyone to 🙇🙇

[Dongie]

Nope! That's bull shat!!🐂💩

[Babygirl_S]

Depends on his idea of pretty.

[Wise4myage]

No, not necessarily.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

I'm always perceived as innocent 😇

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yeah, by naive fools.

[GAGsucksballs89170]

What do you mean "pretty women"?

[MatureMan40]

Not really but sometimes.

[robocop666]

Sadly yes sad but true

[bellicose]

Nope.

[slatyb]

No, they are not.

[MoonFace2]

Yep.