Ladies, are you comfortable letting your guy see you without makeup on?

I wear makeup everyday. I wear a lot but of different products but it doesn't look like a lot because I stick to a more natural look. I wash my face morning and night, so obviously I remove all of my makeup at night.

But lately, I've been sleeping over at my boyfriends a lot and I will just wipe off my eye makeup and leave my face makeup and brows done and just slip my glasses on. I don't like doing it though because it's bad for my skin. But I don't want my boyfriend seeing me with ZERO makeup on.

My sister thinks it's too soon for me to be wearing essentially 'no makeup', even though my face and brows are still done, (because my eye makeup defines my look) around my boyfriend so soon.

I was just wondering how other girls handled wearing makeup or not wearing makeup around their boyfriends?
  • Yes, I don't care if he sees me au naturale
    Vote A
  • No, I'm uncomfortable with him seeing me plain
    Vote B
  • Not applicable/I don't wear makeup
    Vote C
  • I just want to see results
    Vote D
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  • I'm kind of surprised by the female comments and honestly I think most of them aren't being completely honest or the ones who voted B. didn't answer..

    I think the majority of women have this problem, I know I do. It's not that I'm insecure about the way I look or fear letting him see me with no make-up will send him running, I wear it because I like too.

    I wash my face every morning/night but If I stay over at a boyfriends/he stays here I'll take most of my make-up off but like you keep a little on.

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What Guys Said 10

  • I like a girl who can be comfortable in her own skin (pun intended). Girls with no make up are also hot, unless of course your skin is hideous, but that's another issue. Make up is great and looks good, but it has its time and place. You would feel weird if you're guy wore a suit and hair gel to bed wouldn't you?

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  • Nothing is wrong without makeup unless you have something to hide. And if you get so hung up on letting hem see you without makeup, then how much harder will it be letting him see you without clothes? Lighten up. If he doesn't like you the way you are then he doesn't like you enough.

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    • I love my body and so does he. Liking to wear makeup doesn't equal insecurity.

    • Okay. That's good. That's very good. I wanted to be sure.

  • I see my lady interest all the time without makeup on and honestly, she looks great to me. I actually see her so much without makeup that when she does have it, it's like extra stunning.

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    • Every guy should have a rule: No makeup in bed...don't need that sh*t on me or on my sheets..O:O

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    • or my face?

    • No.

  • At first I can understand not wanting him to see you without makeup. Hell it can be quite some time, and sometimes never at all, before we stop trying so hard to impress someone we're dating, so it's understandable that you do the same. But in a good solid lasting relationship, I think one of the big steps is seeing a girl without her make up on, and her being comfortable with that.

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  • I've mostly dated girls who wore minimal or no makeup. My last girlfriend refused to let me see her without it on. I wish she could have been comfortable enough to let me see her for who she is under the mask.

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  • I had this one girlfriend back in 2000. She looked absolutely gorgeous when I first met her on New Year's Eve with just lipstick on and some glitter. Then when we started dating, she never wore any make-up, and she still looked perfect. I think for some, maybe make-up is just a regular thing, like for guys it would be shaving or whatever. But also, for guys, if we don't shave and we have all this stubble, maybe some of us won't feel as confident in our looks going out. So, I would never put down a girl that didn't want her guy to see her without make-up.

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  • Ahh, sleeping at the boyfriends place. I see. Sounds like make-up isn't the only thing you're bounding about devoid of. Scandalous!

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  • If my girl wears make-up, I mean the make-up that covers entire face, I will dump her if she does not change. Doing lips and eyes is good but seriously entire face. I want to kiss her and not the fucking make-up thingy that will get stuck all over my face.

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  • they shld try top be natural make up is only a suggested garnishing which can make every food look good

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  • Honestly, if I found out my girlfriend was so insecure about her looks that she felt the way you do about this issue, I would probably break it off. Looks aren't deal breakers, but insecurity is, because it always manifests itself in other forms as well that put a strain on the relationship eventually.

    Any woman who feels the need to put on makeup just to go run a quick errand to the market and back is a woman I could never date.

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    • I'm not insecure. I know I'm attractive with or without makeup, but makeup really helps.

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    • I'm only discussing this because I wanted to see how other girls feel about it. A person's "real self" isn't them without any makeup on...

    • People talk the talk of "i'd dump my girlfriend over insecurity" but in reality most people are insecure about something and if most people felt this way, there'd be an overwhelming amount of single people.

What Girls Said 44

  • My hair is ALWAYS a mess when I wake up - so the way I see it; he's going to see me not at my best anyway - so I might as well let him see it all. Honestly - I know I look better with make-up on, I don't have a very good complexion; but I'd rather he see my slightly dodgy skin, that go to sleep in make-up and risk getting spots and massive pores.

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    • I hear you with bedhead hair. Oye. -_-

    • LOL! Seeing you in the morning would NEVER be a nightmare Dear...<3<3<3=D

  • Yes I don't even give it a 2nd thought.

    i wear makeup because I like it, not because I think I'm too ugly to go without it. if you have really bad skin then I can see why this would be a concern, but for most people I don't think its that big of a deal? sh*t my skin needs to breathe!

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    • I mean, I have nice skin but my MakeUp Forever foundation makes it flawless. I love it so much! Lol.

  • If he doesn't like me without makeup then he doesn't like me

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    • Yeah, but certainly he'll lose some attraction if you look like a 10 with makeup and a 8 without it.

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  • Yes. At home, I hate making up. Much make up makes my skin rough. Skin needs fresh air too. I do not care my guy see my natural face. It is the real me, if he doesn't like the real me ,why he say love me? And I advise eating more fruit and drinking more water. It grows your self-confident when you wear no make up~:)

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  • My last boyfriend saw me without makeup the night we met (he was a friend of a friend's and sleeping over her place). I don't wear much makeup as it is; I prefer a natural look, so not having makeup isn't a huge deal for me. Besides, any guy who's going to judge me because my skin tone isn't perfectly even (about the only reason I wear makeup) is not a man I want to be involved with.

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  • I only wear make-up sometimes. And if I do, it's just because of a blemish or something. Usually I don't need it, so I don't bother. That said, I do like to be put together outfit-wise when I know I'm going to be seeing a guy I like or who I'm dating at the time. It may take a bit getting to know him before I let him see me in just anything super informal or in my pjs, unless we're doing something that would require work-out/game clothes.

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  • OMG! First, you are ruining your skin. Bad, very bad. Secondly, if you feel this self-conscience now at your age...WHAT IN THE H*LL WILL YOU DO IN YOUR 40s and 50s? And 60s? Put a bag over your head?

    I'll bet he absolutely WISHES that you'd wash your face. Really! Take it off, there is no reason not too. DO IT GIRL!

    You'll love it!

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  • When I start seeing a guy I don't wear any make-up at ALL what so ever. He needs to fall in love with my plain face before he falls in love with my glamour face.

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  • Of course. I'm not really interested in being with a guy who would have a problem with the way I look without make-up.

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  • That's insane...I can't imagine not letting my boyfriend see me without makeup. He likes me better that way (which I find strange, lol).

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