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Chasing women, and why it always leads to Rejection (Page 2)

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  • Anonymous
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    Hahahahahaha! That's funny. A guy who claims to know females. Well... In my case if you don't contact me. I assume you don't care enough. End of story.

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  • CandyandPinkCats
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    Men who chase women will never get far. Because from a girl's perspective, being chased... actually makes him really boring. There's nothing interesting about him; if there was, then why would he be putting so much effort into getting her? People who are interesting don't need to put in all that effort, because they're already cool. If I was interested in a guy, then *I* would want him. I might not chase him, but I'd make it clear that I wanted him.

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  • TheGreenRanger
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    I agree with this MyTake.

    Had this girl at work I was seeing. For a time, things were good but after some time she started flaking on me.

    It was shitty but I decided to move on and never look back.

    For months she tried to get me back and even asked one time, "hey Ray, want a girlfriend?"

    I thought in my head, "fuck you, bitch!" and continued ignored her.

    Apparently, I broke her heart according to a co-worker.

    Not my problem, obviously, considering what she started.

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  • Openness
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    I agree with this almost completely. Men are created to chase and conquer any thing they want to have in life generally except when chasing after women. By experience, dressing smart and being successful in your career or profession naturally attracts women to you. This is how it works most times- dress well always and pursue your goal in life. Any woman who admires your look and achievement will fall for you, you don't need to chase her. She will make herself available every time you call. If you are not rich yet. There is always a woman out there for you. Money and achievements is not all but money and achievement attract about 90% of women. No woman wants to be with lazy, rough-looking and unsuccessful man.

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  • yellowmamba024
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    Well women rarely chase me (at least the ones I am interested in), I don't have much of a choice but to chase women anyways. If I don't chase, I have no opportunities at all. So might as well "chase" women.

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    • JohnBhoy94
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      If the women who you're interested in doesn't chase you, she's probably not interested in you in the first place.

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    • yellowmamba024
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      +1 y

      Probably

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  • Anonymous
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    "People who think that a woman will literally call you and tell you she wants to drop her pants are deluded and know absolutely jack shit about women."

    I had it happen at least a dozen times. Mostly just them sending really obvious signals but six times I can think of off the top of my head were straight up propositions.

    All were cases where I'd broken up with a mutual acquaintance and they'd kind of been waiting in the wings and wanted to get in before the competition.

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  • dudegrt09
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    Well I liked you take, but I'm not sure. Many men think that the direct and dominant approach is best because it's not too gamey. Also your second last claim kind of refute your other advise. If women will not put themselves in a position of getting rejected why would they pursue you?

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  • Yc2K15
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    Your title is misleading. Chasing women and why it always leads to rejection. You should just write-
    How to pick up women. I guess that is more the direction because I don't see any helpful advice based on the title.

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    • JohnBhoy94
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      You need to read it again.

      "It's simple really: The woman should be chasing you
      It's a fact that women are more interested/attracted to men who's intentions are unclear. "

      This is the best advice you'll get from any takes on GaG.

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    • Yc2K15
      Yc2K15
      +1 y

      2nd best actually.

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  • chittyadvice
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    horrible post. just be good looking. its that simple. that way you dont need to worry about these childish mind games. it took me a long time to finally be good looking but believe me it paid off

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  • tsmalls
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    It is definitely difficult to be just friends with a woman you are attracted to. However, you cannot deny friendship if you are a guy like me with SAD/MDD, and don't have a lot of friends. It seems very shallow and unattractive to put a relationship before a friendship.
    I've been friends with a girl I like for a year or so now and I still enjoy her company. It never hurts to have some hope that maybe she will change her mind, but it is important that I keep my options open.

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  • Ratiocinative
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    Sounds like someone is plagiarizing Corey Wayne. You even used pretty much the exact same wording he does. At least give him credit and put a link to his website or something.

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    • JohnBhoy94
      JohnBhoy94
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      Yeah I definitely should of. All credit goes to him. He's inspirational and his book really has opened my eyes to relationships.

      I realised I should have put some sources up and spoken of his name, but there's no edit option on myTakes.

      I'm learning from him, so of course some of the words and expressions he uses will come up, I don't take any credit for it whatsoever I'm practising what he teaches.

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  • hazal21
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    Xper 5 Age: 28
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    I don't appreciate this take i don't agree the part when u said girls should chase guys

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    • Floyd790
      Floyd790
      +1 y

      Then don't be a feminist if girls shouldn't be chasing guys. Equal rights.

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    • hazal21
      hazal21
      +1 y

      I am not being a feminist.

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  • Maverickj
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    Xper 6 Age: 36
    +1 y

    Actually, girls often expect the guy to chase them, or there is no chance.

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    • JohnBhoy94
      JohnBhoy94
      +1 y

      *expect*

      People want what they can't have.

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    • Maverickj
      Maverickj
      +1 y

      Doesn't change the fact that guys are expected to make the first move, so we're pretty much forced to "chase" women. Sometimes women even encourage this by playing hard to get.

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    • JohnBhoy94
      JohnBhoy94
      +1 y

      First move =/= chase.

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  • Anonymous
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    (30-35)
    +1 y

    Bad advice, I'd stop liking a guy who ignored me for days on end. Not worth it.

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    • JohnBhoy94
      JohnBhoy94
      +1 y

      I said NOTHING about ignoring the girl... if the girl reached out during those couple days I would respond.

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    • love2run13
      love2run13
      +1 y

      I agree with her, I don't like when guys make me chase them and play stupid waiting games, I want a guy who out right tells me how interested he is cuz I will appreciate this a lot more :) otherwise I will assume he does not like me and therefore it would be a waste of time. The ONLY time i would chase a guy is if i really really really liked him and he for some reason pulls back even tho i am still demonstrating my interest, then i will chase him more and tell him i like him cuz he is worth getting rejected over just to see if he likes me ^_^

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  • Johnnyjay
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    Xper 7 Age: 38
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    hey did COREY tell you this stuff?

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    • JohnBhoy94
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      The one and only :)

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  • Notedkibbles
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    Xper 6 Age: 30
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    I approach and i do just fine im not the type to wait i don't take female advice i learn from men who been there done that

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  • vgmaster9
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    I'm sure there of plenty of women who do the same with men.

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    • JohnBhoy94
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      Those women aren't worth it.

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  • ladyly
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    Xper 5 Age: 33
    +1 y

    I agree. Even though it pains me to admit it.

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  • tenofthepeaks
    tenofthepeaks Follow
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    defeatist attitudes get you nowhere..

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  • checkingavailability
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    Xper 6 Age: 34
    +1 y

    Wow. Well said brother.

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