About a Boy: Why Guys Need to Grow A Pair in the Dating Game (Page 2)

[littlesquirrel]

Im a girl, I walked away because he said he wanted to be friends only and cooled off, not because I don't care. I do care, I miss him so badly you wouldn't believe, but I'll not force something what he doesn't want. I let him be happy with somebody else even if I'm dying inside. If he cared he would show some sign.

[miki94]

You did generalize all girls which leads me to believe that you only met bi**es?

Girls you mention are common, but not all girls are like that, so your article addressess only certain number of relationships. As for doing that.. Great job.

[toulouse]

Why would I want to purposefully try to think ill of my history, a major part of my life- which is ANY part of my life- which is a part of my self....?

An obvious point is - If the guy was a jerk.... What does that say about me ?

;)

[Irrelevance]

Sonic: A girl who gives you the number just to get rid of you won't answer any of your attempts to contact be it through text or phone calls. She won't help you get in touch with her either and when she doesn't, you know it's time to go.

[lyrically_hypnotized]

Just because a girls walks away doesn't mean she doesn't care and never did: It means that she won't tolerate being treated as less than what she deserves. This article gives men the wrong "advice" about women. Just as there are good men in the world, there are also good women. A few bad apples shouldn't spoil the entire bunch.

My advice to all the insecure men out there? Take a moment to find yourself. Then, when you finally see what the rest of us do, get back out there and find your girl.

[alohasir]

Then how do the girl and guy know when they finally find the one that they cannot live without? I don't understand. There are so many relationships out there, but it doesn't seem like many of them stands the test of time. How do you know when you finally find the one you cannot live without? Comments, advice, tips, opinions anyone?

[Kelly34]

What you are missing is that you can only walk away if you have other options. Girls have options, most guys don't.

[irishgal]

Don't really get your point. What's the actual essay about? What was the answer to your essay question?

[Bleep]

I've been there, wish I had read this a long time ago. ;)

[thoronmegil]

Good article. Does generalize a bit, but often true.

[xp360]

Than you my man, it kind of make sense but still hurts as hell I feel like I am dying specialy cause we have a baby who is so adorable and wonderful

[mantobee]

if girls didn't find me and ugly and I wasn't single my entire life then maybe that would work

[The_Supid_Genius]

Well put buddy. With you every step of the way.

[Shaun]

Excellent advice, I hope more men take heed.